Let me tell you one of my biggest pet
peeves as a dating coach.
It's when I get a message from one of you
says the single ladies who says that they
are head over heels in love only to find
out that they've actually met the guy like
twice and one of them was on FaceTime
because he lives like 6 hours away.
That is not love.
There's something that happens in the
early stages of relationship and this is a
mixture of dopamine and norepinephrine and
all these love chemicals that are flowing
through your veins that make you think
that you are in love.
But in reality you're just in lust so I'm
going to clear some of this up a little
bit.
So this video outlines the seven signs
that you are actually falling in love with
a person keep watching.
Hey there, Adam LoDolce from
sexyconfidence.com I'll help you create
your love story.
In this video is All About Love.
Now I personally have fallen in lust
before and I know what it's like to be
confused with being in lust versus being
in love.
If you've also been confused at some point
in your life leave a comment there below.
So let's dive into the seven signs that
you're actually in love with the person
number one is that you love them at their
ugliest now when I say the word ugly.
I mean both physically when someone just
looks like ****. And also emotionally bad
things sometimes happen in life.
And sometimes we are just either hungry or
retired and we can be just cranking
monsters.
Whatever it is.
If someone still loves you or you still
love someone when they are at their
emotional e most ugliest moment, then you
realize that there's been some real
bonding that's taken place and chances.
Are you are truly starting to fall in love
with them.
Number two is you accept them for the
really annoying quirks this happens.
Month three or four of a relationship.
You just start to notice really weird
quirky ****t about the person you're
dating and we all have weird annoying
quirks.
I'm certainly full of them.
I am a snorer I leave the toilet seat up.
I have a lot of things that I do that are
quirky, but I will say I am fairly
confident that Jessica still loves me,
even though I have these quarks and she
better love me because we're getting
married next year sign number three is
that you will do anything.
For them there Comes A Time in a
relationship where you get to a point
where they can ask you to do anything and
you would be more than happy to do that
because you created this relationship
where you will put all of your emotional
energy into them and they will do the same
for you thus making both of you better off
by being in this relationship number four
is you want to be with them even without
the butterflies in the stomach sadly.
I hate to say it but once the new Love
phase is over the butterflies.
Kind of go away in some way shape or form.
Once you've been with someone for two
three, four, five ten years.
The butterflies just go away.
I mean my parents have been married 40
years.
They don't get butterflies for each other.
It's a sad reality of relationships.
But what replaces the butterflies is a
really strong bond that is stronger than
any kind of new love feeling and you want
to be with that person and when they're
away you kind of feel lost like you
legitimately feel like your better half.
Is gone and without them you are just
completely lost.
You don't know what to do with yourself
number five is you enjoy being with them
in the most just mundane situations as you
get older life just gets a little bit more
boring.
You're no longer going to keg parties
playing beer pong and staying up till 5:00
a.m.
Every single night life just slows down a
little bit, but I would say a sign of true
love is when you can spend time with a
person and it can just be.
Lazy Saturday sitting at a park bench just
staring off and you're happy.
You're just happy with that person because
you feel connected to them number six is
that you're not constantly torn about
whether or not you should be with that
person love I think brings a certain level
of certainty to a relationship and now it
doesn't mean you don't.
Sometimes question what you're doing in
life.
I think that's natural and that's normal
and people with more anxiety tend to have
more uncertainty because their brain just
works so fast, but with that said
generally speaking you are not torn
whether or not you should be that person.
You're not constantly have this really
strong inner conflict saying you got to
get out of it then you say no I got to be
in it.
You're sure of it and the longer you stay
with someone that should become more
certain not less certain.
Okay.
So if your mind you're getting less and
less certain the longer saying that that
person is not a good sign that you're
actually in love with them and quite
frankly.
There's something inside you telling this
probably isn't the right fit.
Finally number seven is that your
deal-breakers are suddenly no longer deal
breakers.
I hear this all the time women will say,
oh, I'll never marry a guy with kids and
then they meet a guy who happens to have
children, but they.
So in love that that's no longer a
deal-breaker or a devout Christian will
say oh he's got to be a devout Christian
or else I will never never marry him meets
a guy and he ends up being an atheist.
But she says I love him so much.
I'm gonna go for it my experience a lot of
people when they do finally fall in love.
Do you look past some of their deal
breakers because they realized no one you
meet is going to be perfect.
No one you meet is going to have every
single thing you ever wanted.
And in fact, once you get into that
relationship, there are going to be some
things that you never even knew you wanted
until you saw it in that.
And that's what love is it's an imperfect
feeling it's in perfect emotion, but in
reality it makes you feel whole so if
you're ready to find love but you haven't
found it yet.
Comment right there below on this video or
on this blog post and say I am ready and
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