Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. Welcome to the flirting
101 series where I'm going to be breaking down all the different areas of conversation so
you can be a conversation master when it comes to talking to girls. If you are new
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updates on all the videos I'm putting out to help you get the girl that you
desire. On today's video we'll be talking about is flirting.
Flirting is a very big topic and I could talk about this for hours.
In fact I do in my program called Hooked (which I'll put a link in the description
below if you want to check that out) but flirting is huge and I only want to talk
about one little area of flirting today and that is teasing. Why am I talking
about just teasing when it comes to flirting? Well teasing really is one of the
biggest things about flirting because flirting is showing this subtle interest
and teasing does that. I know that sounds kind of weird like if you tease a girl
isn't that putting her down? The way I'm going to be teaching you how to do it, it's
not putting her down. It's just making fun and having a good time and
making light of the situation that you were in. Really it's just being a jokey
kind of guy. The reason why this builds attraction and helps with conversation
is because it shows you're not intimidated by her. A guy who is
intimidated or scared around girls they don't tease, they don't make fun, they
don't play around, they're very stiff and very serious. We want to make light of
this and also show that subtle interest. Let's get into some teasing. Basically
I'm going to be giving you some examples that you can use that are very
powerful and helpful and proven to work when you're talking to a girl. Let's get
into it. I wrote them down in my trusty little phone here so I don't forget.
I'll put a link for Ama....(CRACK!)
It's okay. It survived.....
but barely.
Here are some really good ones. You can say to her "You're going to be my new little sister."
Let's talk about that one for a second. By the way, I should add when
you're teasing her, when you're flirting with her, you want to have a little smile
I can do right now. If you're too serious about it, it's creepy and weird and doesn't
come off like you're flirting or being playful with her. This is stuff
you're saying that's not serious so you have a little smile a lil smirk on your
face when you say "You're gonna be my new little sister." When do you say this?
You can basically say this anytime. Anytime that she says something you like.
It's like you're saying to her that you like her but you're also kind of taking
it back because obviously you're not going to be trying to go after your
little sister. This is kind of mysterious. It's almost confusing to her.
She's like, wait he's showing interest in me but he's saying little sister so this is
kind of a friendship, what's going on here? And that mystery, that confusion
actually crazily builds attraction when you're talking to girls. You just say this
"You know what? I like you. You're my new little sister." Put your arm around her
and pull her close in. This is a great way to flirt with her. My favorite
little tease is saying her that she's a nerd. Anytime she says something that
you don't like or you want to make fun of her, just call her a nerd. It's such a
light way of just teasing her and making fun of her without being too serious and
also showing her that you have interest. She'll know that you're
flirting with her which is what we want. Try that one out. Another one is what
I call role-playing. If she says something you like, you say "You know what,
I like you. You are now my new girlfriend." It's similar to the one where
you're like "Oh you're my new little sister." This is saying "You know what,
you're my girlfriend." I wouldn't use that in the same same conversation as saying
a little sister thing because it's like a little too much. But if you didn't say the
little sister one, say "You know what, you're my new girlfriend. I like you." Then
you can pull her in, give her a hug, whatever. And in a couple minutes later if she
says something that you don't like say "You know what, we're breaking up.
That's it. We're done. We're breaking up. This is over.
That was actually the longest relationship I've ever had. That was the
best five minutes of my life." Another thing you can do is, if you ever
say something and you're teasing her or she's upset about something,
mock her a little bit with a little mad face, a pouty face. So if she
says something or you say something that puts her off a little bit you
just go like this. Mmm. Like this. Like you're kind of mocking her a little bit.
Again be careful with this one.
You gotta make sure that when you do it, you're not doing it serious because if
you're truly mocking her in a way that you're making fun of her for real and
trying to put her down, she's not gonna be attracted, she's gonna
be offended. We're not trying to offend her here, we're trying to just flirt so
you can just go. "Oh oh. I upset you. I'm sorry." Something like that but be
careful here. If she's actually very upset about something and then you do
that, it's not going to work. Be careful. Another way of flirting with her,
this is not so much a tease but it kind of is in between. I wanted to just give
it to you anyways. It's basically you're going to accuse her of hitting on you.
If she does something that says she's showing interest in you, call her out on it.
Don't do it in a way that's too serious because then that's
going to embarrass her. But you say "You're hitting on me right now
aren't you?" Little cross the arms, you kind of look at her look accusatory
like. "You're totally hitting on me aren't you?" Again if you do it seriously
like "You're hitting on me right now" it can come off creepy, come off weird. I can't
emphasize this enough to make sure that your body language is playful.
"You are totally hitting on me right now. It's okay. You can be my new girlfriend.
That's cool. You can be my new girlfriend but just for the next five minutes because you're
totally a nerd." See how I just wrapped all those up in one?
Try to have fun with it, play around with it and use some of these. Your homework
here is try this out. Try this out. I want to see what happens when you try this
out. Use one of these and report back and let us know what happened in the
comments below. Also check the description, not only am I going to be
putting my program Hooked in there but I'm going to put other videos on
flirting because if you're watching this video, you obviously want to learn more
about flirting and I have a ton of videos on that. Check those out in the
description below and I'll see you on the next video.