Hey, what's going on? Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com. On today's video, this one is inspired
by a client of mine who I've been working with. He said to me... "Tripp, I go on these dates but
I feel like I'm boring. I feel that I'm not really grabbing her attention. I'm not able to take them
to second dates. What's something practical that I can do?" He didn't use the word practical. But he
said what's something I can do? And I want to give you something practical that you can use
that helps dates become more interesting. When you use some of these questions that I'm going
to be giving you, what's going to happen is you're going to be forming a connection with this person
and they're going to get more invested in you and it's going to lead to more dates, which is what
you want. You have to understand that when you are connecting with someone and you have certain
topics that you're talking about and you're both becoming interested in the topic, you become
interested in each other because of what you guys are talking about and how you guys are getting to
know each other. There was an actual study done called "The 36 Questions That Make Someone Fall
In Love With You" and a lot of people called BS on this like oh, it doesn't work or these don't work.
But bottom line, whether you believe it or not, even though there was a scientific study done on
it, whether you believe it or not, these are great questions that you can ask someone. I mean even
just by your own opinion, you can tell that these questions are very powerful. What I'm going to do
today is I'm going to pick a few that I talk about in my Magnetic book and I'm going to read them to
you so you can use them to build a connection and then what happens is by building a connection,
you end up building investment. When you connect with someone, that allows you to spend more time
with them and the more time that you spend with someone, they become more invested in you. This
is what brings it to a level where you guys are connecting and going on more dates. They feel like
they want a return on their investment. That's why when you're talking to a woman, whether it's
on a date, or when you first meet her, if you're doing some sort of approach or meeting her at a
party or something like that, you want time to go by. You want to have more time with them because
the more time you spend with them, the more opportunity for them to become attracted and
invested. And that's what these questions are going to do. I know sometimes it sounds like I
do these long winded intros. But it's not really an intro. I mean, I can tell you the 3 questions
or you could probably read them from someone who's gonna throw them down in the comments
below. But they're not going to work for you if you're just getting to the material and getting
to the practical advice. You're just going to say them but since you don't understand why they work,
you're not going to be able to use them properly. That's why on a lot of my videos, I'm explaining
why things work and the theory behind it. That way, when you get the thing, the technique,
the action step that you're going to use, you're going to be better at using it and it's going to
actually get you more results. By the way, if you want to check out this book, if you want to on
Audible, paperback, or Kindle, it's available on Amazon. I'll put a link down below. A lot of guys
whenever they get the book, they send me a DM with the picture and they say how amazing it's been.
And you gotta understand that it can be very powerful if you take the advice in here that it
teaches you lots of cool techniques, it will help you a bunch. All right, let's go into my favorite
questions. I actually did write an asterisk on which ones I like the best. I'm going to read 3
that are my most favorite. The first one is this, what would constitute a perfect day for you?
I love this question. I feel like it brings someone into fantasyland. Even if I'm asking
you this right now, what's the perfect day for you? You're like ooh, let me dream this up.
What would I do when I first wake up? What would I do later in the afternoon? What would I do? What
would I eat? What kind of activities that I do? What kind of people would I see? Where would I
travel to? What can I do? What's the perfect day look like? This is a good one to ask. And... (this
is also important why you got to watch the video and not just read the comments) you don't want
to just say this out of nowhere. You don't want to just be eating or having a drink and just go,
what's the perfect day for you? You want to intro it a little bit. You might even say like, hey,
someone asked me a really good question the other day and I want to ask you this. I'm curious what
you think about this? What do you think would be the perfect day for you? And then you can say,
because I've been thinking about it a lot. What would be the absolute perfect day? And I think
to myself, why am I not having that perfect day right now? What's getting in the way of me
getting to the point where I love what I'm doing every single day? Or maybe you say to
them that you do love what you're doing every single day and every day feels like it's close
to the perfect day. You got to have a little bit of context around it to make the question
that much more powerful. Again, the first question is what would constitute a perfect day for you.
Here's the second one. This is a good one. I know it sounds cheesy, some of these questions.
But they really work. These are questions that was taken from a study where people would sit in front
of each other, ask the questions, answer honestly and they felt more connected to each other.
The second question is for what in your life do you feel most grateful? And you don't have to say
it like that. I'm literally copying exactly word for word what the question was in the study. But
you can just say like, what do you feel grateful for right now? You can say man, it's been a crazy
year. Lots of crazy things have gone down. And by the way, this could be almost any year because
there's always something crazy going on every single year. This has been such a crazy year.
One of the things I've been thinking about lately is what I'm grateful for. It helps me
remain calm and focused. I'm curious, what's something that you feel grateful for right now?
Any kind of way that you want to spin it. But don't just say it out of nowhere where there's
a silence and you just say it. This is where it gets a little bit more advanced. But if
you do it in this more smooth way, it's going to be a very powerful question. Don't forget,
you also got to answer the question yourself. You got to have an answer for it that you can
say because that's what brings the connection for the question that's being asked. You two are
sharing the answers. Here's another more fun one. It's would you like to be famous, in what way? You
can say some sort of context like wow, it's crazy. Like anyone these days could be famous. I've been
on Instagram and you see all these people who are influencers and people who are bloggers and
all these people who are becoming famous overnight because of social media. And I was thinking about
that. It's like would I want to be famous? I'm curious, what about you? Would you ever want to be
famous? Is that something that you'd want? And you can say... (this is something I would say) I would
say that it's crazy how many people you think would want to be famous, but really deep down
not everyone desires that. It feels like everyone wants that. Rich, powerful, famous, that's not
necessarily what everyone wants. Anyway, that's just my opinion on that question. But you can say
whatever it is along those lines. There's 33 more questions that are in this book. You can also
look it up on the internet. They're all there. But I asterisked other ones in here on the 36
that I think are best when you're first meeting someone because some of these are really intense.
And there's more information in this book. I'll read you a couple of chapter headlines right now.
7 hidden body language clues that she likes you, first dates that lead to sex, how to make women
approach you, my 4 step attraction amplifier. Good stuff, check it out. It's down below. Also what
you can do with this video, because it's a lot of information... take one question, memorize it,
think of an answer for yourself, think of some ways that you can get it into conversation,
and if you can't, that's okay. If you memorize it, you'll find a place
in the conversation that you're having with a girl to then say it and it's going to be very
smooth. That's how you can use this material. Take one question, memorize it, and insert it
into the conversations that you're having. Hope that helps and I'll see you on the next video.