Friends, faculty, family, and the Tennessee
State University class of 2023.
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Who says you can't go home again?
Because I'm back.
Dr. Glenda Glover is the reason why I'm here,
because she is relentless.
You actually-- you don't know the meaning of no.
And she's been here a decade and has
been asking me for a decade.
I've been to so many graduations since I have 20 daughters
from my school in South Africa have
graduated in the United States.
And I have attended all of their graduations.
And I said, Dr. Glover, I just have
so many graduations to go to.
And she said, you must come.
And I'm so glad I did because--
(SINGING) I'm so glad I go to TSU.
I'm so glad I go to TSU.
I'm so glad I went to TSU you singing glory hallelujah.
I went to TSU.
Yes.
Thank you all for being here, family and friends
and for my family who all came out today.
I didn't know I had that many family members.
The whole Winfrey and Walker clan, thank you.
So I'm going to start with a confession.
I was supposed to graduate from TSU in 1975.
But I somehow managed to come up one credit short.
What can I say?
The school taught me many things.
But keeping track of my credits was not one of them.
And to be fair, I did have a lot on my plate at the time.
I was living at my father's house.
I was commuting from East Nashville every day.
Then I'd get home, and I'd work in my father's store.
And on, weekends I'd be reading news at WVOL.
So sophomore year, I was majoring in speech
communication and drama.
I'd wanted to be an actress, but my father
had proclaimed that no daughter of mine
is going to be on somebody's casting couch.
And so I decided, all right, I will teach.
But I was having some challenges, particularly
with my scenic design class.
It was taught by Mr. W. Dewey Cox, who declared in front
of the entire backstage crew where we
had our class in the theater--
and this is a quote--
"Winfrey cannot draw a straight line with a ruler."
So in his class one day, I got a call.
I got pulled out of Mr. Cox's lecture
to take a call from Chris Clark, who
was the lead anchor at WLACT Channel Five at the time.
He's now WTVF.
But he was the news director and lead anchor at Channel Five.
And Chris had heard me on WVOL Radio.
Don't ask me why Chris Clark was listening
to a Black radio station.
Jesus led him to it, I guess.
Anyway, he called me here at TSU and wanted
to know if I was interested in being in television.
And I said, no, sir.
TV?
No, not really, sir, because my father
says I have to finish school, and school
is just too important.
And I doubt that my dad would even let
me do it, something like that.
So Chris told me to just give it some thought
and get back to him.
And when I returned to Mr. Clark's class,
I repeated what Chris had said to me,
Chris Clark had said to me, that whole conversation.
And I said to Mr. Cox, I don't think my father
would even consider it.
Now, Mr Cox had a face like the lion from "The Wizard of Oz"
and a demeanor that nobody would ever call warm, or fuzzy,
or comforting.
And he looked at me as if I didn't have the brains
that God gave lettuce.
And he said, this is why you get an education, fool,
so that CBS, Channel Five will call you.
You and your father ought to know that.
He rolled his eyes.
And As he's walking away, he said, I'll tell him myself.
And he did.
So second semester sophomore year
here at TSU, I arranged for all of my classes
to be finished by 2:00 PM.
And from 2:30 to 10:30, I worked at the television station.
That left me just enough time to make it back for my father's
ironclad 11:00 curfew.
So I am doing the evening news, finished at 10:30.
And my dad is like, better be home by 11:00.
So by graduation, my career was in full swing.
And I didn't feel the need to pursue a diploma.
But for years, and I mean, long after I started
"The Oprah Winfrey Show," not a conversation with my father
would pass without him asking, when are
you going to get that degree?
So finally, in 1988, Dr. Jamie Williams-- bless her.
She just passed away recently-- allowed me to write a paper
and submit some of the shows I had done.
So I got my degree from Tennessee State
right about the same time I got my third Emmy.
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So it is true that between the studying,
and the multiple jobs, and all that commuting back and forth,
it took a little longer for me.
But I can promise you that you're
looking at a very proud graduate of the only state funded
historically Black university in Tennessee.
Home again.
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And I will tell you that the last thing I did before getting
into my burgundy Oldsmobile Cutlass and leaving Nashville
was to speak at the Faith United Baptist
Church Women's Day Celebration.
Bishop, you know Women Day.
And my sermon at the time revolved
around a single thought, and it's this.
I know not what the future holds,
but I know who holds the future.
And I want to tell you, I've been guided by the light
of God's grace my entire life.
People ask, what's the secret to my success?
It's because I lean into His grace
because life is always talking to us.
And this is what I do know.
When you tap into what it's trying to tell you,
when you can get yourself quiet enough to listen,
I mean, really listen, you can begin
to distill the still small voice, which
is always representing the truth of you
from the noise of the world.
And you can start to recognize when it comes your way.
You can learn to make distinctions,
to connect, to dig a little deeper.
You'll be able to find your own voice
within the still small voice.
You'll begin to know your own heart
and figure out what matters most when you can listen
to the still, small voice.
Every right move I've made has come from listening
deeply and following that still, small voice, aligning myself
with its power, with the source of power,
so that when I walk into a room just as cool as you please
and the fellas is either stand or fall down on their knees
and they say, that's a phenomenal woman.
And when I walk into that room, I come as one.
But I stand as 10,000 because everybody
that's ever come before me walks into that room with me.
My great, great grandfather, Constantine Winfrey,
born an enslaved man and couldn't write or spell
his name, but 10 years after the Emancipation Proclamation
had learned to read and had picked 10,000 bales of cotton
in exchange for 80 acres of land and became
the first person in my American lineage
to own his own property.
I come as one.
I stand as 10,000 has been my mantra for power
because for so many of my earlier years
when I was the only, I was the only woman,
I was the only person of color, the one nobody expected
to be in the room at the table on the anchor desk co-anchoring
the news here in Nashville in 1975,
walking into boardrooms in the '80s negotiating
deals to OWN my own show, not just do the show,
but to make as much money from it
as they were going to make off of me.
And at no time did I ever feel out of place, or not enough,
or inadequate, or an imposter.
Do not let the world make an imposter syndrome out of you.
Why?
Because I knew who I was.
And more importantly, I knew who's I was.
I didn't know the future, but I knew who
was in charge of the future.
And my job, just as your job is, to align
with God's dream for you.
And my prayer was always, use me.
Use me, God.
Show me how and who you need me to be because this is what I
will tell you, God can dream a bigger
dream for you than you could ever imagine for yourself.
I am living testimony of a lining and living history.
But my job today is to help you to commence to the next part
of your dream odyssey.
So let's talk about the right moves for that.
I've been thinking a lot about how much of your lives
have already been spent grappling
with the extreme complex issues of our time
because you are the generation that is forced to depend
on body cams to obtain justice.
And even then, accountability, as we've seen again and again,
can be so hard to come by.
You've witnessed the storming of the Capitol
and the death of civility.
You're acutely aware that voting rights are being gutted,
women's rights are being dismantled,
books are being banned, history is being rewritten.
The Supreme Court is being corrupted.
The debt ceiling is being held hostage.
The climate is changing.
The LGBTQ community-- the LGBTQ plus community is under attack.
The Cold War is back.
The leaders are behaving like children.
The children are being gunned down by military-grade assault
rifles.
We live on a planet where there is more than enough wrong
to keep you busy trying to make things right for the rest
of your natural life.
And unfortunately, you're going to encounter people who
will insist that it's not actually possible to make
any real difference.
But I believe Tennessee has a couple
of Justins just a few miles from here
who would respectfully disagree.
Representatives like Justin Jones and Justin J. Pearson
are using their lives to prove the cynics wrong.
And they're building on the legacy of giants, mentors
of mine like John Lewis, whose fight for justice
started right here in Nashville and who
now speaks to us from eternity.
Well, this is what I know for sure,
there will never be anything in your life
as fulfilling as making a difference in somebody else's.
Everybody here wants to see you take your integrity,
your curiosity, your creativity, your guts,
and this newfound education of yours
and use it to make a difference.
Everybody always thinks you got to go
do something big and grand.
I'll tell you where you start.
You start by being good to at least one
other person every single day.
Just start there.
That's how you begin to change the world,
by just being good to one other person.
It doesn't matter if it's a member of your tribe
or a stranger on the street.
I'm here to tell you that a little act of compassion
can be a lifesaver for somebody who receives it,
but also for you who offers it.
Just extend yourself in love and kindness to somebody.
And as my dear friend Maya always said,
love recognizes no barriers.
It jumps hurdles.
It leaps fences.
It penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.
And when you step out in love, you become someone's hope.
And I know that becoming hope in the world won't always be easy.
There will be times when you get to your wit's end.
But there's another old proverb that
says, when you get to your wit's end, remember,
that's where God lives.
I would add that when you get to your wit's end,
it's also a good idea to remember that you've been there
before because we are among the toughest, most resilient
people the world has ever seen.
And I'm just not talking about older generations.
Your generation has masked up and locked down for a pandemic
that ravaged the world.
You, my TSU friends, have trained for complicated times.
And I don't care how hard life after college gets--
and it's going to get hard--
we need you to dream big.
We need audacious thinkers.
Use my example.
I was one good TSU teacher, Mr. Cox, and one timely phone call
away from a career that would absolutely change my life.
That story is not just my own.
What dream are you one or two steps away from?
We also need generosity of spirit.
We need high standards, and open minds, and untamed imagination.
That's how you make a difference in the world, using who you are
and what you stand for to make changes, big and small.
And there will be times when making the next right decision
will be scary.
I'll tell you a secret.
That's how I've gotten through every challenge
without being overwhelmed, by asking,
what is the next right move?
You don't have to know all the right moves.
You just need to know the next one.
And it's OK to be scared.
In fact, if you weren't scared, I'd be scared for you.
But let me repeat something that the most extraordinary,
certainly, one of the most extraordinary ordinary men
I've ever known said.
May your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears.
Let your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears.
To me, that's a nine-word prayer.
And it came from a single individual who literally
changed the world by putting his own fears aside
for the people of his country.
Thank you, Nelson Mandela.
Now, you all have photos to bomb and diplomas to frame,
heels to change out of--
I don't know how you walk in them heels, Trinity--
neckties to handle your next of kin.
But I can't just tell you what desperate shape the universe
is in and send you on your way, so I'm going
to leave you with this instead.
The world is weaning itself off Russian fuel.
Electric cars are going mainstream across the globe.
That hole we punched in the ozone layer is healing.
Ukraine is still in there fighting for us all.
Finland joined NATO.
COVID is currently receding.
And there are human beings who very quietly donate
their bone marrow to strangers.
And this to me signals that the United States of America
may not be united, but we are not a finished product.
My point is anything is possible.
The wheels are still in spin.
Saints walk among us.
And as Nelson Mandela so brilliantly demonstrated,
it's better to be hopeful than fearful
if for no other reason than the fact
that hope brings us one step closer to joy.
And I leave you with this.
You have been prayed for and paid for not just tuition,
but paid for through the sacrifices
through the daily aggressions, through these discriminations,
the locked doors, the back doors, the barriers
broken down, through the humiliations, working two
and three jobs just trying to make ends meet and getting you
a little money, so you can have something to spend in college.
Every family member from generations
back who helped make this day possible,
you owe them a rising.
And your job is to come on up to the rising,
to meet the rising of your life, and know that your crown has
been paid for.
Put it on your head and wear it.
Congratulations.
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