Hello, my loves!
Welcome back to Lavendaire.
So this year I started experimenting,
planning my life using numerology.
So numerology is a topic
that I've just dabbled in the past
I've made one video about it,
but recently I had Joy Woodward on my podcast
and then she gave me a reading.
So she's this expert numerologist
known as Joy of Numerology.
She taught me this method to plan my months
and my days using numerology.
And it's been something that's extra insightful.
It's very detailed and in-depth
that I'm like, wow.
So I'm experimenting with it
and I would love to share this method
with you guys because it's so useful.
So numerology, if you don't know,
do a quick Google search.
But it's just the belief
that numbers carry energy.
It's essentially a system that is similar
to things like astrology or palmistry
or Fung Shui.
And I know when we talk about things like that,
some people are super skeptical,
they're like, I don't believe in that.
That's not real.
But I mean, if you clicked on this video,
it means you're curious, right?
I'm someone who's super curious.
I am very open-minded to this whole world
of like self-discovery tools.
I love astrology.
So I am definitely in the camp of
I'm gonna believe it and I'm gonna use it.
If it's a tool, of course, you know,
take everything with a grain of salt.
Check with yourself if it feels right,
but everything, just use it as a tool,
use it as a guide.
It can only help you, right?
I feel like it's just knowing this
extra information can be empowering.
What I'm gonna teach you is how to figure out
the theme of your year,
the theme of your months,
and the theme of your days.
And knowing this information
will empower you to know like,
okay, I know what to focus on this month.
The energy is helping me in this area of life,
in family or in an organization.
And then going down to the day,
knowing this numerology method can help you
plan important dates.
Like, oh, I'm gonna use this day to go on a date.
I'm gonna use this day to start my business.
Each day carries its own energy
and you want to go with the energy of that day
rather than against it.
Hopefully, this method will help your life
feel like it flows more smoothly.
I also wanna note that it's different for everybody
because these numbers are
calculated based on your birthday.
That's why each day is like,
it's very personal.
Today is a good day for me to create,
but for you, it might be a good day for
solitude and meditation.
All right, let's jump into
how to calculate everything.
So first, let's start off with
calculating your attitude number.
This is calculated by
adding your birth month
and birth date together,
excluding your birth year.
So if your birthday is October 21st,
like my birthday,
then you would add 1 + 0 + 2 + 1.
So for me, that number equals 4,
which is the number that I'm starting with.
To calculate everything else,
we're gonna go into quick notes.
In numerology, the method is to add up
every single digit in the numbers,
and if your answer comes out to two digits,
say it came out to like 23 or something,
then you add those two digits again
until it boils down and reduces to a single digit.
The exceptions to that are when the number
adds up to either 11, 22 or 33,
those are called master numbers
and they carry with it like an extra meaning
on top of the single-digit number
that they boil down to.
Moving on, let's calculate
your personal year number.
So this number represents
your theme for this entire year.
So you calculate this by
adding your attitude number,
which we just calculated in the previous step,
and adding that with the digits of the year.
So you would take that number.
You got, for example, we got 4 for me,
and then you would add 2 + 0 + 2 + 3 for 2023.
As you can see, for me, it adds up to 11,
which you can boil down to two.
So I mentioned master numbers,
I'm gonna master number year.
So if you have 11, it's written as 11/2,
meaning it takes on, you know,
the meaning of both numbers.
You have to look up
the meaning of master number 11
as well as the number 2
to understand your theme for the year.
Most people, it'll boil down to a single number,
but the master numbers again are 11, 22 and 33.
So real quick,
if you did the math comment down below,
what is your personal year number?
I would love to know
what theme you guys are living this year.
So each digit has a meeting.
So if you're in a personal year one,
it means this is a year for
new beginnings to start something new.
You're in a new cycle of life basically.
And for me, I'm in a year two and also 11.
So it's a year for relationships
and connecting with people
and also taking the next steps.
After having my year one last year,
every all the seeds that I've planted last year,
I have to nurture the seeds now in year two.
So each number has a meaning,
and I won't go through all of them
just to save your time,
but you can Google it.
Google personal year 3,
personal year, whatever digit you got.
All right, moving on to the next step is
figuring out your personal month.
So your personal month number is
the theme of your month,
and I find this to be really helpful in
guiding me towards like my monthly goals.
So the way you calculate this is to take
your personal year number
and then add that with the month.
So if it's January, you add one.
If it's February, you add two, and so on.
So for example, we are in February,
so I would add my 2,
which is my year number plus 2.
So February is a four personal month for me,
and the number 4 means it is a month
for me to get organized
to create some structure in my life,
lay the foundations
and even take care of my health.
All those like house cleaning,
things like that.
And that's kind of
what I'm focusing on this month
because again, I'm testing
and experimenting flowing with this energy.
Again, you can look up your specific number
on what that number means,
what energy it carries,
what themes it points towards.
I'll go through the numbers one through nine
when I'm describing the days.
So you'll get an understanding.
I just don't wanna repeat every single
one for year, month, and day.
So next, moving on to personal day.
So the way you calculate this is you take the
personal month number and then
you add it to the day in the calendar.
So if it's February 21st,
you would take your month number
from February and then add it to two plus one.
So for me, that would be four plus two plus one,
because my February month number was four,
and that comes out to seven.
So that would mean
February 21st for me personally,
is a seven day and seven is a day
that carries with it the energy of solitude.
This is a day for self-care going inwards,
being introverted, meditating,
taking time to just take care of yourself.
It's not a very action-oriented day,
it's a day to like rejuvenate.
So knowing your personal day will really help you
kind of organize your life around the
different days in your week.
Like, okay, today's a one day,
let's start something new.
Today's a two day, let's do something with relationships.
I find this is so interesting and so empowering
because for example, if you're planning important dates
to launch something or maybe you need
to get surgery or something,
you want to kind of pick the right date
if you have some flexibility,
let me give you a quick rundown of what each
number means from one through nine.
So you have a general idea, and I'm reading this from my notes
from Joy Woodward's reading
and her PDF that she sent me just to give her credit.
So personal day one is a day of great ideas.
It's a day to begin something.
So that day you wanna focus on yourself
and it's time to be decisive
and take confident action personal day.
Two, you wanna be patient and tend to the details.
It's a day to work on relationships and cooperation.
It's more of a gentle day, so you might feel more sensitive and intuitive.
Personal. Day three is a day to be creative and social.
So you wanna spend time with friends and communicate.
You wanna make connections
and accept any invitations that you may receive.
It's a day to practice gratitude and it is a lucky day.
Personal day four is a day to get organized.
Focus on your health guard against being rigid,
uptight, or controlling.
And also don't procrastinate.
You wanna take care of the details
to move you closer to your goals.
Personal day five is all about change.
So you want to make a change network
or promote yourself.
Guard against being too impulsive,
focus your energy and just be aware
that your day might not go as planned
because change spontaneity is the theme of days
five on personal day six.
You wanna pay attention to your family, pets, and home.
It's a day to focus on domestic matters
and channeling your nurturing energy.
It's also a good day to focus on beauty.
So things like redecorating your room or
getting your hair done are all good things for day six.
Personal day seven is a day four, quiet and solitude.
This is a day where you want to rest and reevaluate,
meditate, go slower.
You will probably feel more reclusive
and introverted and you definitely wanna
take time for self-care.
Personal day eight is a day of money and karma.
So you want to handle anything money related,
like pay your bills, pay any debts, or ask for a raise.
In terms of karma,
this is a day where you really wanna put out
what you want to receive
because karma will come back to you.
And finally, personal day nine is a day to wrap things up,
to release and forgive.
Practice random acts of kindness,
give something away,
finalize all your projects and all the details.
All right, so now let's talk about
how to track all these numbers
cause it can get confusing.
You don't wanna be doing math every single day
to calculate what your day is, right?
So there are a few different ways you can do this.
The easiest way is to put the numbers in a calendar.
So for example, in our weekly reset planner,
we have this empty calendar where
you can write in not just the days of the month,
but also like your personal day
and the personal month number.
Of course you can do this on a physical or digital calendar.
One thing I want to encourage you to do is
not just like write the numbers down but also take notes.
Like as you go about your days,
write a little note on like what happened that day
and see if you can see any correlation to,
oh, this happened on a two day,
this happened on a four day.
That's kind of the process that I'm living now
because like I said,
I'm still experimenting with this method.
So you can write these notes
directly on your calendar
or something that I'm doing as well is
I use this app called day one to journal every single day.
I've talked about this many times.
I've used this app for like over a decade.
Something you can do on day one is
you can add tags to your post.
So what I'm doing is
I just go about writing my notes for the day,
adding my photos as usual,
and then I'll tag it the personal day number.
So I'll be like, this was a one day, two day, three day,
and then I'm able to look at my tags
and look at all the entries I wrote for each number.
Then I could kind of see like,
does this make sense?
Does this correlate?
Does this help empower me
and help improve my life in a way?
So I'm still in the process,
but I started doing this at the beginning of this year.
So it's only been a month and a half,
but it's exciting and it's fun.
So let me know if you guys are gonna try this.
I know the personal day is like, it's a lot, right?
You're looking at every single day.
So even if you just calculate your personal year
and your personal month
and then you kind of use that to guide your monthly goals
or yearly goals, then I feel like that's already enough.
You know, you don't really need to do too much.
But anyway, I hope that this was helpful.
Let me know if you apply it to your life
or if you see any correlations,
comment down below.
If you wanna learn more about numerology,
don't forget to check out our podcast.
I'll link that down below as well.
Sending you so much love!
and I'll see you in the next one.
Bye.