but I do regret and I don't say that often but I do regret sending out that
tweet things on my end could have been handled behind closed doors a hundred
percent that's right everybody Jeffree star just went on snapchat to
backpedal about his tweets about James Charles and there's a lot that we can
learn from this tricky situation what is up everybody this is Chris from the
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Jeffree star just put the snapchat this morning to a little bit about the James
Charles situation and this dude this dude is completely missing the point
alright and I'll explain why so I'm not gonna put his whole snapchat story in
here I'll put some clips and everything but if you want to check out some of the
other channels commentary channels drama channels everything like that the whole
thing but it's up on YouTube everywhere else but TLDR Jeffrey star went on here
and like I think I think it was good but Jeffrey star was completely missing the
point so the first half of his snapchat story he's very empathetic towards James
Charles and I'll be honest with you it is it's like a big learning experience
for everybody involved for James Charles for Totti Westbrook for Jeffrey star
everybody's learning from this situation or god I please if there is a God like I
hope they're learning from this situation because after this whole thing
massively blew up people like Jeffrey star and Talty Westbrook are realizing
how screw oh it was to do this alright and we'll
talk about that more in a second but then Jeffrey star he switches gears and
in the second half of his snapchat story he gets real serious with all of you and
don't you ever don't you ever compare his situation with Nate who was a
straight man to what James Charles is doing alright even though even though
the two the two confirmed stories about James Charles are from two guys who have
publicly stated that they consented to hooking up with James Charles and few is
where Jeffrey is missing the point okay he's tweet his tweet against James
Charles called James Charles a danger to society so something I didn't touch on
in my video about talk to you Westbrook her video yesterday about why I didn't
touch long was talking Westbrook said like don't put words in my mouth you
know for everybody who's accusing James Charles of things I never said this and
it's like you did talk to you did Jeffy star and Totti Westbrook they are older
than James Charles they need to know better
Totti Westbrook used the word predator okay she talked about tricking man okay
then Jeffrey star comes out and says that James Falls is a danger to society
those two powerhouses in the community are are the ones who created that
narrative they created that narrative okay and Jeff Lee star he is like this
is what blows my mind about Jeffrey star like we all learned so much and we grow
so much but there's still there's still these parts of us that are still there
that come out right and Jeff Lee starts talking about how people are taking
clips taking things out of context he says to go rewatch this video about his
relationship with Nate and all these other things like grow you started this
whole crap storm with James toes you started that narrative
you did the same exact thing that you don't want people doing to you okay
because I I will continue to bring this up when I talk about Jeffrey sir I am a
recovering drug addict I believe like what Jeffrey star said I believe in
giving people Kansas and other chances and and like the thing is here's the
problem we are as as people we're constantly comparing ourselves to other
people okay we're constantly saying am I better
than or less than am I better than this person or am i less than this person am
I better than this person or less than this person the problem with Jeffery
stars tweet and his the way he he came out about the situation was he was
acting better than James Charles that is the issue okay because we all need to
recognize and this is something that is what the community is doing as well we
all need to recognize that we have screwed up we have massively screwed up
in our lives especially when you're 19 years old and that's why I like I am
definitely afraid that my son's like hey I like be a youtuber or twitch streamer
or whatever the hell he wants to do because if you get too much too soon and
you're in that public spotlight right and like Jeffrey star talks about how oh
I'm so tired of people bringing up these old tweets and it's like bro because you
keep saying stuff you can't continue to go around acting better than everybody
else when you have such a public history of screwing up because the difference
here the difference here is empathy okay that's what it is and my Geoffrey
start mentioned in a snapchat story he was very emotional he was heated he said
that he regrets sending that tweet out and it's because when emotions flare up
we forget where we came from we forget what it was like I talked about this in
my video yesterday like when I get upset with my son because he did something I
have to pause I have to pause and think about what I was doing at his age what
was I doing before I get emotionally heated alright and
said before like somebody like Geoffrey star who has millions and millions and
millions of followers like you can't do that like yo I am a
small youtuber I am small in comparison to these people right and I learned the
hard way that I have to be so careful so careful about what I talk about on my
channel what I talked about in DMS what I publicly tweet out what I say on my
Instagram I've had to learn that and I am tiny okay
there are these youtubers like Tati Westbrook and Jeffrey star who have
subscribers and followers that is the population of like a city alright so
when they do something like this and they don't have a pause button right
like that would be like the city that you're living in and all the TVs gonna
like that emergency broadcast and somebody just sang something right I
just boom like right there like that is how many people they're broadcasting it
to and that's what I don't like with with everything you know that that has
happened to James Charles and again like you could defend the person without
defending their actions like James Charles screwed up he messed up he's
going to learn he's gonna grow but here's the thing if Jeffrey star had a
damn pause button he would have this snapchat he released this morning that
would have been what he initially came out with right I mentioned this before
shane dawson and talked to what's what they came out and they were like hey
everybody calm down with the hate and everything like that but a lot of people
do not have a pause button and how does this affect you right like you guys this
is why this is why we really have to take a look at how often we we say
something and then we immediately regret it we do something and we immediately
regret it like why do you guys think I preach meditation and mindfulness so
much science has proven that it strengthens this thing right here called
the prefrontal cortex which has a variety of functions but one of them is
logical decision making the other one is impulse control and another one is
emotional regulation so like I think the issue that happens with influencers as a
whole is this autopilot right this autopilot like where the console is
tweeting constantly snapping constantly making videos constantly posting on
Instagram all these other things and they get into this autopilot mode where
they're just like every thought that comes through my head I have to put it
out there right and it's dangerous like whenever I'm about to tweet whenever I'm
about to do anything I have to sit back and say okay right like what's gonna
happen like I've mentioned that I just finished a book called mental models by
Shane parish something that a lot of us don't do and it's this is a prime
example the talk to us book of James Charles situation something that we
don't do is second-order thinking why we only think about the initial thing we
only think about this thing and we since we're a species who loves instant
gratification we only think about if I do this one thing here's the results I'm
gonna get if we pause for a second and think about the second level of that
what can this cause what can the reaction be right like a great example
is the Trisha Paytas video I've made yesterday before I sat down and recorded
that video i sat down I talked with people in my support group I talked with
mentors of mine I say okay let's run through every scenario that might happen
after this right like I know I've kind of rebranded for to more social
commentary than mental health but you guys like I don't people need to like
start figuring stuff out you know what I mean and we need to
learn and grow and everything like that but like I don't know just seeing
Jeffrey star in this situation it is it also it also bums me out seeing seeing
the bias for Jeffrey star so many people defend Jeffrey star so many people say
he's talked about this he's explained it he's done this for so long like you guys
it's been less than a week since this happened to James Charles like do you
see the double standard here James Charles hasn't even had the opportunity
to learn and grow so when everybody's like well Jeffrey's
already answered for these things give James Charles a second to learn and grow
before you cancel this kid alright anyways that's all I got for this video
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