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S: Hello everyone H: Hello
S: It's my special day H: Oh my god, it's beginning already
S: [laughs] I feel like I should wear a crown
S: Did you make a crown for the occasion? H: I did not make you a crown
H: Did I get a crown when it was my special day?
S: No, that's true, that's a good point H: Yeah
S: But you're so beautiful you don't need a crown
H: Oh my god
S: A few weeks ago we did a video where I told you all the things that I love about Hannah
S: The things that made me fall in love with her
H: Yeah S: And that was wonderful and sweet and cute
S: But I felt left out, I felt like I didn't get enough praise in that video
H: Oh yeah? S: I'm kidding, I'm kidding of course
S: We always planned to do a video about the opposite
H: The opposite, yes, and so now it's Shane's special day
S: I'm rambling because I'm uncomfortable
S: About having to listen to Hannah just praise me and just take it
H: We should just switch again because I was comfortable hearing the praise actually
H: And I'm less comfortable giving the praise
S: I'm so self deprecating that if anyone says anything nice about me
S: I'm like "yeah but did you forget that I also suck"
S: I can't take praise of any kind
H: Well this is gonna be fun then, I'm excited to see your reactions
S: Everything you say I'm gonna be like "that's not true" [laughs]
H: So without further ado, here are the things that made me fall in love and marry Shane
[intro song] Hello, hello, welcome to the show, welcome to the show
Welcome to the show, it's time to talk about our lives [Chloe bark]
H: Alright the first one is starting off easy, like this is a...
H: What's it called in baseball, like a slow ball or something?
H: You know when someone... a slow pitch? Easy ball?
S: Oh like a... yeah, yeah H: You know when someone tosses you a...
S: I know the word H: What is the word?
S: A softball? H: It's a softball, yeah
H: It's a softball question, like that yes, this is a softball question
S: Took us a minute, alright
H: I just thought you would know it right away
S: I know the phrase, I just.. H: You didn't think of it
S: This is a curveball
H: So anyway, this one's obvious and simple, but Shane's sense of humor
H: Now obviously a lot of people think that Shane is very funny, I am one of those people
H: I think he's hilarious, but beyond that we have a literal identical sense of humor
H: There is nothing that one of us finds funny that the other one does not
H: So without a doubt if he sends me a meme he saw online
H: Or I tell him that we have to watch this show that I heard about
H: We always agree on whether or not it's funny
H: Which makes it really easy, like we can watch the same shows together
S: Yeah, so this is actually a complement to you
S: Because if we have the same sense of humor and I have a very good sense of humor
S: By the transit and property of humor you also have a good sense of humor
H: That's not a thing, we have the same sense of humor, I don't do jokes like you do
H: You're good at being funny, that's different than having a sense of humor
H: Like I appreciate your jokes and you make them
H: That's different than me being like "I'm also equally funny", that's not it
S: Aww, it's just more praise, aww
H: See, you like to be praised, you lied before
S: I think I'm getting used to it, this is nice
S: Hannah and I, in our typical day to day life, and I think this is normal
H: Yeah S: We don't walk around praising each other
H: Yeah, that's true
S: Like we'll be like "oh you look nice today"
H: Or we'll be like "that was really funny", we'll do stuff like that, but not grand praise
H: Like "overall you are a very funny person", that's not a normal thing to say
S: "Good morning Hannah, I think that you are a very funny person"
H: "You're very kind overall"
S: Alright so I'm really freaking funny, that's number one, number two..
S: Thank you to Google for sponsoring this portion of the video
S: We all know that having a good solid strong password is the most important part
S: Of online safety, and I have to admit, I have not always been very good about that
H: I feel like that's an understatement
S: A few years ago I used the same password for all 100 plus of my online accounts
S: And it was not a very good password
H: Uh huh, was the password "password" by any chance?
S: I'm not going to say H: Was it "Shane"?
S: I'm not going to say, I will say that Google did a study
S: And they asked people what passwords they've used in the past
S: And 24% of Americans that they had used 1 of 7 very obvious passwords, like...
H: 1234 S: 12345, 11111
S: Things that are very easy to guess H: Yeah
S: It's a bad thing, and it eventually created a problem
S: I woke up one day to an email saying that one of my accounts had been accessed
S: In another country, and I was like "oh boy" and that day was not very fun
S: Because i got more and more emails as this person opened up all of my accounts
S: That used that same easy password, so not a fun day
S: But thankfully that day led me to get a lot smarter about my passwords
S: By using Google's password manager
H: Google's password manager creates strong passwords for you
H: So they'll be better than Shane's password, whatever it was
H: Shane password, maybe it was Burcaw S: Shane 111
H: Shane 1, I don't know... they also store your passwords for you
H: Because we all know that you make an account
H: You think you're gonna remember the password, I do it all the time
H: And then the next day you're like "what did I make it?"
H: Especially when you're trying to use good passwords
H: And not just the same simple word for all of your accounts
S: And my favorite feature about Google's password manager is that it autofills in your password
S: Whenever you visit any of the websites that you frequent
S: I, like I said, have over a hundred accounts online
S: Which I don't really know how that's possible but I somehow do
S: And I would never remember all of those so when I visit any website
S: I don't have to think about my password, Google just fills it in for me
S: And it's wonderful knowing that I have great passwords that are safely stored online
S: And they fill in automatically, I love it H: It's amazing
H: Using Google's password manager to create, store and fill in your passwords
H: Is an easy, simple, safer way to manage passwords and ultimately keep you safe online
S: Visit the link in our description below to learn more
S: And make sure that your passwords are better than Shane123
S: Although if your name isn't Shane... maybe Both: [laugh]
H: Thank you Grow with Google for sponsoring that portion of the video
H: Now back to what I love about Shane
H: Number two, are you impressed I'm not using notes or anything?
S: I am, yeah H: Like I have this listed in my head
S: You're just making these up as you go H: No, I prepared
S: Have you thought of three yet? [laughs]
S: And that's the end of the video, he's really funny everyone
S: And that's why I married him H: Oh my god
H: Actually, I'm gonna consult my notes S: [laughs]
S: Can I just say that we are sitting in our sun room right now
S: And the sun is coming through the windows and my arm and my leg
S: Are on fire right now because of the sun H: You felt like that was necessary to say?
S: Well, okay, I am sweating and I felt like they can tell
H: Oh S: Maybe they can't
S: But I just wanted to explain why I'm sweating right now
H: Wow, okay, well I hope you can hold on a little longer
S: I can make it... "He's so strong", that's gonna be number three
H: No, that is actually not on my list, alright I'm gonna go on now
H: Number two is Shane's thoughtfulness, he is very thoughtful
H: This was from the literal first day that we ever knew each other
H: It is the thing that sticks out about him most
H: Every time I would come to visit, I would show up to his parent's house
H: And there would be a giant pile of snacks, all my favorite snacks, on the bed
H: I would be visiting for like one night and there'd be this huge mound of food
H: That I might enjoy, he would really go out of his way to make sure
H: That I knew that he cared about me, and he still does that today
H: Whether I'm folding laundry and he's offering to sit there
H: And make me laugh while I'm doing it, or if I don't feel well and he's ordering food all day long
S: All day long [laughs] H: There's a lot of food parts
H: But I'm just saying, Shane always goes out of his way to make sure
H: That I am taken care of
S: "Hannah, I know that you have the flu, hun, and I feel so bad"
S: "But I got you this yellow curry and I hope that you'll eat it"
S: "And on the way I have a pizza" H: No, you always hit the mark
H: You do a good job, it's not like things were I'm like "oh he meant well, but..."
H: Like you usually nail it, you know? You're really good at it, it's a skill
S: Aww, thank you H: You're welcome
H: Now he's getting embarrassed, he has nothing more to say
S: I don't have a joke, I did my only joke I had
S: Alright number three, where's my crown?
H: Number three is Shane's brain, his intelligence, his smartness
S: Look how big my head is H: He's got a big brain in there
S: She's talking about the actual size of my brain
H: The organ itself, yes, anatomical organ, no
S: It doesn't work but it's big, see how big my head is?
H: Oh my god. In our early years when we were long distance
H: All we had to do was Facetime for hours and hours every single day
S: Wasn't that fun? H: It was fun, and all we had to do was talk
H: That was the only thing we could do, we couldn't go on dates
H: We couldn't do anything else, all we could do was talk
H: And every single one of those hours was incredibly perfect
H: Because we're perfectly matched for conversation, we're interested in the same topics
H: And especially with me being in college at the time, I would tell Shane
H: About all the things I was learning in class, he would get the books that I was reading
H: In my Sociology classes and read along with me
S: I forgot about that H: Almost every book
S: Not read along like out loud, I mean that week I would read the same book as her
H: That is so adorable, and we would have discussions about it
H: We just are very nicely matched in what we're interested in talking about
H: And I value Shane's opinion, I ask him his opinion on way too many things that I do
H: Because I really trust his brain S: Say more about how big and smart I am
S: How big and smart my brain is H: [sighs] Oh my god
S: Here, knock on my head H: I take it back
S: Knock on my head H: I take this whole video back
S: Solid, built like a rock H: Ew
S: I love... I mean, thank you, I appreciate that
S: I agree, I am very smart, but what I think is funny
S: Is that Hannah is ten times smarter than me which, it's impressive
S: I don't know how to... H: Cause you're so smart?
S: I'm like top notch smart and Hannah's way smarter
H: This is not my special day so you need to stop
S: I know H: This is your special day
S: Every one I'm being like "but you're funny too, you're thoughtful too"
H: Alright number, what is this? Four? S: I don't know, how many do you have?
S: Do you know? H: I think I have six
H: This is number four, this isn't an exhaustive list, you know? This is just..
S: Yeah, mine wasn't either for you H: Yeah, thank you
H: So number four is Shane's sense of adventure
H: I enjoy coming up with really bizarre plans, I'll see something on a TV show
H: We'll be watching Househunters or whatever, I'll see something on the TV show
H: A town, and I'll be like "I need to go there, like I absolutely need to go there"
H: "I would like to go this weekend" and no matter what I spring on Shane
H: No matter what bizarre plan I have, a trip, a weird attraction in Minnesota
H: That I just discovered, he is always like "yeah, let's do it"
H: I have never been like "hey can we do this?" and had Shane respond like
H: "I don't know if that's a good idea", you know? Even if it's a terrible idea
H: And we don't end up doing it, he's always excited and supportive
H: And ready to plan this weird thing that I want to do
S: Yeah, I like to do new things H: Yeah
S: And Hannah does too and I like that she's a lot better at coming up with the ideas
S: And I just get to go along for the ride, so we work well together in that way
H: Yeah, okay, number five, this one is a little bit specific
H: I feel like you're gonna be like this is a little weird
S: Is this inappropriate? H: No it's not inappropriate
S: Is it about what.... what I think it is H: This is very specific, one special thing
H: [laughs] No, I feel like this is a thing that people kind of talk about online
H: It's that thing when you see your husband or your boyfriend
H: Be really good and cute with little kids, like I feel like that's a thing
H: I feel like people are gonna be like "yeah"
H: When your partner is with a little kid and they're really playing
H: And having a great time and they're silly, there's something so heartwarming about that
H: It's probably some thing where I'm like "oh, he would be a good father"
S: Some animal instinct [laughs] H: I don't know, it's just the cutest thing ever
H: And Shane is so good with little kids, every time he's talking to a kid
H: Whether it's one of my nieces or he's in a classroom doing a presentation
H: He's just so good with kids and it's just so warm and fuzzy to watch
S: It's because I... H: Here comes a joke
S: In my core, am a kid, so I relate to them very well
H: Uh huh
S: Because I know that I can just make a fart noise if I need to
H: If you run out of things S: If I need to win them over
H: But you're willing to do that, like I'm a little embarrassed to just make a fart noise
H: If there's other people around, so I'm a little bit uncomfortable talking to kids
H: Because I'm like "oh boy", you know?
H: Kids that I know are totally fine but if a kid comes up to me on the street
H: I'm like "oh my goodness, you're a really small child"
S: I don't just make fart noises to random children
H: But Shane's really good at talking to kids and they always love him
H: So that's number five S: Aww, thank you
H: Isn't that like weirdly specific S: That is, that is specific
H: Yeah
S: I agree that I'm much better at talking to children than I am adults
S: If I have to make smalltalk with an adult I'm like a blank slate
H: No, that's not true, I almost put on my list how good you are at talking to other people
S: Yeah H: But I was like that's weird
H: It's mostly because I don't like talking to other people
H: So if we're at a party or something, Shane's just so good at talking to people
H: And making them comfortable, and he's good at leading conversations
H: And being in a group, so I do not agree with that at all
S: But comparatively, I'm better at talking to children
H: I don't even think that's true, but sure, whatever you want to say
H: That's fine, it's your special day
H: Okay, so number six, this one could easily get inappropriate
H: So I am not going to get into detail here, this is going to be very broad strokes
H: Number six is our physical connection, spark, whatever you want to call it
H: I am going to give an anecdote, it is going to be very PG, don't worry
S: I was like nervous about this H: I know you are
H: The first time we ever met, we went to Benihana, with Andrew and Laura
H: Shane's brother and his wife, this is PG S: Okay, this is PG
S: "And you will not believe what happened at Benihana"
H: So anyway, we're there and it was on the way home from the airport
H: This was within minutes of actually meeting in person, we had been Facetiming for 2 months
H: So were in love, we knew each other very well, whatever, so we get to Benihana
H: And Shane... shall I tell the whole story with the awkward part at the beginning?
S: Yes H: It started off really awkwardly
H: Because Shane was looking at me S: We were sitting next to each other
H: And he was doing this weird thing with his hand
H: And I was like "what are you doing?" like why are you flapping your hand like that?
H: And I was staring at it like "do you need something? what are you doing?"
H: Anyway eventually, I don't know if you said it out loud, I don't remember the details
H: But I figured out he wanted to hold my hand, so we held hands
H: And when we held hands it was literally like the best thing that has ever happened to me
S: Awww
H: Wasn't it like the best feeling in the entire world? It was bizarre
S: Yeah H: It was some weird thing that happened
H: And obviously we progressed from there over the past 5 years, however long it's been
S: You should see our handholding now
H: But from the very beginning it was just like "oh my god, wow"
S: Awww H: And that's my list
S: That's so cute H: That's all six
S: Oh my goodness
H: There's many more, but those are the ones that I came up with
S: Well I feel loved H: Do you?
S: Yeah H: Good, isn't it nice?
S: It is nice, yeah H: I loved when you were talking about me
H: It's a nice time to just sit and have someone complement you
S: I had a feeling that you would say my sense of humor and my intelligence
S: Because we've said that before H: Yeah
S: But the other ones I wasn't thinking of and they're so cute
H: Aww, that's nice S: I appreciate you, I love you
H: I love you
S: And I know that you're contractually required to say all those things
H: You cannot let something be cute, you're physically unable
H: That is not on my list of things that I love about you
S: But you love my physical ... whatever you said
S: So you actually do love that about me H: What?
S: I don't know H: You're babbling
H: Anyway we're just gonna let the video be cute
H: You're gonna stop reaching for jokes to ease your discomfort
S: I'm out of jokes, thank you I love you
S: I love all of you, is what I'm saying
S: Okay everyone H: Bye everyone
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