Whether you love them or hate them, feet are a very common fetish and many people have been
asking me for a video on this topic. So this is for you, for anybody curious, interested or wildly
keen on all things feet. So if you'd like to find out all there is to know about foot fetish,
keep watching! My name is Helena Nista and I make videos that help you have the best sex of your
life. And in this video I'm going to answer all the questions you might have about foot fetish.
The world of fetishes still holds many secrets, many unknowns and even some surprises. Despite all
the research there is still a lot we don't know about fetishes and why people have them. But what
we do know is that they are a normal and common part of many people's sex lives. And foot fetish
is one of the more common ones that my clients ask me about. So let's start with the basics:
what actually is it and what is it about. Foot fetish is a sexual interest in feet and it's
officially known as podophilia. The word 'fetish' itself means that a particular object causes
sexual arousal in someone. And what that means practically here is that a person is turned on by
feet. There is quite a lot of variety here and it can be about feet in general or more specifically
about toes, ankles or any other part part of the foot. Some people want to just look at them,
others desire to touch them. Many people enjoy painted toenails, foot jewelry or feet in
particular footwear like sandals or high heels, or even socks and stockings. Others don't care
so much for carefully pedicured feet and prefer them more odorous. So how common is foot fetish?
According to studies, feet are the most commonly fetishized body part. And while it's impossible
to tell how many people are into it, it is a fairly common fetish indeed. So why do some people
develop a sexual appetite for feet? The short answer is - we're still not sure. As it is the
case with any fetish, there isn't just one path to developing them. It seems that many different
things can play part here and many of the fetishes are developed during childhood. The most common
explanation for developing a fetish is having an experience where feet are somehow link to a highly
arousing experience. For example, when a partner pleasures your genitals with their feet and that
leads to a state of high arousal and pleasure. These two things - feet and arousal - can become
neurologically linked together, leading to a foot fetish. Another explanation is that genital
arousal is processed in the part of the brain that is right next to the part responsible for dealing
with sensations from feet. Another interesting theory that I once heard was that when a baby's
mother is quite busy, the child can develop a strong yearning for her. So if the baby or toddler
is often playing on the floor and they can see mother's feet rushing around or rushing away, the
feet can become the symbol for the yearning. And if she wears high heels, then later in life that
child can develop a fetish for feet in high heels. The appeal of feet can also be in the humiliation
aspect of it. To be at one's feet is considered disempowering or even submissive. So this fetish
can develop from a desire to play with domination and submission with a partner. But there can also
be countless other ways to develop a foot fetish. So how exactly do people play with feet when they
have a foot fetish? Well again, there's a lot of variety here and many options to play with.
Pedicures - giving your partner's feet a treatment or even painting their toenails. Foot massages -
feet are typically very sensitive so caressing, stroking or even tickling them can be a great way
to play. Foot photos - taking and sending photos of your feet to your lover is a fun option to try.
Shoe play - some people like to play with their partner's shoes, they like to hold them, kiss them
or lick them. Toe sucking - anything from very gentle kisses and smelling the feet, all the way
to intense licking and sucking. Genital rubbing - feet can be used to stimulate the genital area.
Toes can be even used for penetration but they're not as long or easy to navigate as fingers, so
keep that in mind. Trampling - which means walking on top of your partner's body. And finally,
foot worship - so adoring, bathing and caressing your partner's feet. Or even just being a human
footrest and allowing your partner's feet to rest on top of your body. If you're into feet and you
haven't discussed it with your partner yet, it might be time to do it. There are a few things
to keep in mind here. First of all, there is a big chance that they're not into it, which is okay.
Any preferences and desires in a relationship should be discussed with respect and consideration
for feelings of both people involved. You also need to keep in mind that they might have a lot
of questions here, since this might be a very new concept to them. Do your best to talk about
what you like, why you like it and how exactly you'd like to incorporate foot play into your
relationship. The unknown can be scary so do your best to put their mind at ease by being specific
about what you'd like. You might also need to do a bit of negotiation here, unless they're open
enough to this idea to be willing to try anything with you. But as is the case with any sexual play,
nothing should ever happen without an explicit and enthusiastic consent of both partners. Also,
be prepared to be patient. Your partner might need time to process things and to think things
through before any action is taken. But what if you're not into feet and your partner is? Please
remember that there's nothing wrong, inappropriate or shameful about having a foot fetish. And while
you don't ever have to do anything that you don't want to do, it can be helpful to be
open-minded. Many people can experience a mental barrier against anything that is not considered
common or normal by them. But this kind of mindset can be limiting you and what is possible for you
and your partner in the bedroom. So make sure to hear your partner out and be respectful towards
their feelings and preferences. Also, remember that it's okay to start slow. If you're not into
full on foot worship, you might be okay with your partner giving you a foot massage or a
pedicure. Be loving, considerate and kind and that will really pay off! Please let me know in the
comments below if you've ever been with a partner with a foot fetish. Or maybe you're the one into
feet? Please give this video a 'Like' to show your love and support for all the work that I do. Also,
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the description below. Thank you so much for watching! I hope that this was helpful and
that you got valuable information from this video. Have a fantastic day and I will see you next week!