I know what might actually happen is we might hit the degeneracy rock bottom and then guys would be
like you know what I really wanted to try actually asking a girl out and Yeah I think that's starting
to happen we're seeing like uh the younger generation is like whoa things are way out of
hand right now with things we're seeing um a lot more conservative values and stuff that are yeah
um it's actually a thing younger men are having more conservative values yeah liberal values yep
it always goes back and then at some point we'll get the four titted Goblin again
I can't believe I'm saying that a lot of people will knock people getting married when they're
like you know 20 and I think that these when when they're marrying each other like fresh out of high
school or in when they're starting college and they're getting married young I think that's
great for them it's you know they don't have to go through so many of the issues that a lot of other
people are going through and they're not going to go through this djin phase they're not gonna be
as likely to go through a Degen phase where it's like okay they have a husband they have a wife
um they're fulfilling each other's needs it's like they're they're getting to experience a
happy life together and and companionship and that's one reason why I absolutely hate it when
people act like there's just one size fits all of like oh yeah no one should be getting
married until they're 30. all this stuff I mean they did it could I just say something funny uh
while she's saying how boys are trending more conservative and people's values are
coming back I just look in the chat and it just says Melanie show us your feet
except for this cat of course wow oh my God not average Batman watch that Batman YouTube video
please yeah yeah this is interesting conservative that's like the entry level fetish so that is
pretty conservative these days it is actually Mia Khalifa when she posted that thing about the whole
marriage thing which is like just it's a piece of paper get divorced oh I'm like what a perfect
segue x-ray girl you're like setting this up for me this could not be this could not be better
this could not be more organic if we tried okay uh this is Mia Khalifa This was it Mia Khalifa was an
adult film star who had a brief stint in the adult Arts uh made I don't know she claims what only 20K
or 17K or something then got out yeah right um but like she was number one like she might still
be top uh she's definitely still top ten like she she made the news because they had death threats
on her because she was doing porn in jobs not even Muslim right he was giving blow hijabs you know
hand hand to jobs okay I'll be here all night okay so here is the clip from Mia Khalifa is
giving young women marriage advice read that so this is I didn't realize it's about Mia she's
been divorced like three times so I didn't know she's married at all let's hear Mia's
uh marriage advice oh we're comparing stats baby girl doesn't know that I am Tom Brady at this game
married at 18 divorced at 21. second marriage married at 25 divorced at 28. third engagement
engaged at 29 ended it at 30 but I kept the ring I'm still keeping Tom Brady on his toes
we should not be afraid to leave these men we are not stuck with these people marriage is not
a sanctimonious thing it is it is paperwork it's something it's it's it's a wrong use of the word
sanctimonious yeah marriage is not a sacred thing uh actually it is it is and sickness if you're
yeah it's it's meant to be one of the very most sacred things or anything from that commitment and
you're trying you gotta go you gotta go you have to go I know it's difficult to fill out paperwork
and to make appointments and to do all of these things but this is your [ __ ] life do you want
to be stuck with someone period do you want to be stuck with something oh we're comparison I
hate that thing where she says are you getting anything from this yeah right is that really true
like I like why get married if your husband or boyfriend fiance even when you're testing them out
to be like if they're not fulfilling something why did you get married in the first place
yeah I I don't understand so many people treat this marriage is like this transactional thing
too and that's caused a lot of issues as well I mean I think when you really take away the love
element and it says in sickness and in health there's things that can happen in any marriage
that that to somebody they could you know get in a car accident and be in a wheelchair and
all this kind of stuff and if everything is just purely transactional um then you
know it's it just completely takes away what the mean marriage the meaning behind it yeah
and then love when you what is when you really unpack what love is it's a very selfless thing
and so when you have to when you're constantly telling people what are you getting out of this
what's in it for you it's like treating it like it's entirely transactional that's not love then
and I yeah I learned so much yeah exactly I learned a lot about uh like what it means
to be married like because I've been with Frank like eight years and I thought oh I already feel
married with him I already know what it's like to live with him I already know the things that
bother me I already know how what chores we do and don't like to do and who likes to cook and who uh
likes to get egg bites from Starbucks that sort of thing and um but when we went through the pre-cana
which was what you have to do to get married in a Catholic church it's like you I learned something
important and that is which I doubt that Mia Khalifa did uh that your marriage is actually
like a a third entity it's like you have to think of the decisions you make okay there's decisions
you make for you there's there's things you do for your partner but then there's decisions you
make like for your marriage and you have to and then it's also the idea and that's the thing is
you kind of have to believe in God for this one it's like marriage it's you your partner and God
and the it's like part of the the pre-can is like it's kind of nuts because we're up there giving
our vows right we're getting married and it's kind of like the uh the Deacon is saying to us like
guess what Chrissy it's your job to get Frank into heaven and I'm thinking me I was pounding on him
like to be funny I'm thinking you know but like deep down like my not comedian self was going
wow like how important that is like how special that is and uh I just think a lot of people are
getting married without feeling the weight of the specialness and the responsibility I think most
people just look at marriage is like you're the ball and chain oh it's you're gonna resent each
other oh the ladies are gold diggers oh men are whatever there's negative things on both sides but
is like the club and you're a Frank's hot chick that gets him in the club oh my God it's kind of
like yeah you gotta look out for each other and um Mia is treating marriage just like any old
relationship just any old boyfriend girlfriend and like whether whether she's in porn or not
is irrelevant like because there's girls who never did porn who talk about marriage the same way she
does like it's just a piece of paper get in get out like we have the knowledge we know that she's
financially very well off which gives you the added like well it's easy for you to get out you
can pay for all your [ __ ] on your own whereas like this you're taking money too was she like uh
married to men that made more money than her did you get a prenup or a point did she did she get
half of their stuff when they divorce exactly yeah probably that she's in California so yes
yeah like I just think that like they treat marriage like uh as if you're just dating
like if you're gonna go into this sanctimonious relationship I I really truly believe like it's
forever when like Mark or I die like that's when we're actually single again not like
if we get divorced because like you can't give up that easily there's a lot of things you can
do at least a couple hundred things you can do before it gets to that point right and it
really depends on the two people if you really are fighting for it then you can work through it
and like why don't get married to someone that is not your ride or die if you're thinking of it
as just a piece of paper not that everyone has to be religious and like think about it the way that
I do but like you need to treat it that serious like maybe you're not a hardcore Catholic that's
fine but it it needs to be and it's and I can understand because nobody in this country for the
most part trusts our institutions anymore so it's easy to be like well it's relatively easy to get
divorced and 50 plus of the population is divorced and how many of us grew up in you know broken
homes or whatever and it's just because it's been normalized and it's common doesn't mean that we
don't need to work harder and preserve something that is valuable which is because you get to guess
what she's been divorced three times anybody in the chat knows like sometimes you'll just pick the
same type of girl over and over again or life will serve you up the same lesson over and over until
you learn it and your relationship your partner your spouse like that's your mirror it's their job
to hold up a mirror and show you who you are what your what your bed patterns are what your good
patterns are you know what you need to work on how you're procrastinating what your strengths are be
there for you when someone dies be there for you through like all of it right and if you're just
like I'm gonna bail when it gets hard oh I'm not getting any and she's exaggerating when she says
oh if you're not getting anything out of it like you're not gonna marry someone that you feel you
get nothing from so she's like being dramatic here and I think if she you know if she wanted to tune
this message towards people who are in abusive scenarios or being cheated on or something like
that and say hey you know what it's okay for you to get out of this situation if it's if it's gone
this bad it's still a very tragic and very sad thing um but to but to just be like oh it's just
paperwork uh you're not happy that's a completely different story yeah she sucks she doesn't look
happy right no no and I think like maybe she felt a lot of love and it could have been lost at the
beginning of these relationships that she had and that that really clouds your judgment so if you
can get through some of these tough conversations to make sure that you vet your person to the needs
and wants that you have in a relationship that will make that last longer and I don't I don't
buy her I don't think this is a real uh this is a this is bullshitty girl powery yeah glamorized
lizowee like like like whatever third fourth wave whatever the latest wave is feminist this is this
is not real one of everyone else this is girl bossy I Don't Need No Man uh just get out you
do you live your truth [ __ ] I'd rather see her not that I want to see her in tears or broken or
something but like right let me hear a real video from Mia Khalifa being like here's why it really
didn't work out like I've or I've done a lot of work on myself and here's why my relationships
didn't work out or or I man my dad was abusive and I and for me that feels like home so I go
for that kind of guy over and over again that's why I have three failed marriages this whole like
get out it's very one-sided it's very bullshitty it's I don't it's not real I don't believe this is
a cope coming from her it's like her relationships work guess what she was 50 of that relationship so
you can't blame it all on the other person it's like what did you do or not do to have this it
but it's so easy of course to blame the other person because our culture has normalized and
glamorized you know oh mentality yeah oh we need to have divorce parties oh we need to have a weird
is she my guess is she doesn't give a flying [ __ ] about whoever she's with and eventually
they get tired of her [ __ ] now like I don't care how good looking you are how unfortunate
infatuated I was with you I'm out like [ __ ] you know she seems very unbearable like her
personality seems just wretched and that's the problem with a lot of like the super feminist
people like it's just entitlement yeah that's why I said I feel bad for men more than women
dating out here just because I feel like [ __ ] are crazy as hell like that one the list of wants
is so extensive it's wild and then what did they and let's red pill it what do they bring to the
table yeah exactly I think there's problems on both sides though and I think there's a lot of
victim mentality going on and if you and and my advice to guys would be for to take what it's
worth what nothing but still is if you get in this victim mentality mode of oh I'm never gonna date
again because women are awful yeah well you're not gonna really if you victim mentality doesn't
serve anybody it just doesn't yeah I just feel bad for guys because like the me too [ __ ] and
if you go on Tick Tock there are so many women just airing all their business out of their
husband or boyfriends they're like dude you're so embarring saying like stop doing that like why are
you doing that to them like like embarrassing [ __ ] that should not be online like likes
you [ __ ] psycho yeah the current the currency is social media it's all about them likes and
liking to me like yeah how's your marriage gonna work if you don't respect each other
then absolutely yeah and that doesn't mean that you're a doormat um submissive you know
uh spineless uh I think we you know there's a misconception about what it means to be uh like
defer to your husband or be like there's a there's a positive aspect of submission or maybe it just
means you're like you're you're sort of picking your battles or your you know you guys have an
understanding or whatever like you can't have two Alphas all the time you can't have it it can't be
your way all of the time it's uh would you rather have peace or be right and that is something that
a long-term relationship will teach you and and with Mia being in porn it's like it is kind of
a core value of marriage that like that you're my ride or die you're one early I value you I'm here
for you I'm looking out for your needs I share my body and soul with just you and when you're
doing porn I don't know if she is anymore of how many of these marriages were inside
or outside of her porn career but it's like that's kind of not really an inherent value
that she has so how can you expect her to value marriage for what it's supposed to mean when
that's are you saying the porn star's uh values are [ __ ] no I'm not I'm just saying like yeah
and all the comments will tell you like yeah this is not who we should be looking to for
marriage advice it's like I do I do want this woman to be happy I just like I I watch her speak
and I go feminism has wronged you the the culture like your brain I can see the brainwashing because
I was there empowerment in the wrong way yeah did you see what she used as an example she said Tom
Brady she said I I'm getting more rings than Tom Brady as if her divorces are the accomplishment
of a Super Bowl right yeah Tom Brady on his toes I missed that well completely missed that yeah
video was
this girl was just talking about unique engagement rings and she stitched that video from that and
said ah this is lame uh getting divorced all the cool girls get divorced before 30 is what
she said so yes she's delusional yes wow insane this is an accomplishment together bragging about
it by being insufferable that is something that's like a failure and they look at it as like a good
thing and I got a ring and I got alimony I guess um I they I used to work at a private school on
the Upper East Side in the admissions department and I uh Bridget Moynihan who is Tom Brady's first
wife came in and interviewed their I don't think they ever got married and reviewed their son and
like went through the pro like I remember it was a big to do when Bridget Moynihan came to the school
and were like everyone's like pretty hands here at most people like who the [ __ ] is that and I
was like I know who that is yeah she's a low-key Chic things you know model um she was in Sex in
the City she played yeah I'm sure she's done other things but that's just the most meaningful credit
to me and um yeah it was exciting too just like seeing all the sort of semi celebrity and like
elite elite types that came through the school for interviews but um yeah and that's the thing
is like you shouldn't be she kind of is on that level she can compare herself to Tom Brady in
terms of like status money opportunities whatever but it's that's really icky that she's comparing
like I'm just here collecting Rings if that's what you think a marriage is to you it's it's like uh
it's a total cope because she's got she's like saying like oh I'm winning by getting
so many divorces it is yeah like you know a lot of paperwork but just do it yeah I know it's hard
to fill out forms no you're a three-time failure Mia like you you why why get uh
why are you giving relationship advice and what are you getting married if it's true
yeah that's why she's giving herself advice she's trying to tell herself it's okay love
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