and the brand-new show Euphoria on HBO Sydney Sweeney plays Cassie and in
this video we're gonna be talking about episode 1 and a very important subject
which is consent what is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul
where we talk about the problem but focus on the solution and if you're new
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alright so yeah let's talk about Sidney Sweeney's character Cassie and kind of
like in my last video about Zendaya's character rule
I might just you know change these and talk about Cassie's Sydney Sweeney same
person alright so first off first off my beautiful girlfriend twist and I we're
like sitting there watching runway this this girl Cassie she looks familiar what
is she fun so fun fact Tristan and I has recently binge watched Handmaid's Tale
and like now we're caught up so now we have to wait like the rest of the world
for new episodes but anyways we noticed Sydney Sweeney from Handmaid's Tale
where she played Eden so I've also thought about doing some videos to see
what lessons we can learn from a Handmaid's Tale if you're watching
Handmaid's Tale let me know down in the comments below so I know if that's
something I should make videos on maybe pull some topics because there's like a
million topics from Handmaid's Tale that I could discuss and see what we can
relate to to try to and you know learn from it and improve our own mental
health alright so anyways let's discuss Sydney Sweeney in euphoria ask Cassie
alright so we're first introduced to her you know as a character and like there's
like it's kind of like bro party going on like I thought it was
kind of weird cuz like you know I was like I don't know I'm sports teams and
stuff and aside for the locker room like that scene never really happened like
that's one of the reasons I asked you guys if you can relate to it like she's
like a bunch of like topless dudes just like chillin together I was like yeah
it never really happened in my hood Oh anyways um one of the dudes he was he
was talking about you know having a thing for kasi and hooking up with her
right and anyway so like all dude like like by the way they use the words like
a lot in this show I was really interested like I'd be fascinated to
know how many times they say it either or in that episode alright so by the way
if you're watching this like young men out there try to chill out with that
language not good okay be a damn gentleman a lot of this video
is actually about being a gentleman so if you know anybody who sucks at being a
gentleman and doesn't really understand what consent is make sure you share this
with them anyways they were talking about oh you don't know about her and
they start showing him you know some pictures and some videos and everything
like that and even her you know whatever but anyways it was pornographic in
nature so the first thing we want to talk about is revenge porn and on the
topic of consent like do not do not ever ever ever ever film somebody doing a
sexual act without their consent like this actually just happened like in
where was in Korea like some k-pop star or something like that or he was like a
manager or something something like that bailiffs he's just gotten a lot of legal
trouble for filming sexual acts with women like never ever ever ever ever do
this without another person's consent but on the topic of revenge porn if you
don't know what revenge porn is it is distributing these like photos or videos
without the other person's consent like that is a felony in almost every single
state here in the United States alright so what that means is even if the person
does give you consent to take pictures or film that sexual act you
not go and release it without their consent okay it is illegal it's not cool
it's a dick move like here's the thing - so back back in my day I'm about to turn
34 so like right when I was in high school like the the cellphones we had
were like those Nokia cell phones like with snake do any of you remember those
I'm like the coolest thing you do with the phone is like swap out the faceplate
and stuff but anyways like not even everybody I knew had a cell phone I
don't even have a cell phone in high school but like I can't imagine being a
young woman or a young man like during this time we're like smartphones are in
everybody's hands you know what I mean because yeah I'm sure this happens a lot
more than we even know about and here's the other thing like I asked how old all
of you were who are watching this show you four yeah like listen okay this is a
very very real story okay so I have a friend and they're their brother or
their brothers friends somebody with something like that I heard the story a
while ago well anyways they were in high school okay and this kid was 18 years
old and he received news from another girl at his school he then shared those
news well since he was 18 he got in trouble for distributing child photos
okay I don't want to get D monetized so you know what I mean
anyway it's not only did get in trouble for that but that is a sexual offense
you will go on a list all right so don't be dumb be respectful and make sure you
have consent and don't do it if they're underage all right so the next thing
that we're gonna talk about so they were like oh yeah man she's in that freaky
stuff you know what I mean so anyways when the dude and Cassie finally get
together all alone in the room and stuff and they start kissing and they're about
to engage in this sexual act and he's getting all geared up and she's getting
ready or whatever and he like jumped on top of her and he starts to you know
choke her so she freaks out all right obviously so
let's talk about a couple things obvious obviously there is like main consent
right and like this is something like I don't even know why it has to be
explained so much like I know when you're like in the moment and stuff it's
like Oh should I go do I asked her you know
whatever like like yes all right like I am a firm believer in cya cover your ass
all right ask are they cool with you kissing them are you cool with you know
doing whatever it is ask make sure you have consent okay if they don't consent
then that ain't cool all right that is assault brother
all right so anyways now let's talk about kinks like if you are into some
freaky stuff you do your Fang baby do your thing everybody has their own
things do what you want to do alright explore do all sorts of stuff in the
bedroom but make sure you got consent first all right so the way this played
out with Sidney Sweeney's character and there's dude and sorry I forgot that
guy's name but anyways like she freaks out and then he feels how awkward and
dumb because he assumed I was actually wondering if he was gonna say like oh
well my friends told me so he kept his mouth shut on that but anyways he was
all embarrassed and ashamed and everything like that but then she said
well you know next time if you're gonna do that like at least ask me first makes
you kind of like give some like that sexy look it's like or if I tell you to
do it to me right I'm like yeah that's cool like if you want to explore stuff
in the bedroom like just make sure it's cool with both people by the way since
I'm on the topic this isn't just for women either all right like this is for
guys too and here's what I mean by that all right without getting too graphic
and this is one of the most sexual videos I've ever made on my channel but
screw it royalty in there baby alright listen
like women like make sure you get consent from addy before you do some
weird stuff and put your finger in places all right that is something you
also need consent for but anyways anyways discussing this stuff like make
sure you have a conversation like a good rule of thumb a good rule of thumb is
like do not jump into that stuff like the first time you're hooking up with
somebody like oh my god like just play it safe like maybe just do you know just
the the casual normal stuff in the beginning unless some conversation
happens but just surprising somebody the first time you hook up is never ever
ever a good idea alright but anyways
these conversations and like what I would recommend like do some research if
this is something that you're like interested in exploring and stuff like
that like there are plenty of like YouTube channels in hell it's 2019 you
define stuff online like there are people who are into that and they're
like educators in that realm and we'll discuss safe ways to do this and things
like that like you know obviously like what most of us have heard about or like
things like safe words and all that because especially when you're getting
into like some sort of asphyxiation like that is some dangerous business right
there okay so make sure that you communicate throughout the whole process
and make sure you're protecting yourself all right
don't have any you know unplanned pregnancies there's a bunch of STDs and
stuff and god I sound like an old man in this video anyways it looks like Sydney
Sweeney is going to have you know I want to do with the show you forea
it looks like in this scene that I have right here in a later episode looks like
she's having some kind of anxiety so if you like me doing these kind of
character breakdowns like I loved doing them for 13 reasons why and I'm kind of
seeing something similar with this show so this is something you like me doing
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