- How he treats you is how he feels about you.
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In the following five steps
I will list some ways men treat women
in the negative and in a positive way
based on how we feel about you.
Most of the time men treat women
based on how women let the man in their lives treat them.
Some women get great treatment from men
based on her self respect and her boundaries.
However, there are some men
that despite her confidence and boundaries,
they are not man enough to step it up properly.
It comes to first one, he treats you with lack of respect.
If your guys is constantly raising his voice,
calling you name, putting you down
he pretty much has lost a lot of respect for you.
If it has been two months of dating or it has been one year
you have never said anything to him about it,
you are silently giving him the green light
to disrespect you.
If you have told him many times not so speak to you this way
and he has continued and you are still with him,
you still give him the okay to disrespect you.
Ladies, please remember when there is no respect
there cannot be any love.
There is also no love for yourself
because you stay and take it.
When a guy knows he can continue
he knows that you have no love for yourself
and no boundaries.
Number two, he has cheated on you.
A man who cheats on his girlfriend is insecure to start.
Man who has been caught cheating
and a woman who has taken him back
is also insecure and lacks a backbone.
He may cheat on her again
as she didn't leave him the first time
so he knows there are no consequences.
He will also feel less respect
that she has again no boundaries.
This will make the man less likely to love you more
as there is no healthy boundaries.
Number three, he uses you.
Calling at the last minute or when the guy is bored
is basically showing a girl
that she is at the bottom of his list.
When a girl is at the bottom of his list,
he definitely doesn't see her long term,
especially if she gives into a guy when it only pleases him.
If a guy only calls/texts when he is strapped for cash,
he sees her as a bank machine.
Again, a girl who does this does not value her own time
and is buying this guy's attention.
Ladies, if you want to find out if your guy is using you
please watch my video right here
Five Signs He is Using You.
Number four, he treats you like a queen.
When a guy respects your time and knows your worth
he will not risk it or waste it.
When he treats you like a queen, he loves you to pieces.
This is when you are his priority
and has a plan for both of you.
All his words are followed by his solid actions.
He will encourage and support you in your ambitions
and will definitely respect
the boundaries you set for yourself.
Number five, he shows interest in things that you like.
I promise that a guy who shows interest in your hobbies
that he has never tried, a guy will try it
and maybe try to even like it.
If he ends up not loving it he will still respect your space
for you to enjoy them.
He treats you in the way to make you happy
and it gives him pleasure to see you happy
as when you love someone you want to make them happy.
When we are happy you are happy.
He will go out of his way
to try something new to impress you.
He may even watch a girly movie with you
to spend those two hours with you.
He will be interested to find out what it is
that makes you love that hobby so much.
So ladies, these are the positive and negative ways
how he treats you is how he feels about you.
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