You deserve the love you're trying to give everyone else
listen further as I explain to you
the three keys to finding Mr Right.
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Hey, what's up everybody, this is Stephan Labossiere
aka Stephan Speaks
here to provide you with relationship,
dating, life advice,
you name it, I'm here to talk about it
and help you along the journey to receiving and experiencing
better in your life and in your relationships.
So, today we're going to be discussing the three keys
to finding Mr. Right.
Now, let me say this real quick
because I see that a lot of people tend to be triggered
by the word finding.
And they maybe start saying well,
a woman is not supposed to be looking for anything.
And I agree as far as
it's not your job to go searching out there so to speak.
However, finding does not mean
searching or in pursuit of said technically,
it just, it, it can also mean coming upon something.
So, it's like if you do what you're supposed to do in your life,
and you meet a man you found that man.
So, don't be triggered by the word find.
It's, is not what you think it is,
is still appropriate in the context of what we're discussing.
But also, understand that
there is effort that has to be made
on the woman side or any person's side
that wants to receive something in their life.
But we're going to talk about the three keys to finding Mr Right.
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how, how do you think,
what do you think is the key to finding Mr. Right?
And just in general, what do you think about this video
and the things that I'm about to lay out for you?
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The Man God Has for You:
7 Traits to Help You Determine Your Life Partner.
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as well as the comments section
that will take you to the audio version of the book
if you prefer to listen rather than read.
So, let's move on to
the keys to help you find Mr Right.
So, key number one,
stop entertaining Mr. Wrong.
So, here's the thing, all right.
And you may say to yourself right now,
I'm not entertaining anybody and that's cool.
However, you may find yourself in a situation
where you are tempted
to engage with and entertainer a man that
deep inside you know is not best for you.
But you figure well, I'm not seeing anyone else
let me give it a try.
He's the best option available.
I'm not getting any younger.
Whatever else you're convincing yourself
to move forward with this individual.
And that is a set up for disaster.
Entertaining and engaging with Mr. Wrong
whether you are single and will come across Mr. Wrong,
or you're currently dealing with him,
he is blocking the path to receiving and finding Mr. Right.
And we have to remove him
and remove that blockage that he creates.
You have to allow yourself to be
open to receiving that man that's truly best for you.
And you can't do that when you're
emotionally occupied
by someone else.
Especially someone else that's only going to
create more damage and hurt in your life.
That's the other danger of entertaining Mr. Wrong,
is that even in situations where you think it may be
harmless and it's just a temporary thing,
if anything goes wrong in that situation,
which is most likely going to,
you can get easily caught up,
you can get damaged.
It's now going to make it harder for you
to be receptive to the right guy.
To even believe the right guy exists
or you will not carry insecurities and baggage
from the situation with Mr. Wrong
into your relationship with Mr. Right.
So, you have to be mindful of that
and you have to be mindful of only maintaining
healthy relationships
in your life to generate more
healthy relationships and to generate the type of relationship
that you desire romantically.
So, get Mr. Wrong out of the way.
So, number two key to finding Mr Right
is becoming Mrs. Right.
The reality is that
a lot of women are sitting back
saying I'm just putting it in God's hands
and then when that man comes,
the man who's for me is going to show up.
Listen, that's not the way to go about things because
there's a process we must all go through
to receiving all the blessings that God has for us.
Whether it'll be career, health,
romantically, you name it.
There's, there's, there's a process we have to walk through.
There are things that we have to learn,
there are things that we have to grow in,
and we have to improve on our end.
So, what is best
is to become your best you.
To focus on your growth, to focus on okay,
if I want this great amazing man, this great relationship,
what do I need to work on to be ready for that?
How do I prepare myself
for exactly what I desire?
So, if you know for example,
you are not the greatest at communicating,
communication is something you need to work on.
You need to be focused on that right now.
If you know that you're always tired,
you're frustrated, you're stressed a lot
you don't know how to relax.
These aren't good qualities to take
into a relationship.
They will easily blow up a relationship.
So, let's start working on your
learning how to de-stress yourself,
relax, take care, take better care of yourself.
You've got to really create an awesome
version of you. Now, I know some of you may be thinking, well,
I've seen plenty of women
who got plenty of issues
with a man,
but you don't know what that woman is going through.
You don't know the real deal behind it,
going on behind closed doors.
And the price she is paying,
the price she paid to get it
and the price she is going to pay to keep it.
All right, so don't be too quick
to compare yourself to other people with issues.
And don't be fooled
people who carry baggage
into relationship and don't work on themselves
end up paying a price,
that relationship will suffer. Some do survive,
but the some that survive is a minority.
The majority end up suffering more damage.
End up eventually losing the relationship
and now they're back at square one.
I don't want you to end up back at square one.
I want you to set yourself up for long-term success.
So, you don't have to go through this process
any more.
So, key number three or tip number three
on finding Mr. Right, but again, you know what I always do.
One more time, get the book The Man God Has For You.
It's an awesome book. You're going to love it.
It's helping so many women.
Click the link in the description,
click the link in the comment section.
You can either get it in an audible,
you can get it in paperback, you can get it in e-book,
however you like.
Just make sure you get it, all right.
So, check it out. And be sure to tell me what you think about it.
I love hearing feedback
from anyone who's read my books, or any of my work out there.
So, now, tip number three
on receiving or finding, Mr Right.
And typically, I would say,
finding God or strengthen your relationship with God,
which is a key, which is important.
But let's let that be like a bonus there,
we're just going to have set to the side for a second.
And the third tip to finding Mr. Right
is really about healing from your past, all right.
The reality is that and this kind of goes
in connection with number two
becoming your best you, because the reality is that
to become your best you,
you need to heal.
You've got to be able to
address past issues and past hurts and disappointments.
So, let that be your huge
focal point for you right now because
as I mentioned earlier,
if you have not healed
your ability to not just receive,
but even recognize Mr. Right for who he is
will be hugely impaired,
all right. You will have a great struggle
embracing a good man for who he is.
And you're more likely to either run from him
or sabotage the situation altogether.
And so, you don't want to set yourself up for
a relationship that could have been amazing.
But you let it slip out of your hands.
Now, you may have already experienced this
and I don't want you to feel bad and beat yourself up if you have.
I want you to recognize that if you want to break that cycle,
healing is where it's at, all right.
You've got to really grab hold of that,
look into that,
do what's necessary to get the healing.
So, let me just mention to you real quick,
if you want some healing,
if you're ready to go down that path,
I can't do one on one
class anymore right now, I have too much going on,
but I do have a special coaching program,
it's called the manifest the man God has for you program.
It goes beautifully with this book.
It goes beautifully with this video
and it's going not only help you with healing,
it's going to help you in finding your purpose,
it's going to help you with being happy and healthier overall.
So, even though the title is
manifest the man God has for you,
it's really about manifesting the life God has for you.
And in that, you'd be able to
not just receive that great man,
but be able to cultivate an amazing relationship with him.
So, you can also find that link
in the description and in the comments below.
It's an amazing program and, and
you'll also get
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click the link, get the details, you'll be good to go.
So, like I said,
healing is important. So again,
quick recap,
stop entertaining Mr. Wrong,
become Mrs. Right
and focus on healing.
And of course the bonus is
strengthen your relationship with God
because that's always going to help you along in your journey,
that's going to help you focus because again,
notice the title doesn't say the man for you
or the man you want for you.
It's the man God has for you.
So, if you want that guy,
the guy that God knows is best for you,
that will be able to pour into you the way is necessary,
then you got to follow the path God wants you on.
And that is all included in everything I'm providing you.
So, again, like the video, subscribe,
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and I hope these videos are truly helping you.
And also, feel free to leave
suggestions in the comments about
what you want me to talk about in future videos.
I will be doing this for a long time.
So, I need, I want all the suggestions that you guys have,
but again, thank you for watching
and I look forward to seeing you in the next video.
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