When was the first moment
you knew I loved you?
Mm, I think
I think, um.
So at first you was trying to, you know,
you was trying to
play me out a little bit, like,
you know, like
like you didn´t love me like you loved me
you know what i´m saying.
But I think. I think, um
I can't remember what I said to you one time
When we was in the car?
When we was in the car,
I can't remember what I said to provoke this,
but, um
I'm like
Oh, I remember now.
I was like “you're not tired of me yet?”
And you was like “No, I love your dumb ass!”
So when was the first time that you knew i loved you?
Um...
really that first night.
No, but
remember that day?
Um,
I was in school
and
we weren´t going to see each other this day.
Hm-Mm.
But,
you came from, you know, west bubble
you came from
like an hour away - yes.
And you brought me breakfast
you brought me breakfast and you left.
So it wasn't like we was hanging out,
and, you know, we was chillin and cool,
It was just
You just bought me breakfast
and then you left.
But it was
It was a way.
It was a way to bring that breakfast.
It wasn't like you were around the corner. - yeah.
So I'm like, “Why?”
Why, why,
why would you
why would you do that?
Um
But of course, is because that´s like you-
it wasn't really for a reason,
Just because you love me, like - yeah.
because you wanted to.
That's love right there.
And I also knew, like food was the way to your heart.
Yes, and it still is.
So, you know. - yes.
But, um,
yeah, I, uh,
I just wanted to
even if it was for a second,
I just wanted to spend time with you.
And then just also
let you know I was thinking about you.
And I brought that right to class with me
You ate it in class? - I did.
Always have some food with me in class.
It´s horrible, but
I love that.
Is it my turn? - Hm-mm
Okay.
What is something you
never would have done if it wasn't for me?
Um.
I don't -
You know how
Justin Bieber sang “never say never”
But,
I feel like
I probably wouldn't have expressed
my feminine energy as much
cause, you know, when we met
I was very much a boy. - Hm-mm.
Giving Linard.
Very much boy, which I love
and I love the masculine parts of me.
Same.
but,
I was not
um
in safe enough spaces
for me to explore my femininity
because,
you know, it required a certain amount
of vulnerability of myself to really, like, explore my femininity.
So like, even, like comments other people will make, like friends,
family, stuff like that would say, like how much how different I am now,
or especially looks wise or even like mannerisms, stuff like that.
And it's because I had the, or you helped provide that
feminine safety, like, for me.
So I felt like, okay, I can do this to this degree or this way
or explore certain things or whatever without feeling like,
without it feeling like a judgy
type of space or, or feeling uncomfortable with anything.
It didn´t have to be judgy. - Right, Right.
Because I think that was it for for me where
so many different things that are a part of like who I am as a person.
has a lot to do with how I express myself
and I changed and explored the way I express myself.
Once I felt safe to.
That´s a great answer. I love that and I,
I'm grateful to have helped you explore that side of yourself.
Is it me or you? - No, I think it's me.
Okay.
How do you think we see love differently
and how does that affect us?
That´s a good question.
I think like our love languages, I mean we all, like
everybody has the same love languages,
but it's just like to different degrees.
And I think, you know, I think just the way
that we were brought up just differently,
it makes us see love differently.
Like for me, in the way that I was brought up,
like, that's why
we are going through something in the house, go get a gift.
You know what i´m saying, like,
just go get something from the store real quick, and we´ll be all right.
And I had to realize like, no, that's not the way that you handle conflict.
And it wasn't until, like, realizing that
I needed to learn
how to love you the way that you needed to be loved.
Like, you know, of course you still like nice things.
And I like to, you know,
take you out and do stuff like that, but just
actively listening to you, like,
just actively affirming you, just like being there for you and
there was a time period when we first got together that
I think both of us were misconstruing our love for each other.
Like not understanding that we both deeply loved each other,
but we had to kind of explore
how to do it the right way for the other person.
Yeah, I would agree with that.
Yeah, I agree.
I love these questions. - Yeah, me too
I'm here.
When do you feel the sexiest around me,
and what does it teach you about yourself?
Hmm?
cause you know I´m sexy all the time.
okay. - but...
Um, can you repeat the question one more time?
Okay, Sure.
You got caught up in your sexiness?
yes. - okay.
When do you feel the sexiest is around me
And what does it teach you about yourself?
Um, this is a hard question, surprisingly.
Oh my god.
When I am like, being myself. - Hm-Mm.
Like my truest self.
Like I'm doing something with my hair,
or my makeup or like
I'm trying different stuff with my clothes
or whatever
that´s when like i feel...
because, you know, you always be like, “wow!”
Or like,
you know what I mean?
I'm like, and then I'll be like, “Wow, really?”
“really for real?”
That don't even have anything to do with sexiness.
But it makes me feel more beautiful.
Yeah.
Because, you know,
I feel like I don't have to be a certain way
or do something a certain way.
And then that´s sexy, like, you know what I mean?
It's like me just being myself
or even when, like, I'm just hopping out of the shower
and like, everything is washed off and you're like, “wow”
Like when you do, the really big one.
and then shake your head.
“wow!”
I mean it though.
and i´m like “thanks! thanks!”
I think for me it's like,
it's like a
I think you like love,
like parts of me and parts of my body that like I just never like,
I never like, enjoyed about myself.
I feel like it makes me feel sexier because it's like,
dang! like, all right, so like,
i got one little tiddy, one big tiddy.
let me just put it out there, you know what i´m saying.
and like, you know, but just like,
you know, not even just to be funny, but
it just means so much to me or like,
or like sometimes
sometimes it feels like you want to jump into my skin.
the way you just like or like I remember,
like, the day last week or was it last week or whatever.
But I was like, rushing.
I had to, like, go somewhere
and you were like
like, all, like on top of me, holding me like
and kissing me, like, “I just don´t want you to go!”
I feel like that just makes me feel not only sexy, but just like,
Oh, wow, Like I'm really loved.
and I feel like love makes me feel sexy.
you know what i´m saying.
that's a good connection. - yeah
Yeah. And you make me feel cute, too.
Oh, okay. Cute, sexy, loved.
All of those things.
Like, I feel like
I feel like you do all of those things for me,
and I feel like that's why I'm like, so in love with you.
mmm. - you know?
i like this.
your turn.
didn´t i go?
or did you? - no...
what do you need to hear from me?
Um,
what do i need to hear from you?
that...
you gonna have my babies?
you gonna have them?
Yeah. - Okay Cool.
Oh, that's all I need to hear.
You didn't., You didn't told me that already.
Yes.
but I need to hear it again.
Later. - Later. Okay.
All right.
Why am I in your life?
Hmm,
well, thankfully, you're just a blessing
from the creator.
But I think that, um
Well, I know that
as much as you have purpose in my life,
I feel like I have purpose in yours.
Like we're very much like, ying and yang
and balance each other out.
Mm hmm.
there has to be something higher than just me and how I feel or whatever.
And the reason why we're together,
because of things that we have learned and that I've learned from you,
has like completely elevated me as a person, as a woman, as a human being,
and as your partner,
like, as your girlfriend, like as your,
you know what I mean, bestie
Like, I feel like
I'm just supposed to learn things from you.
Of course I'm supposed to give back, which I feel like I do, but like,
I'm just supposed to learn a lot.
I mean, I've already learned so much, but like,
same - we´re just supposed to like
really just supposed to be teaching each other a lot.
beacuse, like,
I'm just a totally different person than I was when we first met.
Yeah, me too, girl, me too. I'm so happy you are in my life.
Yeah, me too.
Yeah. I love you, honey.
I love too.
It's your turn.
Is there something that you´ve
always wanted to tell me or want to tell me that you never have?
Um,
Um, no, not really.
I feel like I tell you a lot of stuff.
Um,
hmm...
I wish I could tell you that,
Oh, i got one.
I wish I could tell you that, um,
Well, I'm telling you so I ain't wishing.
but, um,
but some things that look really easy for me,
like, aren't really that easy.
They just kind of look that way.
Like,
I don't know, like, sometimes I just feel like
I walk down a street and blessings just happen
and that is true,
But I feel like the stuff that happens to me
before those blessings happen aren't the easiest.
And I feel like sometimes it might just look like
oh, you know, you just, you just killing it.
and is like, Girl, I am winging it.
Okay?
but yeah, so that´s all.
But I feel like you kind of know that already.
Yeah.
I am greatfull to watch it in real time.
for sure, it is really real time.
Real time.
If this were to be our last conversation ever,
what would you never want me to forget?
mm.
i pray this isn´t our last conversation, cause, you know,
we got “6 ever”.
and you know, this means pass forever.
So I'm, uh,
I'm just happy to be on this journey with you,
and thank you for letting me experience you the way that I have so far.
i love that.
i love that too.
i love you too, mama.
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