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OKAY.
LET'S FACE IT.
NOT EVERYONE CELEBRATES
VALENTINE'S DAY.
HALF OF AMERICAN ADULTS ARE
SINGLE.
A LOT OF US ARE STILL LOOKING
FOR A DATE.
AND HERE TO HELP IS LOCAL
DATING COACH JILL -- THANKS SO
MUCH FOR COMING IN.
PLEASURE TO BE HERE.
ANYBODY WHO'S BEEN SINGLE
DURING VALENTINE'S DAY CAN BE A
BUMMER OF A HOLIDAY BUT YOU SAY
NOT SO FAST.
IT'S A GREAT TIME OF THE YEAR
TO BE SING?
I THINK IT'S A GREAT TIME TO
BE SINGLE ESPECIALLY FOR GUYS.
IT'S ONE OF THOSE HOLIDAYS
WHERE YOU LOVE IT OR HATE IT.
YOU PROBABLY LOVE IT.
IF YOU'RE SINGLE YOU'D RATHER
LET IT PASS AND GET ON TO THE
NEXT PART OF LIFE.
BUT AS A COACH I DON'T KNOW ANY
SINGLE WOMAN THAT DOESN'T WANT
TO FEEL SPECIAL DURING THIS
TIME OR WOULD PREFER THAT.
SO THERE'S PLENTY OF REMINDERS.
IF YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP,
JUST FEEL FREE TO SEND HER
SOME FLOWERS.
EXACTLY.
MAKE SOME SORT OF MOVE.
SHE'S GOING TO BE MORE
RECEPTIVE.
SHE REALIZED YOU KNOW WHAT?
I WANT NEXT YEAR TO BE
DIFFERENT.
THAT GREAT GUY, IF HE'S AROUND,
I'M GOING GIVE HIM A CHANCE.
CELEBRATE BEING SINGLE RIGHT
NOW.
HOW IS THE TWIN CITY'S DATES
MARKET.
IT'S A MIXTURE OF EVERYTHING
IN ALL HONESTY.
I'M OF THE OPINION THAT
MINNEAPOLIS IS ONE OF THE BEST
PLACES TO BE SINGLE.
THAT'S GREAT NEWS.
THAT IS.
I STAND BY IT.
I WILL FIGHT TO THE END FOR
THAT.
WHY IS THAT?
I THINK THERE'S A LITTLE BIT
OF EVERYONE AVAILABLE.
SO WE'VE GOT SINGLE OF ALL
DIFFERENT AGE GROUPS OF ALL
DIFFERENT BACKGROUNDS AND
PRETTY ACTIVE CITY FOR SINGLES.
SO THERE'S OPPORTUNITY THERE IF
YOU'RE ABLE TO GET OUT AND
BUILD YOUR LIFESTYLE.
SO HOW DO YOU ATTRACT THE
RIGHT KIND OF PERSON?
I SAY FIRST OF ALL I'M A BIG
PROPONENT OF BUILD YOUR
LIFESTYLE IN A WAY THAT'S
ATTRACTIVE FOR YOU.
JUST LIVE YOUR LIFE AND IF
YOU'RE SEEING PEOPLE, COME IN
CONTACT WITH NEW PEOPLE ALL OF
THE TIME.
THEY'RE GOING TO WONDER WHAT
IT'S ABOUT AND GET TO KNOW YOU
EVEN FURTHER.
SO YOU ARE A DATING COACH.
YES.
SO YOU GIVE ADVICE TO THOSE
GOING ON SOME FIRST DATES.
WHAT ARE THE DOS DON'TS?
I'M INTERESTED IF YOU CAN GIVE
MEN ADVICE OF FIRST DATES.
I WANT TO MAKE THIS SIMPLE.
PLEASE.
FIRST OF ALL, I WOULD SAY GO
SOMEWHERE WHERE YOU CAN HAVE A
CONVERSATION WHERE YOU CAN HEAR
EACH OWN.
GET TO KNOW THEM.
PAY FOR THE DATE TO MAKE IT
SIMPLE.
FOR SOME GUYS IT'S AGAINST
THEIR POLICY.
THEY HAVE DIFFERENT ATTITUDES
ABOUT IT.
IT'S GETTING CONFUSING WHAT
SHOULD HAPPEN BUT TO KEEP THE
ROMANTIC PROPONENT MAKE IT
ABOUT THE WOMAN B. CONFIDENT,
KNOW NO.
CRYING, NO TALKING ABOUT PAST
RELATIONSHIPS.
NO CRYING.
OKAY?
RULE NUMBER ONE.
NONE.
ALL RIGHT.
SAW IN.
YOU HEARD IT.
PAY FOR THE DATE.
HELP ANYONE GET TO A DATE;
RIGHT?
ONE OF MY BEST SUCCESS
STORIES.
I LOVE HIM.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR
JOINING US THIS MORNING.
KEEP ASKING.
IT'S 6:42.
THAT'S THE LESSON.
YOU CAN'T ASK FOR IT.
YOU NEED TO HAVE IT COME TO
YOU.
YOU CAN GET A DATE BY JUST
SWIPING AN APP IN YOUR PHONE.
SURE.
THAT'S MADE IT HARD TORE CREATE
CHEMISTRY AND MAKE REAL CEKS.
DATING COACH AND DON'T ATTRACT,
CHASE.
TALK ABOUT THIS TECHNOLOGY
ASPECT.
WE'RE FASCINATED BY TINDER.
JUST THE IDEA.
DID YOU RUN INTO A LOT OF THAT.
TRYING TO FIGURE OUT THE WHOLE
ONLINE DATING LANDSCAPE IS
I DO.
I'M FASCINATED BY IT MYSELF.
I TEND TO HAVE HIGHER RATINGS
THAN OTHER PEOPLE DO.
I THINK OTHER PEOPLE IT'S HURT
STATING IF THE SENSE BUT -- IT
YOU THINK ABOUT THE OFFER IT'S
DON'T GO WRITER.
I'M DPOIMG YOU A CATALOG.
PICK WHATEVER UNYOU WANT.
IT ON A THEY THEM.
YOUR LIFE WILL BE GREAT.
SET UP THE BORKSES THAT YOU
X OFF.
YES.
MAKES IT EASY TO DISQUALIFY
SOMEONE THAT MIGHT BE GREAT.
YOU DON'T GET AN ACCURATE
SENSE.
ONCE GO GET IN PERSON YOU'LL
LOOK -- YOUR PERSONALITY IS A
LITTLE BIT DIFFERENT.
THE FOOD DOESN'T TASTE ADAGIOS.
EVERYTHING IS NOT QUITE MEETING
MY EXPECTATION.
OLDER POEM LOOK AT THEET
THEESES DATING APPS AND ONLINE
DATING.
I DON'T THINK TIPPEDDER IS MORE
RIDICULOUS THAN LIKE RANDOMLY
GOING UP TO SOMEONE IN A BAR.
TRUE.
WHY IS ONE BETTER?
IT'S JUST --
YOU'RE STILL DOING IT ON THE
SUPERFICIAL LEVEL.
LET'S GO TALK TO HER.
EXACTLY.
TO ME, ONE WAY OR THE OTHER
DOESN'T MARRY.
IF YOU MEET SOMEBODY AND IT HAS
REAL POTENTIAL, DOESN'T MATTER
IF YOU MET ONLINE.
THEY'VE GOTTEN MARRIED FROM
MEETING ON TINDER.
RIGHT.
IT HAPPENS.
IT DOES.
LET'S TALK ABOUT THIS BOOK.
WHAT'S THE IDEA THERE?
I MEAN, YOU'RE TRYING TO MAKE
YOURSELF MORE ATTRACTIVE TO
OTHER PEOPLE RATHER THAN CHASE
THEM?
IS THAT THE GOAL.
EXACTLY.
IF YOU BUILD YOURSELF YOU FEEL
BETTER.
THEN YOU GO ABOUT LIVING YOUR
LIFE AND BASICALLY ALL OF YOU
HAVE TO DO IS SHOW UP.
THAT MAKES IT EASY FOR YOU.
PEOPLE HAVE A MILLION REASONS
WHY THEY COULD BEATTRACTED TO
YOU.
THIS HAS BEEN YOUR
EXPERIENCE.
JUST SHOW UP AND WAIT FOR THE
OFFERS TO COME IN.
TRUE.
IN YOUR BOOK AND AS OF A -- YOU
HAVE KIND OF AN APPROACH WHERE
YOU SAY PEOPLE NEED TO ASSESS
WHAT THEIR WORTH IS AS A
POTENTIAL MATE.
YES.
I CALL IT THE DATING MARKET
MILLIONAIRE TO DESCRIBE SOMEONE
WHO HAS BASICALLY A MILLION
THINGS TO OFFER ON THE DATING
MARKET.
AND IF IT'S A CONSCIOUS THING
AND YOU'RE AWARE OF IT, YOU CAN
BUILD UPON T. THAT'S THE
PROBLEM.
ON THIS VALENTINE'S DAY R
YOU SING IS -- SINGLE?
I AM NOT.
THE SYSTEM WORKS IS WHAT YOU'RE
SAYING
. VERY TRUE.
TRIED AND TESTED.