- Hey, everyone, it's Pastor Cal.
Work the jab. - Yay, thank you!
- And Dr. Pepper. Let's talk about sex.
- [laughs]
- You are from this moment engaged.
- I think I'm tearing up.
- This is "Married at First Sight:
Relationship Rewind."
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Each week, Dr. Pepper and I watch a clip
from the latest episode of "Married at First Sight,"
and we're gonna give you our honest, no BS reaction.
- This will be the very first time
we're watching this footage.
- And tonight, we're gonna be watching
a blow up honeymoon fight
between Clint and Gina.
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- Yesterday, I was just pretty offended
by the comment about the weight thing.
- So she's kind of searching about a way to broach this.
- Right, but you actually preluded to that.
- That's the wrong response. - That's right.
- And we're kind of the opposites as far as
like, what we're attracted to. - Yeah.
But there's a difference when you say someone's
not slender enough.
- Didn't even say "slender enough."
- Stop the tape. What did he actually say?
- Let's rewind.
- Typically, the girls that I have dated
are very athletic, slender.
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So I mean, that's just... - [sighs]
- The type of mold that I'm attracted to.
- Okay.
- She's saying what she heard. - What she--yeah.
- He didn't say it exactly that way.
- Yeah, but it is exactly what he meant.
- It's exactly what any woman would have heard.
- Any woman would have heard that.
- Let's continue.
- That's not the same thing. Like, that's what I'm saying.
Eye color, hair color, all of that.
My ex-boyfriend was a ginger. He had a bright red beard.
- Okay.
- Do you think the term "ginger"
is offensive to anybody? - No, not really.
- Hold it right there. - Whoa.
- See, right there, he should just say,
"To me, maybe not to you.:
- And the question is, is it offensive to him?
Is it offensive, or is he just using that
as an argument point.
- You don't think that that's an offensive term?
- I'm sorry, no, I've never been told it's offensive.
- Anyhow, I did not mean to offend you.
- Can we stop it here.
- I don't think either one of them are being honest.
- They're not.
- I think neither one of them are owning the fact
that they were insulted and hurt
and kind of said what they really felt.
What he should say at this point is say...
- I was hurt.
- You know, I was hurt, and it was a small, mean part
of me, and I regret it... - Yes.
- And I want you to forgive me. - Yeah.
If he had told her at that point,
"I consider that a derogatory statement..."
- Mm-hmm.
-" I want you to know that, that it bothers me."
- Totally agree, that would have changed
the whole temperature.
- It would've changed the whole thing.
She would've said, "Oh, my God. I didn't know.
- They've now made the other person feel unwanted,
undesired... - Yeah.
- Unattractive. - Yeah.
- And of course, now they're fighting about it
as opposed to trying to back away from it.
- Yeah, and everything they're talking about
is superficial. - It is.
- But let's keep going.
- My intent was for people
to know that I'm an honest, upfront person.
- Okay, well... - [laughs]
- And I'm not trying to besmirch anybody.
- That's totally fine. - That's his intent.
- What I need is someone... - What?
- That can read a room, and it was visibly rude
to everyone in the room 'cause the girls
actually brought it up today
and asked how I was feeling about it.
- Yeah. - Interesting.
I'm sorry you feel that way.
I'm just trying to be honest of like--
- Can you stop that for a second.
You know, and they both have said that.
This is not an apology. - No, it is not an apology.
- It's not an apology
when you say "I'm sorry you feel that way."
- You felt that way, right.
- 'Cause you're not really sorry I fell this way.
- Well, you're also saying you felt that way,
but you were wrong. - You were wrong.
- That's right. - Yeah.
So that is not an apology.
An apology is, "I'm sorry I said that.
"I'm sorry I was insensitive.
I'm sorry that I hurt you." - Yeah.
- So...
- Well, if you feel no--
you feel like you've said nothing wrong,
I honestly don't think there's anything left
to say in this conversation. - Okay.
- I think it's best for us for the duration
of this honeymoon to spend some time apart.
- Now she's just ending it?
- That's just-- that's just ridiculous.
- No, that's just not where she should go.
- I'm done. Yeah, thank you.
- You should be done. - Okay, yeah.
- You should be done. - Have a good day.
- Because she's got no leg to stand on.
What an unfortunate turn of events.
- She's got no leg to stand on? - Yeah.
- What's that about? Of course she--
- That means that he feels as though he's right,
she's wrong. It's just ridiculous.
- So when you lose,
you default to having to walk away.
That's adult. - When you lose?
- When you lose, that's interesting.
- Isn't that interesting? - It's a win, lose thing, yeah.
You lose--she didn't lose. - Yeah.
- This has been a game for her.
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All of a sudden, you're gonna villainize me
at the peril of making yourself look good.
- Oh, and now it's between who's gonna make who look good.
- Redemption here, it's hard to say,
but this is making me think.
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- That is the exact thing not to do...
- Right.
- Because it is the biggest insult.
- Yeah, it's a punishment,
and you know you're delivering it.
- You know you're delivering punishment,
but you're doing it also to send a strong message.
"I'm done with you." - You cannot do that.
- Do you think there is any right or wrong here?
- No, I think there's two wrongs here.
- I would agree completely. - I really do.
I'm so sorry, but--
- The first thing that came to mind
when I was watching this
is you never fight fire with fire.
You have to think resolution in every conversation,
now "how can I get you to see my point?"
- Right.
- I do believe that it can be salvaged.
All they need to do is to communicate selflessly
and talk with each other and not at each other.
- So I'm hoping that they can just back off this
'cause this is very upsetting. - It is.
Well, that is all the time we have
for this "Relationship Rewind." - We'll see you next time.
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