These 10 techniques will make women subconsciously attracted to you, but with great power comes
great responsibility, so it is up to you to use these, not to manipulate, but to sweep
women off their feet.
Tip number 1: Take up space.
Lean back.
Sit like this, or like that.
Taking up space engages the primal side of a woman’s brain to view you as an alpha
male.
Even if she has something against people who take up too much space, there is nothing she
can to do stop the raw attraction she feels because it has been psychologically hardwired
into her brain through thousands of generations.
Tip number 2: Have great hygiene.
A recent poll showed that the number one turnoff for women is a man with bad hygiene.
You don’t have to look like a model, but you have to look clean.
Shower, take a dump and shave before going on a date.
Most of all, make sure your breath smells amazing, brush your tongue, use mouthwash,
and drink plenty of water throughout the day.
Invest in a good cologne.
It’s one of the only things I recommend buying.
Expensive jeans and sports cars are nice, but aren’t as important for attracting women
as most people think; a good cologne and a pair of nice shoes will go a long way.
Tip number 3: Have a passion.
Women want a man with a plan, so do something you’re passionate about.
It could be a hobby or something you devote your life to.
I’ve known guys who stopped doing all the things they love once they got a girlfriend.
And then, the girl dumps him and he wonders why.
Well, she wants to be taken into HIS world, not for him to make HER his entire existence.
Develop a hobby you’re passionate about: like playing the guitar, programming, teaching,
bowling, anything that drives you to pursue progress.
Once a woman sees the fire in your eyes, and your determination to get better at what you’re
passionate about, she will crave to be around you.
Tip number 4: Downtalk.
Popularized by the youtube channel Simple Pickup.
Downtalk is a way of speaking that will make you seem more confident, and women LOVE confidence.
It’s been used by public speakers and leaders for decades.
You see, every word we speak, the inflection at the end can either go up or it can go down.
Hi, what can I do for you today?
Versus, Hi, what can I do for you today?
You see?
Do versus Do.
Do, Do.
Record yourself and practice shifting through different depths of downtalk.
Too much and you might sound condescending, but too little and you will sound insecure.
So find the perfect balance and you will have a great tool that most guys don’t even know
about.
Tip number 5: Use what she gives you.
Imagine talking to someone and she asks you if you have a pet.
You tell her that you have a dog and she completely ignores your reply and asks you another question?
That’s what most guys do when they talk to women.
Instead, listen to what she has to say and talk about that.
Ask her how she “feels” about something, and mix in statements with your questions.
Girls can tell when you’re listening and you will stand out because you’re doing
something most guys don’t.
Tip number 6: Add touch.
She won’t be comfortable kissing you if she’s not comfortable holding your hand.
So start with non-intimate touching and work your way up.
These are socially acceptable between friends and WON’T get you in jail.
-High Five her -Playfully shove her
-Give her pity hugs when she is embarrassed or, Scare her and then give her a pity hug
when she needs comforting.
Also notice if she initiates any of the touching first.
If she does, it is a sign that she’s comfortable with your touch.
Then you’re ready to take it to the next level.
Guide her through crowds with you hand on her lower back
Put your arms over your shoulders while you are talking.
Put her arm around yours.
Is she comfortable?
If she’s not, you’re either going too fast, or she’s not attracted, slow down.
Keep escalating, but pull back once in awhile and let her come to you.
Which brings us to Tip number 7.
Push-Pull.
Girls love a challenge, so make it one.
The more work she puts into chasing after you, the more she’ll feel she likes you.
Allow awkward silences for her to fill.
Don’t be available ALL the time.
Tease her.
Disagree with her.
Call her without asking for a date.
In other words, show that you like her, but you don’t HAVE to have her, you have other
options.
She will constantly wonder whether you like her or not and it will drive her crazy, but
she will love every second of it.
Tip number 8: eye contact.
In the animal kingdom, alpha wolves hold intense eye contact with other wolves to remind them
who is in charge.
Humans have evolved from the days where the strongest is the leader, but the confidence
portrayed through the eyes is there nonetheless.
Practice holding eye contact when talking to women.
Always be last to look away, but look away right after she does so it doesn’t seem
like you’re staring.
Use a soft gaze instead of an intense one, and smile if it feels too uncomfortable.
Look into her left eye because that engages her right brain which is a direct pathway
to her emotions.
Practice on guys too, just tone down on the smiling, and the length of eye contact, especially
when they’re saying something personal.
Tip number 9: Make her laugh.
If you can make the her laugh, she will be more relaxed and in return, enjoy being around
you more, that means you can get away with more of the unattractive things you do.
Don’t be silly of immature like a clown, just have a sense of humor.
Watch stand up comedians and learn from them.
If all else fails and you’re just not a funny guy, tell her about the time you watched
standup comedy in order to be a funnier guy and how it just didn’t work out.
Self-deprecating humor is the best kind because it shows that you are comfortable in your
own skin.
Which brings us to
Tip number 10: Be yourself.
If you ask women for dating advice, 90% of them will tell you to just be yourself.
But what does that mean?
Well, it means being comfortable doing the things you do.
When you first practice these tips, you will be constantly thinking about them and won’t
really enjoy your interactions.
As a result, you’ll rigid and awkward but, that’s okay.
Because once you’ve mastered it, you will naturally lean back, you will naturally have
great eye contact, and you will naturally know what to say and how to say it in every
situation.
And that’s when you can truly be yourself, and watch as your performance takes a leap.
These tips worked for me and they will work for you too, as long as you put in the effort
to mastering them.
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