in this video you will learn ten signs that a man really loves you and adores
you but he's trying to hide it so if you're seeing these signs you can be
sure he's attracted and wants to be in a romantic relationship with you even if
he tries to hide his feelings for you don't go anywhere because we're starting
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adores you but he's hiding his feelings now there are several reasons why a man
might be purposefully hiding his feelings for you
first some men hide their feelings as a seduction technique in other words he's
hiding his feelings as an attempt to play hard-to-get so he's trying to keep
the way he feels a mystery from you in the hopes that you will think about him
more and therefore be more attracted to him
another reason he may be terrified of being rejected by you because he likes
you so much after all when he really likes you the stakes are much higher and
the potential to be hurt is greater so again he's hiding his feelings and
lastly a man might be hiding his feelings from you because he doesn't
want to lose power in appear too vulnerable
that's because some men believe that if they show a woman what they really feel
they will appear too sensitive which according to them is not an attractive
trait to him so they avoid sharing their feelings because they believe it is the
masculine thing to do now despite the fact that he's trying to hide his
feelings there are several Universal body
language clues physiological reactions and behavioral clues that are nearly
impossible to hide and they can't be faked so if you are seeing these signs
you can be sure that he adores you and wants to pursue a romantic relationship
with you number one he's nervous around you and he tries to hide it so this is
such a classic sign he gets nervous and maybe even tongue-tied around you this
is because he cares about what you think and he wants to make a good impression
perhaps you intimidate him because he thinks that you're out of his league and
he may feel that he's falling short and that makes him nervous
so does he seem jittery does he blush or turn red in your presence is he sweating
more than what would be normal or does he seem to have a hard time getting his
words up if so these are all signs of being nervous and don't get me wrong
nervousness is a good thing think about how you feel before going on a job
interview for a position you really want you want to make the best first
impression because you want the job and that puts the pressure on and makes you
feel nervous that's the same thing that's happening here he wants you and
thus he's nervous that he isn't making a great impression number two he asked a
lot of questions and he remembers details about you when a man is into you
he will show a great interest in your life he will ask you all sorts of
questions including those that are really intimate and he remembers details
about you even if you mentioned something briefly in passing about your
favorite color or favorite flavor or about a Netflix ear as you like he will
remember those details and let me tell you I because what you say is so tied to
him emotionally your words will be forged into his memory think about it
this way most of us have a very vivid memory of 9/11 we remember even the
slightest details of what we were doing when we first heard the news we remember
so vividly because of all the emotions that were attached to the memory so when
a guy remembers surprising details and specifics about you and your schedule
it's clear that he likes you even if he doesn't want others to know number three
he often tries to make you laugh when strangers meet the more times a man
tries to be funny and the more times a woman laughs at those attempts the more
likely it is for the woman to be interested in dating and this has been
well researched and men know this so the more and man likes you and is interested
in you the more he wants to make you laugh and be funny oh and an even better
indicator of attraction is if the two of you are laughing together number four he
gives you strong and sustained eye contact especially from a distance when
a person is interested and attracted to you they look at you a lot now before I
get too far into this one I also need to say that if a guy is really nervous
around you he may not maintain locked eyes with you
when you are very near each other especially if he isn't sure of how you
feel but from a distance you will always catch him staring at you so if a guy's
looking at you and holding that sustained eye contact and giving you
those smiling eyes that's a great sign and the second part of this if he is
close enough for you to see that his pupils are dilated
that's even better when we are attracted to someone our pupils dilate and it
becomes obvious and this one is also one that can't be faked and lastly if you
notice him glancing around your face starting with the eyes and then he looks
at your mouth and your lips and then back at your eyes and maybe at your hair
those are more signs that he's attracted to you
number five his palms are sweaty sweaty palms is a classic physiological
response to attraction that's because the brain releases specific
neurotransmitters whenever were around a love interest this brain cocktail
produces feelings of excitement racing heart breathlessness and moist hands
norepinephrine in particular is responsible for rousing our sweat glands
into action and since our palms have up to 3,000 miniscule sweat glands per
square inch they can quickly become a telltale sign of sexual interest so if
you find that his hands are sweating or if you suddenly notice him sweating in
an otherwise cool location yep he likes you
number six he's standing straighter around you the term peacocking has been
used to describe the ways that men make a display of their attraction to women
this is a showy behavior that is designed to attract your attention
they are literally saying look at me with their behavior so if a man stands
up straight inhales deeply to puff out his chest positions his feet and
shoulders evenly he's trying to show you that he has a strong and fit body he's
trying to appear attractive to you and from an evolutionary perspective a
strong fit body is presumed to be more fertile so for example he was slouching
until you showed up then he sat up straight or stood a little taller when
you came around he probably pushed out his chest a bit and sucked in his gut to
these posture adjustments are done to look more attractive to you there are a
definite sign that he's attracted to you by the way is there a particular thing
that you do when you like someone maybe it's something that your friends have
pointed out something you do whenever you're crushing on someone I'd love to
hear about it so leave a comment below and let's start a discussion
number seven he finds excuses to talk to you or to see you he finds excuses to
talk with you or he talks to you outside of the place where you usually see him
like outside of work or school for example if a guy likes you he might
ask you for things he didn't necessarily need to ask you or start a conversation
he didn't need to have with you he might ask seemingly random questions seeking
your opinion about a restaurant or a movie or a place to shop when he wants
to get your attention he'll think of something even if he just makes it up
and not only that when texting he keeps the conversation going even if he has to
start a new topic when a person is interested in you they seek to maintain
the communication even if they are super busy and might not be able to respond
immediately when they do they put effort into the communication and they seek to
keep it going so you'll know he really likes you when
he holds a conversation when he furthers the conversation and asks you questions
that go beyond the obligatory acknowledgment and responds to your text
number eight he mirrors your gestures and copies you a very good subconscious
sign to look for is if he's mirroring your actions back at you and he won't
even know he's doing it if you make a gesture like touching or smoothing your
hair and then you notice that he makes the same gesture soon after it means
he's probably attracted to you and a great way to let him know that you're
interested too is to copy his actions as well touch your face after he touches
his smooth your hair when he smooths his and so on number nine body contact and
touching another behavior that shows interest and attraction is touch when
someone is attracted to you they will likely find some excuse to touch you
more and they will be more receptive to your touch as well they may even
increase their touching over time going from friendly handshakes to greeting and
parting with hugs or maybe he will try to get you to play a game that involves
touching hands or something silly like that
so here's something that you can try if he's not touching you or bumping into
you you can try casually touching him and
gauge his response if you casually touch him and he abruptly pulls away yeah
that's not a good sign oh and here are a couple bonus signs he
leans in or maintains closer than average personal space and he smiles
especially if his posture is open and his feet and pelvis are pointed towards
you so he's leaning in getting closer he's letting you know
he wants to hear you then does he treat or does he stay closer another clue he
smiles at you a lot real smiles happy smiles he smiles above the mouth real
smiles extend well above the mouth they lift the forehead and give you a
slightly squinty eyes if his smile involves his whole face he means you're
genuinely affecting him in a good way number 10 he wants to spend time with
you regardless of what you're doing in other words he wants to be with you even
when what you're doing is not fun when a man is in love with you what matters
most is spending time with you not what you're doing together so if he's there
to help you when you have work to do if he's there to help you when you're
moving if he's there to help you paint you know that he feels strongly about
you bottom line if they are happy to see you no matter what the two of you are
doing it's a good sign he may be in love another example he will often go the
extra mile to help you with something a project a need an errand etc again he
just wants to be near you regardless now if you're not seeing all these signs
there are a few things that you can do to spark up his interest and really get
him addicted to you click here to watch a video that explains how to make a man
addicted to you or click here to watch the video that YouTube things that you
like I'll see you in that video