the number one weapon that narcs use against us and how to beat them with it
ever wondered how and why narcs keep getting away with every horrible thing they do
hello lovelies welcome to nurturing formula my name is freedom thank you for joining me
so let's just jump straight into it shall we the narcs have a a secret weapon and it's because of
this one weapon that they use um that it works every single time so what's the weapon well the
weapon is that they pretend to be someone who they're not so they pretend to be just like us
right that's the weapon there we believe that they're human and that they're just
like us and so therefore we believe that they share the same human values human beliefs and
human desires for example we think that you know they're human so therefore that they
want peace that they want love and happiness and stability you know they care about their families
um we also believe that they'll fight fair they'll let bygones be bygones they'll forgive and forget
you know because ultimately they're just like us and that they really want peace
this illusion is our downfall this illusion is how they keep winning this illusion makes
us apologize to them for hurting their fake feelings it makes us trust them it makes us
believe them and fall for every single trick in their narc book i mean it works and this is the
thing it actually works every single time until it doesn't when we finally snap out of it until we
realize that at best they are emotionally stunted and at worst they're pathological predators
con artists and users who will take everything you have and destroy you in the process
so you need to snap out of this illusion fast and realize you cannot trust them
they will betray you they'll do it all over again if given half the chance
um you have to start seeing them as what they are so essentially this is war i mean they are
the enemy we were in a war in our relationships we didn't realize and trying to get away from
them it's also still the same war this is battle strategies um and just like in a real war you do
not confide in the enemy you do not um you do not fund the enemy you do not fuel the enemy you don't
help them fight the war against you because that's what they're doing because if you try to
get away from them they're narc injured if you um if they discarded you and you didn't grovel
up and beg and plead and carry on the way you were supposed to they're narc injured so now
they want to destroy you if they can't control you they will want to destroy you so you need to
as i said snap out of this illusion you're not two exes co-parenting you're not two exes who are now
friends they are the enemy and they will destroy you if they have any opportunity to do it so if
you remember that every single thing that they say and do is a lie and a manipulation that's a really
good um position of power to be coming from this takes away their power okay just remember that
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to link a playlist here um about doing no contact like a boss because um i still see a lot of people
thinking like i said that they can be friends that they can co-parent and you know talk to each other
on the weekends and hang out and spend some time and no no that's exactly how they get away with
everything they're doing okay because you're not seeing them for the threat they are they are not
just like us as i said they are pathologically predators is that right predators yeah that's
what i was looking for pathological predators you know users people who will take whatever they want
people who will destroy you if given half the chance and don't fall for the fake tears and the
fake hurt emotions none of that's real okay they can bung that stuff on um just like an actor you
know crying on cue uh they can cry and on cue and they will cry if they think it's gonna get them
you know the outcome that they're looking for just remember everything's premeditated with this lot
they're not like us their tears are not genuine so don't fall for it
all right lovelies get night friends staying up free thanks for listening bye
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