What I would like more often from Sam,
is to be more patient.
I feel like he loses his patience quite easily.
From my partner I would like more thought into what I’m saying.
And probably just taking the time to
put your phone down and concentrate on
what’s happening in front of you.
Wow.
These are the friends of the crab. They live in the sea together.
-Stop it. -I’m being serious.
My challenge to you today, is to write a letter to each other
and try to be very honest with yourself.
“How can I improve?”
What’s in it for you? What’s in it for the other one?
Reflect on what your partner
should get out of this relationship.
Sam is not a very expressive person.
Sometimes he doesn’t really say how he feels. He’s British.
I know that I can be more patient with you in our
relationship and give you time to
listen and understand what I’m saying.
In terms of what I want you to get out of our relationship:
laughter and peace. We’re a team. Ultimately …
I love you because you’re fun and spontaneous.
And we can go on adventures. And you’re not boring.
Like basically every English girl in existence.
That’s all you’re getting. No more.
I don’t wanna spoil you.
Okay.
I know I can turn away and against you sometimes.
I know that I should listen more often.
Really listen to you and your needs by turning towards you.
I want to be the person that you open up to.
Even in your saddest days I want you to feel loved
and listened to, every day.
Very nice.
You forgot to say I was beautiful.
-I don’t need to say that. -Because it’s obvious.
Next time you get anything nice said about you, is Christmas.
I broke this one.
That’s the best part.
I would never have thought he would be up to this
adventure, but he’s done it. I’m very proud of him.
I think you should be thankful.
Don’t take each other for granted.
Make an effort to make yourselves good.
Only then you can have the pleasure of
having a good partner.
Well, I wish you good luck in the future.
Thank you so much for everything.
Thank you for your advice.