Hello, my wonderful friend! Today's video is on
how to touch a woman. Specifically 7 tips to give her butterflies.
You may have seen this video that I recently did on 13 places women want you to touch them.
Now, this video is the perfect follow up to that video. This is specifically
how to touch her to really just give her those butterflies.
By the way, if you haven't seen that video,
I will put a link in the description below. Make sure you watch that one as well.
The last thing you want is to build that attraction
and create that chemistry, and then try to touch her and have things just get like
really awkward and really uncomfortable. That just kills the attraction fast.
You do not want her to think you're creepy or awkward,
right? And at the same time, you really wanna make sure you keep things appropriate. That is a must.
Well, by the end of this video, you will know how to touch a woman,
give her those butterflies, and melt her heart.
No more awkwardness, no more creepiness.
Some of the most important tips are at the end of the video. So if you really wanna make sure
you know exactly how to touch a woman, yeah, make sure you stay with me till the end of the video.
Before we dive in, make sure you subscribe and ring the notification bell. My name is
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And since we're on the topic of how to touch a woman and where to touch a woman,
make sure you also watch this video on the best kissing tips you did not even know you needed.
Like, it's good. I'll put a link to that video in the description below as well.
Now, are you ready to discover how to touch a woman, give her those butterflies, melt her heart?
Let's get started with tip number one.
Tip number one is to touch her gently.
Gentle touch is the best for butterflies. It just is.
When you touch her gently, it helps her see that she's safe with you. And it helps her see you as
her protector, as a masculine strong man who she can rely on and trust.
It takes that spark of attraction and like fans it into a blazing fire.
You've probably heard me say this before. This is something I teach you all about in my Academy.
Gentle men are attractive men. That's how you become her hero
and make her just feel amazing when she's with you.
Tip number two for how to touch a woman is do not touch her too soon.
How well do you know this gal? There's nothing quite as creepy as someone you really don't know,
or someone you just barely know, and all of a sudden, they're like trying to touch you.
It's like, "What is wrong with you?" and it will creep her out fast.
It comes across as very aggressive
and controlling, and that's not the impression you want to give.
So wait until you know each other at least a little bit.
For instance, if she just met you or barely knows you, and all of a sudden,
you're trying to put your arm around her, whoa, that's creepy and she's done.
So give it some time, get to know her a little bit first,
let her see that you are a safe, normal person, not a creepy weirdo.
Tip number three might surprise you a little bit. This tip is to remember that she wants it too.
Touch is a magical thing. And as humans, it is something we want and even need.
And women really enjoy gentle, magical touch as well.
When she has feelings for you and there's real attraction there,
yeah, she definitely wants you to touch her, and she likes it. Like a lot.
It's key, again, that that attraction is there, that those feelings are there.
This is what makes touch magical and what helps you build an amazing relationship together.
By the way, there is a huge lie going around about women right now
and I'm sure that you've heard this lie too.
Many people think or say or claim that it is normal for women to be catty
and needy and hot and cold and belittling and critical.
Have you heard that lie? Is that something you've heard?
They claim that it's normal for you to have to walk on eggshells
and bend over backward to make a relationship work.
The media is saying this. Sadly, there are many female coaches who are telling
you this is the case to justify their bad behavior, but that's a topic for another day.
There are a lot of people in the news or in songs who are acting like this is normal and expected.
So I'm here to tell you the truth.
That is in fact not true.
It is not normal or okay for women to act that way.
There are women like that. There are. But it's not normal, it's not okay,
and it's not something you have to put up with.
You deserve a lot better than that.
There are so many good, loving, feminine, tender women out there
who are looking for an amazing man and who want to build a close, tender relationship.
Those women are nowhere near as loud as the others, but they are very much there.
These women want to treat you right.
So how do you find those women instead of the catty, fake women?
Have you ever wondered that?
This is exactly what I guide you through and help you master in my Academy.
That's why I have men all the time telling me that even though they
didn't really know if it was possible for them to find the love of their life,
well, now they've met her and they are marrying her.
These insider secrets are that powerful.
So if you are feeling like there are no good women around
you and you're wanting to finally find that sweet, adorable, gentle woman
that you desire, it's time for you to watch my new free masterclass.
You'll discover what to do there so that you can have that loving woman who treats you the
way you deserve to be treated. Who loves you so much she wants to spend her whole life with you.
Go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass
and watch this free masterclass, like today. Like, as soon as possible.
I will put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. Again,
just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
Don't settle for a relationship that's less than you want and that you deserve.
Don't assume that that's as good as it gets.
You deserve so much more. And I am the perfect person to guide you through that and help you
master it so that you can come home to her loving touch every night. So watch that masterclass.
Now that we've discussed that lie and the solution, let's move on to the next tip.
Now tip number four for how to touch a woman is to
look for the signs that she's interested, that she likes you, that that attraction is building.
Nothing (nothing) is worse than someone touching you in a flirty, "Hey, I'm interested" kind of
way when you are not interested. Like, it is unbelievably painful and awkward for both people.
But when she is interested, it's just, it's insanely exciting and magical and beautiful.
So make sure you see the simple body language signs that she is interested,
that she does like you, and that that touch will be well received and even returned.
If you have not yet seen this video on the hidden signs a girl likes you,
I'll put a link in the description below. Make sure you watch that one. It'll help you a ton.
My next tip for how to touch a woman is to never force touch. Like, ever.
This is actually the fastest way to freak her out and make her want
nothing to do with you ever again.
Remember what I said at the beginning of this video?
Gentle touch is the best for butterflies. It is just magical.
However, if you are forcing her to accept your touch or forcing her to be okay with you
touching her, that's just not okay in any way, and it's not going to make her enjoy it at all.
If you feel like you have to force it,
you should not be touching her. That's just a good ground rule.
Touch is always something that you share
between the two of you. That's what makes it magical for both of you.
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My next tip for how to touch a woman is to pay attention to how she reacts to you
when you do touch her.
The way she reacts will help you know if she's comfortable with it,
if she likes it, or if maybe you should just kind of back off for a while.
If she acts distant or uncomfortable, or maybe kind of cold towards you, that's a sign
you should stop. Like, it's not a good idea, she's not interested, at least at this point.
However, if she acts excited or a little bit giddy, or if she touches you back, or whatever
it is, if she's very receptive to it, then that's a really good sign that, yeah, she likes it
and it is very much giving her butterflies, it's something she enjoys.
Looking for these simple reactions is going to help you so much.
And then, obviously, looking for the body language signs, like I mentioned earlier,
is really going to set you up for success long term.
I know a lot of you here are already in my Academy,
and I want to remind you that when you finish you can watch my exclusive video
on how to have a magical first kiss, and the signs that she wants you to kiss her.
Really, just my best tips on how to just have a magical, amazing
first kiss and just kind of kissing in general is in that video.
So make sure you are utilizing that resource. It's powerful.
Never underestimate the power of looking for those simple body language signs.
My next tip for how to touch a woman
and give her those butterflies is to always approach touching her with good intentions.
This is the best way to make sure you are always staying appropriate.
Never touch her like a husband
unless you are her husband. And remember to keep her feelings in mind as well.
Anytime you approach anything in a relationship from a selfish
mindset, that's going to be very empty and not fulfilling at all.
However, again, when it's something you share
and you come in with the mindset of sharing how you feel about her and making her feel good too,
that's when you're coming at it from a really good, positive mindset that's going to leave
both of you feeling those butterflies and feeling closer to each other as a couple.
Rather than if you come from that selfish
mindset and point of view, then you're just going to feel empty.
Yes, you can and should want and need touch. There's nothing wrong with
that. Just make sure that you're sharing those butterflies, sharing that moment.
Touch her because you care about her and wanna make her feel special,
rather than just focusing on what you get from it.
When you come from the mindset of those good intentions in everything you do in a relationship,
it shows her that you are different. You stand out and she sees that you are exceptional.
Okay, let's recap what you've learned about how to touch a woman.
Tip number one is to touch her gently. Gentle touch is perfect for butterflies.
Number two is do not touch her too soon. That comes across as very needy
and awkward and creepy. Instead, wait till you know each other a little bit.
Three, remember that she wants it too. Women enjoy touch just as much as you
do. And when the attraction is there, those feelings are there, holy cow,
that's what makes the touch so magical and exciting and beautiful.
Number four, look for the signs that she's interested in you
before you touch her. This is going to help you know that that attraction is there
and helps you avoid feeling or being awkward or creepy.
Number five, never force touch ever, ever, ever, ever. Ever.
Number six, pay attention to how she reacts. Is she receptive,
or is she distant? That's going to help you know
how well it went over and if you should try touching her again, or if you should just not.
And number seven, always touch with good intentions. Your mindset,
when it comes to anything in relationships, will either
make or break it. So you always wanna make sure you have those good intentions.
Now, a quick reminder, if you want to discover how to find an exceptional woman, a stunning, loving,
gentle, sweet, adorable woman, completely captivate her and make her fall
so in love with you that she spends her entire life with you,
if that's what you wanna know how to do, there are 5 secrets that you must know in order to do this.
I help you quickly master all of these secrets in my Academy,
so you can finally hold her close every night.
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Well, by the end of this video, you will know how to touch a woman in a way that- What? [laughter]
Well, by the end of this video, you will know how to touch a woman and give her those butterflies,
no more creepiness and no more awkwardness. just those fun...
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