Can men orgasm without ejaculation? Why would they want to do it? And what do non-ejaculatory orgasms
have to do with tantric orgasms and with being a multi-orgasmic man? Don't go anywhere! I've got
it all here for you! My name is Helena Nista and I am a sex therapist and a Tantra practitioner.
I make videos about great sex, legendary pleasure, about Tantra and passionate relationships.
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get access to all of my new tools, tips and techniques. Let's talk about ejaculation!
It's highly pleasurable, it helps relieve stress and tension, it helps you sleep better and medical
doctors claim that it's beneficial for the health of your prostate. However, many men tell me about
side effects of releasing semen, particularly when they are releasing it frequently. For most men,
that climax of pleasure is followed by a sense of fatigue, of being drained, by a foggy brain and
by lack of motivation. Also for most men ejaculation means the end of sexual intercourse
because of the refractory period that prevents them from getting hard again for a while.
This can be frustrating for many men who would love to be able to make love for much longer.
The refractory period can last between a few minutes and a few days, depending on your age,
your health and overall well-being. So what's the alternative?! Well, I'm glad that you asked.
According to tantric practitioners any man can learn to separate the experience of orgasm from
the experience of ejaculation. These two are in fact two separate phenomena that
usually occur together for a man. Ejaculation is the pleasurable squirting of the semen,
while orgasm is a release of arousal, of the sexual energy that was built up
during intercourse or masturbation. When a man is ejaculating, that external flow of semen
will typically pull all of his sexual energy out with it. This is why typically men lose so much
energy during ejaculation and feel quite deflated afterwards. However, when a man can orgasm without
ejaculating, he can allow that delicious orgasmic force to implode internally, inside of his body,
giving him an experience of an expanded, full body ecstasy. Orgasming without ejaculation also means
that you as a man can keep going in bed for as long as you want because there's no refractory
period. That means that you can keep your erection after each orgasm and you can keep penetrating
your woman. This in turn is a true treat for your lady because most women struggle to orgasm or
to experience sexual satisfaction when the man can't last long enough. The biggest issue with
experiencing full-body orgasms is the conditioning most men have around sex. Particularly porn trains
us to think of ejaculation as a natural conclusion of a sexual experience. I've even had some clients
ask me in my sessions whether it's harmful for them to not ejaculate during sex. And let me
reassure you - no, it's not harmful at all! It might just be a bit uncomfortable if you leave
sexual energy sitting in your pelvis, in your sex center. Because that energy is really strong
and potent and it will need to be either released externally or spread out through your entire body.
So what are non-ejaculatory orgasms and how to have them? An orgasm without ejaculation, also
known as an expanded orgasm, full-body orgasm, energy orgasm, valley orgasm or a tantric orgasm
is a very blissful experience where sexual energy is released internally in your body. Imagine your
erotic pleasure the way you feel it in your cock when you're hard and aroused. Imagine that
blissful, electric energy vibrating and flowing through your entire body, not with that pressing
sense of an urge to be released but with a sense of trance-like ecstasy. Tantric men
who learn to orgasm without ejaculation describe going into altered states of consciousness where
the pleasure is so blissful and divine that the ejaculation just pales in comparison.
In addition, full-body orgasms last much longer and they leave you feeling satisfied, nurtured
and deeply energized. They fuel your creativity, your clarity of thinking, your masculine charisma
and your well-being. In order to have them you need to learn to hold sexual energy in your body.
So instead of thrusting quickly, forcefully and mechanically, slow down, notice all the pleasure
and savor it in your body. Here my video on edging for stronger orgasms will be very helpful so make
sure to check it out here! And if you're ready to go all the way and become a tantric lover yourself
then you should definitely check out my Tantric Mastery for Men online course.
It will teach you everything you need to know about lasting as long as you want,
about having full-body non-ejaculatory orgasms and about being a multi-orgasmic man. And a few
quick tips here are: 1/ fast pace and friction will lead to high levels of excitement which will
then take you into ejaculation fairly quickly. So don't over-stimulate your body. Slow down the
penetration, keep noticing the sensations in your body and keep enjoying the pleasure and arousal
without needing to release it quickly. 2/ forget orgasm and enjoy sex for the sake of
pleasure there is much more to intercourse than just ejaculation so train yourself to
keep noticing your sensations, to stay connected to your body, to your partner
and to your intimate experience together. 3/ tension holds sexual energy in your penis so make
sure to consciously relax your pelvic floor muscle in order to allow your arousal, your erotic charge
to flow freely up through your entire body. 4/ deep breath with the sigh on the exhale (aaaaah)
will help you feel more pleasure and will actively pull arousal out of your genital area and into
the rest of your body. 5/ make sure to also touch and caress the rest of your body as long
as your attention is firmly kept in your cock, that's where your sexual energy will also stay.
So make sure to pay attention to the rest of your body and to keep feeling and noticing all of your
erogenous zones. I hope that you loved this video! If you did, please give it "thumbs-up". And also
please comment below to let me know if you've ever heard of non-ejaculatory orgasms before.
Or maybe you've even experienced them for yourself! Please don't forget to check out
my online course Tantric Mastery for Men - I have linked it down below in the description.
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