- Does it take him days to respond?
And has he shown less interest in you,
even though he made it totally clear that he is into you?
If you find yourself in this situation, then keep watching
because I'm going to be unraveling exactly why this happens.
I'm gonna be naming three super important reasons
on why this actually happens.
And without further ado, let's jump into it.
Hi everyone, my name is Ieva Bereisaite,
I am one of Greta's high value women coaches.
And today I am going to be naming three reasons
why interested men disappear, and what you can do about it.
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So, reason number one on why interested men disappear
is because they want to test you.
If a guy has pulled away by not replying to your text.
If a guy has pulled away by not replying to your text
and leaving you on read for a couple of days,
it can be because he is testing you.
He might just simply want to know
if you double or triple text him.
Keep in mind that if you do double or triple text him,
it will really show that you are very interested
and very keen on him.
It's best and the safest to not double
or even triple text if he has left you on read.
If you pursue him via text,
you are literally chasing him.
And by doing that, you are taking the challenge away.
If a guy tells you that he is really interested in you
or that he is into you,
then most likely he has been seeing you as a challenge
and has been pursuing you.
And if the relationship
or the starting phase of a relationship is going well,
and he might be showing less interest
by not replying as quickly
or he might be leaving you on read.
Whatever you do, don't start pursuing him
and chasing him basically.
It is possible that he is doing this on purpose
and he is playing a type of game
to see if you will really start chasing him.
And if you would, in a way, start acting low value.
Men sometimes do these types of tests
to basically get us ego stroke.
If you feel like he is in a way,
just testing you or playing a game,
then for sure don't fall into the trap.
And if you have been acting high value, continue to do that.
And don't worry if he said to you
that he's super, super interested in you
and he really really likes spending time with you.
And if he disappears for a day or two,
or might not reply to your texts, don't worry about it
especially if he tells you beforehand, a while ago maybe,
that he's interested in you.
It might just be a game to see
if you are going to start pursuing him.
So whatever you do, don't do that, and don't worry.
Men do these types of games just to see how you will react.
And simply just to find out how interested you are in them,
and to see if this type of stuff works with you.
So that was reason number one
on why men do these types of things.
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Reason number two might simply be
because he is just really busy
or maybe something bad happened in his own personal life.
It's important not to jump into the scenario of,
oh my gosh, it's happened again.
A guy started liking me and he just disappeared.
And I've ruined it, or I've done something.
Let's never jump to that scenario.
Let's try and control our emotions and not overdo
what has actually happened
and not jump to conclusions straight away.
A lot of the time I have noticed,
especially for a woman
who has been acting high value, right?
She hasn't chased him.
She let him pursue her.
He's been treating her well,
and he has just pulled away or not replied that often
to the texts that she sent anymore,
or has maybe not called that often.
It is definitely possible
that he's just really stressed out at work,
maybe has family issues,
or is just super, super busy with something.
The fact is when a man is really stressed out
or when he does have some problems,
then he will naturally pull away into his so-called cave
or just to basically take time for himself
and to solve the issues that he has.
Especially if he has actually mentioned that he is stressed
or that he does have a lot of things on his plate
and pulls away, then definitely don't worry.
Just let him be because if he's a good guy
and he's not lying about this,
he will simply come around when he has solved this problem.
So in this case, it really does help to be patient
and to just see how it goes.
This is one of the reasons why a man shows less interest.
And I think this reason is very often overlooked.
And I remember talking to clients and even fans
who were worried that their guys
are showing them less attention.
And they were all acting high value, right?
And at the end of the day, the men were simply really busy
or they had a lot to do with work.
Especially when it comes down to women who are married
or women who are in a relationship.
If a guy shows you less interest,
but there has not been a fight going on.
Everything seems fine,
but he just seems consumed in his thoughts,
then it means he has something on his mind.
The best thing that you can do in this case
is to really give him space.
One of the things that I really do want to mention
is, for example,
if you find yourself in a healthy relationship
and in a healthy marriage, right?
And everything is going well, and you are acting high value
and the relationship is going well,
but he just seems less interested,
or he just seems like he has distanced himself
in his own thoughts.
And he might not be communicating with you
that much anymore.
And if the relationship is going well,
or even if you might be living together,
you can ask him, are you okay?
If you guys are in a conversation,
how's everything been with you, are you okay?
And a lot of the time, if the relationship is going well,
the guy might say, yeah, I've just been stressed.
And if you get that answer,
this is one of the reasons why he would show less interest
in your life, and he would pull away in a way
because he has a problem to solve.
So his attention is going on to that problem solving stage.
And when men solve problems,
they don't talk about their problems
unless they are really looking for a solution, right?
And for the most part,
most men won't ask for help when they are solving a problem,
unless it's someone, most likely another man
who really knows his stuff
when it comes to that specific problem.
So if he doesn't talk to you about
whatever might be going on, don't be upset about that,
it is actually normal for men.
Reason number three might be that you acted low value.
If a guy told you that he's interested in you,
it does not mean that you can stop acting high value.
If a guy shows you his interest
or tells you that he's interested,
it's a sign that you're doing everything correctly,
and that you should continue doing that.
If you have been acting high value
and the guy says that he likes you,
then just continue acting high value and whatever you do,
do not start acting low value.
And if you really just fell for him
when he said that he does really like you
and you are actually in love with the guy almost.
And even if you felt that you did
act a little bit low value like you call him first
maybe more than you definitely should,
or double text sometimes.
And if you have seen yourself doing that,
especially in the starting stages of the relationship,
then definitely don't continue in that pattern,
and start acting the high value way.
Don't fall into pursuing him
or really just running after him, okay?
That potentially can really ruin the relationship.
And by low value traits, I really want to make sure
that you ladies know exactly what I mean.
So these are the low value traits that I am talking about.
For example, you told him you love him first.
And again, you're in the starting stages
of the relationship, for example,
or he showed you in trust and you ended up inviting him
to your house and cooked this three course meal for him
simply because he let you know that he is interested in you.
So when you find out that he's interested in you,
don't overdo it.
Continue doing everything that you have done,
and don't take it as a ticket
to really start wearing your heart on your sleeve.
Instead, stay consistent with what you do.
And it really is in the small things
like it always has been.
Don't change a working system,
especially when it comes down to being high value.
Have you, for example,
stopped going out with your friends
in order to spend more time with him?
And has he picked up on that?
If he has, then it is one of the reasons
why he has potentially disappeared
after he has shown interest.
Maybe after him really showing you
that he's interested in you,
have you then jumped into bed with him.
Well, if that was the case,
then this can really be another reason
why he has disappeared.
If you see yourself in what I'm saying,
and if you in any way, have acted low value,
then think about what it was that you did,
and try to analyze that.
Consider for yourself what you can do instead,
and how you specifically can start acting high value.
If you have started acting low value,
you have taken the chase away from him.
And the chase is totally his job,
so it's like taking his job away.
This is one of the main reasons why men disappear.
Men don't think like women do.
It is very important to understand that.
Women might think if I do this or that,
or if I overdo it, then he will fall in love with me.
Very often women do over-give
and men are simply not worthy of it.
If you over-give to a man,
he will simply not fall in love with you
because that is not what his love need is.
A man's love need is not to be cherished,
that is a woman's love need.
A man's love need is uncertainty.
So keep that in mind.
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Whatever the reason might be,
that he has disappeared on you or has shown less interest,
one of the really good things that you can do,
either way, if you are married, in a relationship,
or if you're in the early starting stages, act high value.
If you really do see yourself
in one of the three reasons that I mentioned,
the end key answer to this is to,
even if you, for whatever reason,
because maybe you really did fall in love,
or you saw his interest as a sign
that it is okay to lower your guard.
Put your guard back up,
continue acting, or start acting high value again.
And if he does pull away, whatever you do,
do not text him or communicate to him.
What did I do wrong?
Why did you pull away?
Is it my fault again?
I thought you liked me.
Don't do any of these things, right?
The only thing that you can do is if he pulls away,
he pulls away, it's his decision.
He made that decision, right?
You continue living your life.
And when he shows up into your life,
you can even distance yourself emotionally a little bit
to see how he will react.
If he pulls away, it gives him time to miss you.
And men fall in love more when there is distance, okay?
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and it is very important to keep in mind.
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