This is Tripp from Tripp Advice.com and today, let’s talk about when to say “I
love you.” to a girl. Once you begin to use the information on this channel, you’re
going to find that it works, and you'll be getting into a more serious relationship. And there’s
going to be a time when you feel these crazy emotions inside of you that you’ve never
felt before. At this point, you may discover that you’re actually in love and you want
to tell a girl. But you’re watching this video right now and you’re thinking “When
is the best time to say this to a girl?” Let’s go over that right now. First, you
have to know when not to say “I love you.” There are some times that are highly inappropriate
and might creep a girl out. You don’t ever want to say “I love you.” to a girl when
you first meet. It seems obvious and by God I hope it is. You don’t want to say this
to a girl before you start dating. Don’t pay attention to the movies and TV shows where
you might see this and it all works out. Even if you’re sure that you love a girl within
days of meeting her, do not say it. It isn’t romantic. In fact, it’s a little weird because
love is a strong and deep feeling that, in my opinion, doesn’t really exist within
the first few days or even weeks of meeting a girl. Ok so now we know you don’t want
to say it in the very very beginning of meeting a girl. So when do you say it? Well the best
time to say it to a girl is when you guys are in a relationship. And I”m talking about
the relationship that is exclusive where you two are 100% dating, having sex, and are now
a couple. Now it’s hard to say when two people should start saying “I love you.”
because everyone feels it at different times. So let me say this; I believe that real love
is something you feel and know when you get to know a person very well. A lot of us tend
to feel love very soon in a relationship because the love chemicals in our brain that are being
released and we feel such strong emotions. But in my humble opinion, that’s not real
love. I would call that the “infatuation stage”, or commonly known as the “honeymoon
stage”. Real love starts to come in after 3-4 months of dating when you have all kinds
of experiences with the person. You see them in all stages of emotions; happy, sad, angry,
confused, drunk, sober, turned on, turned off or even see how they treat others. For
example; their relationship with their friends, strangers, their parents, their siblings,
and especially you. At this point, you’ve even had a few fights. You see how they deal
with communication, respect, and truth. You see a pattern here. I’m talking about the
deeper meaningful things in a relationship. Not just the fact that you two like the same
band and enjoy each other’s company. Love is much deeper. I even think that love grows
even deeper and deeper as the months, years, and decades go on. But you don’t have to
wait that long to say it. So when should you say it? Minimum within 3-6 months of dating
a person. Now you don’t have to do it around that time. You can wait a little longer, but
I would say you shouldn’t do it that much sooner. Really get to know the girl that you’re
with. Like I said before, get to know them on a deeper level where you understand and
know them as a person. And that my friend, takes time. Now if you want to keep a strong
relationship going, then I have the perfect thing for you. It’s called the “Super
Seduction Course". Normally I give this to single guys, but the information in this
course is used for guys in relationship too. Seduction is a process that never ends. You
should always be seducing and turning on your partner. Check out this course, right here
on the screen or in the description below for the specific techniques on how to turn
on the girl that you’re with, so she stays attracted with you and you keep the
connection. Thanks for watching. Subscribe to the channel and I’ll see you on the next
video.