you guys know I'm gonna take a break for a really long time but I'm okay and I'll
be okay I always yeah it was really it was tense
she was mad at me and I said I'm sorry I won't say anything again I won't say
anything again that was Trisha Paytas and jason nash are they getting back
together I'm about to explain why it won't work what is up everybody this is
Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the problem but focus on the
solution and if you are new to my channel my channel is all about mental
health and a huge part of our mental health is the relationships that we'd
get into the relationships that we get back into the relationships that we
pursue that affects our mental health more than anything so many people so
many people struggle with their mental health because they keep getting into
bad relationships so in this video I'm gonna be talking about two pretty baby
youtubers jason nash and Trisha Paytas so a few things a few disclaimers real
quick the first one is those of you who are
new to my channel I do not make these videos in any way to drag anybody to
talk or anything like that I am somebody who gives tough love though okay but the
goal of my videos is never because I think that they're gonna explode or even
these big youtubers are gonna see them my videos are to help you my videos are
to help my audience so when I talk about the mental health of different youtubers
and what they're struggling with I hope that you can take lessons from it I hope
that you can take a step back look at your life and say oh do I do these
things am i somebody who's been you know getting into bad relationships how can I
really what I'm doing and maybe improve my mental health so these videos are to
help you the second disclaimer I threw out there is time is a very valuable and
precious asset especially for me okay six years ago I almost died so the way I
live my life one of the ways that I keep good mental health is that I do not
waste time I refuse to waste my time so the reason why I'm
saying that is jason nash and Trisha Paytas have made a lot of videos back
and forth about their breakup okay and most of them are anywhere between 20
minutes on the low-end 40 minutes from the medium side and over an hour on the
high side and in no way am I going to sit through and watch those okay I skip
through got the gist read the comments that's what I'm going to be taking and
putting in here so I'm not gonna have a million clips I'm gonna use a couple but
that's it I'll provide the links to their videos down below maybe just a
couple videos because there's a lot of them but again I'm not going to waste my
time watching it especially when half the video is like this I thought I was
so sure I wanted to go earlier this morning and then
I'm treating them sobered but so those of you who are all up in the youtube
drama sphere like I like to do this is the the too long
dinner rate type just offense okay Jason Nash is one of the Friends of David
Gilbert david dobrik is a huge youtuber he started out on vine very big jason
nash it's part of this little fun bunch okay
he's about 45 years old hangs out with these kids that you know go for it man
you do you okay twitter penis she is somebody with millions of subscribers
herself and she makes a lot of videos and i could do a million videos just
about the mental health of Trisha Paytas alone the symptoms that I see not to
give early diagnosis but just when I see that she struggles with but a lot of
people do follow Trisha Paytas and she documents just about everything going on
in her life and sometimes it's pretty much a hot mess again like when I go
through this video one of the ways is I'm making this video is because these
two were me okay I used to be this person one of the ways I've sort of this
channel is cuz I have a lot of lived experience being a crazy person I have a
lot of lived experience and getting into terrible relationships alright so when I
watch these things now that I'm doing much better mentally I watch them and
like man that used to be me and hopefully hopefully some people can
learn from these lessons okay so anyways what happened with these two is Trisha
has said to him you know she can make fun of her weight but please don't make
fun of my weight please don't talk about my weight okay so in Jason's first
response video he talks about how he's had to tiptoe around the subject and he
apologizes and all these things talks about her diet and things like that she
gets very mad upset and he says sorry sorry sorry by the way first big red fly
if a lot of your relationship is based around tiptoeing around different
subjects especially if you can't get it through your head what topics do not
discuss or how to approach them properly this is a huge red flag of when this
relationship isn't going to work so anyways the reason this breakup happened
was these we're doing some kind of show some kind
of reality show and Jason made a joke Trisha gets really really upset about
this and she makes a video something along the lines with the title of he
called me fat and in this video she is just a crying mess it's like an hour
long and she's talking about how he called her fat and she can't change for
him and you know she doesn't want to eat around him and she feels uncomfortable
so what are these things is if you're if you're the person in this situation
where you feel like this especially when it's a new relationship if you feel like
this person doesn't accept you and your body and stuff maybe maybe it's not the
person you should be dating but there's also the fact that you have a lot of
work to do okay so for example me I've made some videos about my weight my
weight loss and stuff like that this is a hundred percent for me okay I realize
that my body is a result of my choices alright I have to accept it I do not get
offended when people make fun of my weight or anything I even when people
leave comments I like laugh with them like whatever like you're not telling me
anything I don't know I am overweight but if you're struggling with this like
you need to look within yourself and say okay how do I deal with this because it
is an insane expectation to go around thinking that nobody's going to comment
or say anything and stuff like that if you don't like the way you look start
making small baby steps towards the solution now part of this this whole
series going back and forth is how they talk about how there's someone love
they're so in love they're so in love she loves them so much they've been
together for six months okay about six months I believe it might have known
each other a little bit longer alright now this isn't something this
isn't something I'm gonna you know diagnose I'm not a clinician or anything
when I talk about symptoms of different mental illnesses like when I talk about
borderline personality disorder these extreme emotions right extreme emotions
and one of those extreme emotions is I don't just like somebody I love this
person okay and even if you don't have something like BPD is something to watch
out for because when you feel these intense emotions what happens is it
clouds you to all of the defects of the other person because you just love the
feeling of being wanted okay so not only are they saying that they're in
love but like Jason even got a tattoo or Trish's name by the way this is not
mental health related but I'm not a very superstitious person but getting a
tattoo of your boyfriend and girlfriend's name is like extreme bad
luck just from what I've seen alright so anyways after all these back and forth
and stuff like that we've slowly seen them start talking again ok a little bit
here a little bit there things are calming down and suddenly they started
talking about in these videos is that you know not only are they gonna meet up
in Boston and things like that and she's gonna hang out with his family and all
that but they say this they say that one of the main issues with their
relationship is that they film together they're both youtubers and when they
make videos together that's the source of the problem so the first one of the
first issues I want to point out with this is that is that when you start to
lie to yourself in this in this deceptive way like you pick out this
really trivial weird thing and you say oh that was the problem by the way I've
done it too and I'm thinking about dedicating a week to all the terrible
relationships I've been in and stuff like that and a lot of it had to do with
me and my thought process of my mental health make believing that the filming
together was the issue let's say they're right let's say filming together was the
issue well these next clips I'm going to show you is them filming together so
that's another issue when you acknowledge a problem but then you still
do it anyways they literally film together in the same
videos where they're talking about one of their main issues is filming together
okay so whether they were in a mental health
space of self-deception or not they are doing the exact thing that they said was
a problem and what happens with this is that you slowly start to do it thinking
that you can do that toxic thing again and it won't be an issue and then the
definition of insanity happens doing the same thing over and over and expecting
different results so like I said I'm not gonna use a million clips but I do just
want to point this out because there's a lot of self-deception with these two
getting back together but they don't no they don't they didn't in their defense
they weren't privy to all the inside information
like I was texting with you during that time so I knew that you know and I will
stay also I also knew that you weren't gonna I also knew that you weren't gonna
like starts burning lies about me or anything like that
alright so Jason ash doesn't think that Trisha is running around but he lies
about him that's cool but let's take a look back at his very first response
video and see how many times he thinks is lying here at all
she's perfect size for me I do not care I I don't care what she looks like and
the fact that she's twisting it this way to say that because I'm fat because I'm
gross because in fact it's it it's just not true
whoo this is the part in those in her video that isn't true or she changed
I apologize that's another lie I definitely apologize I apologize several
times this is something that we do I'm gonna link in the info card a video I
did about the the spoiled milk philosophy and long story short spoiled
no philosophy is this getting back with an ex is like taking spoiled milk out of
the fridge drinking it putting it back in the fridge
coming back to it days weeks or months later pulling it back out and thinking
it's gonna be good again that is insane and that's what we're
watching here and it's an interesting part of human nature so some of you know
I work at a drug and alcohol treatment center and it's very common with drug
addicts and alcoholics but it's also part of human nature and it's very
fascinating but it destroys our mental health and here's what I mean you start
to lie to yourself about the past you start to minimize things you say oh it
wasn't that bad oh no I didn't mean it like this
oh no she wasn't really lying oh okay you know and all these things and maybe
we'll never know who's lying who's not but when you start moving back
towards that relationship that bad relationship and lying to yourself it
wasn't that bad you know things were okay this is gonna work like it's not
it's not I often say this when you think that you're gonna change somebody when
you think that you're gonna give in this relationship and wait for somebody to
change think about how hard it is for you
to change what is the last time you made a major life change I'm not talking
about going to the gym I'm not talking about dieting I'm not talking about
moving to a different city I'm talking about like pure like personality change
like it is very hard it is very rare for someone to go through this experience
where they do this complete change so when you're getting into a relationship
and you're waiting around for the other person to change and Bend and mold into
the person you think they should be or the think they the person they can be
you are wasting your time and again time is very valuable all right I often ask
my clients in groups and there's 60 to 70 people in these large groups that I
do I say how many people in this room have spent far too much time in a
relationship waiting for the other person to change and you see about 75 to
90 percent of the hands go up quit wasting time we have one life to live
quit wasting time waiting for somebody to change there are over seven billion
people on this planet sometimes it's just the time to sit back and have this
moment of clarity where you're like oh my god maybe this isn't the right person
for me maybe I should spend my time looking for somebody else okay so in my
opinion my prediction this is not gonna work they're gonna break up again they
might break up multiple times and it's not gonna work out very well so again I
ask you to look at yourself and see what's your experience with getting back
with exes what's lying to yourself minimizing the
toxic relationship that you were in minimizing the past and the stories and
the craziness and the chaos how often do you do this and has it helped you or has
it hurt you okay but anyways I hope you enjoyed this video and if you liked it
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