- Do you feel a bit uneasy in your relationship?
Maybe something just doesn't feel right.
The affection is disappearing.
The arguments are getting longer.
The interest is starting to fade away.
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And ladies, in this video, I will share
with you the six ways of how
to improve your relationship.
But just before I do do that,
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And without further ado let's start with number one:
Stop picking on small things.
Nagging, complaining, blaming him for the things
that he does that you do not like, well, it doesn't work,
'cause all you do is give him negative attention.
And yes, in the beginning it's actually fun
to see someone giving you a bit of negativity,
because it shows how much he care about you, right?
Yet after awhile it starts to become really irritating.
Even in the Bible, it says, "It's better to sleep
"on the roof than be in the same house with a naggy wife."
If you do not like things that he does,
there are other ways that are much more productive
and effective than nagging that actually give results,
such as setting in boundaries, for example,
where you aren't actually nagging,
but setting in a boundary with your action.
And as always, the boundary video you can find
just by following the link right here.
Number two, let go of the past.
When you do not like something that he did,
do not explode on him with all his past mistakes and things
that you potentially been holding in for a long time.
'Cause that is exactly how relationships crash.
He does little things off for a while,
let's say four or five months,
you sweep it under the carpet,
because you don't want to cause arguments.
And then four months later he does something off
and you explode on him with everything
that you've been holding in for the last or five months.
The outcome usually leads to breakups, power games,
or him say, "Oh, it's too much pressure,"
or, "I'm not good for you,"
or, "I feel like I'm not ready for a relationship,
"I think we are moving too fast," and so on.
So instead, stop him from doing something
that you do not like on a spot,
just not in a aggressive way.
You can stop disrespectful things
in even a fun and jokey way.
In fact, calling things out in a jokey,
casual way takes it much further than sitting a person down
for that serious conversation talk,
or exploding with all the problems
that you have about him in one go.
Number three, make yourself happy.
Do not rely on the guy for making you happy all the time.
He should never be a source of all of your happiness.
Not only that it makes you look needy.
It also puts a lot of pressure on him.
And how do you make yourself happy?
Well, do things that you like to do.
And what brings the most happiness
is usually personal growth, self-improvements in your life.
So maybe you have a hobby that you can expand.
Maybe, for example, you like to dance,
which can be a short-term of happiness if you just like
to dance and enjoy yourself,
yet it can become a longer-term happiness if you decide
to take the dancing classes to an extra level
and go all the way, for example, to a professional level.
And a lot of times we are not looking just for happiness.
We are looking for something that goes beyond that,
which is living a life with a meaning behind it
and serve others.
Number four, have a common hobby.
Having a common hobby that you both enjoy a lot
not only creates a beautiful connection,
but it also rekindles the relationship
when things aren't just going that well.
This is why it's so important to choose a partner
that you have things in common.
Maybe you both like to ski.
Maybe you both like to play chess.
Maybe you both are interested in psychology,
painting, sports, et cetera.
Number five, let him lead and pursue,
yet, appreciate him for it.
Let a man pursue you.
Wait it out for that message for him
to ask you out and arrange the date.
Have some patience and practice self-control,
do not act entitled to it
and be happy and open when he does it.
If he's charming, enjoy it.
If he's helping you out, appreciate it.
Number six, give each other space.
It is in the absence of a woman
that a man realizes his feelings for her
and the fights, arguments and picking on each other happens
when we spend too much time together.
A bit of space is gold in your relationship.
Do not look at it like it's a bad thing,
because it is not.
Now why it's not a bad thing and why men need to pull away,
please watch my video right here, or here.
So ladies, there were my six steps
on how to improve a relationship.
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Have a happy, happy new year, happy 2021.
I hope this year will bring everyone happiness,
abundance, love, prosperity.
May all your wishes and dreams come true.
Kisses from Dorset.