this video I'm going to be sharing with you the secret to feeling 100% worthy, whole and
complete.
By the end of this video, you'll know what that is and you'll also have a practical tool
for applying that in your life in a powerful way.
Welcome back to another video.
My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness.
Now in this video I'm going to be sharing with you that of understanding how to feel
100% worthy, whole and complete and understanding how this is also the missing key to you experiencing
what you want in your life because you always get in life a reflection of that which you
believe you deserve and if you believe that you deserve a relationship that is abusive,
if you believe that you deserve to only make a certain amount of money per year, it's a
very limited amount because of what you made in the past.
If you believe that you're not worthy of looking a certain way because of how you think or
how you feel, then you will experience a reality.
Continuously have that belief and have that perspective.
And when it comes to this understand as well that people can feel how you feel about yourself.
So when you go out into the world and people are responding to you, they respond to you
based upon the energy you are putting off.
If you are someone that everyone loves, then you most likely love yourself.
If you are somebody that feels like rejected, you may be rejecting yourself.
Whatever you feel about yourself, other people feel from you when they reflect that back
to you.
So the key to feeling 100% worthy, whole and complete has to do with being everything being
brought back to you.
And in a way you must take responsibility for the things that had happened to you and
understand as well that I understand that many people have been through a lot of hard
things growing up.
She might be probably, you've heard me talk many times about my past of having an abusive,
physically abusive, emotionally abusive, mentally abusive, ex step mom between the ages of seven
to 15 years old, right?
Almost no power whatsoever.
So I get it.
I'm not saying this as somebody that was just like baby does a kid and had everything given
to me.
I say this because I've been through pain.
See that?
I know there's worse out there.
However, what I am saying is that the way you take responsibility for things that have
happened in your life is by understanding that the one thing you always have the ability
to do is to choose how you respond to what happens in your life.
You may not always control what happens, but you always can choose how you respond.
Now, I look at some of the people in my life who have been through similar things as me
and there's very different timelines.
There's very different lives that we lead because of the way we responded to what happened
for many years.
I suppress even after 15 years old came around and my dad divorced my ex step mom, I had
all this freedom.
All of a sudden I was able to have friends that get, you know how I was able to have
friends, is able to do stuff like watch TV or eat food and not female new at nourish.
I was able to eat food without getting in trouble and even after it being able to do
that for five to six years, I felt a lot of resistance and guilt and anger towards my
ex step mom and I suppressed it, but eventually it, that pressure caused me to go through
a spiritual awakening and what happened was is I saw that everything in life wasn't happening
to me.
It was happening for me.
That's the key.
That's the thing that makes the difference is the taking back of your power and understanding
that it can either feel you or it can tear you down,
but it's completely up to you.
Feeling 100% worthy, wholly complete is about giving a new meaning to your past.
Why did it happen?
It happened because you were strong and you could go through whatever you did.
A lot of our sense of worthiness has to do with a sense of belonging, fitting in why
things happened in the past.
And when you begin to understand that that's the key is bringing it back to the self, loving
the self.
That's when things change.
But if you define yourself based on how other people think about you, then you'll always
be going in a circle because you will never find one way that people perceive you because
there are billions of people on the planet and every single person that knows you has
a different perspective than another person.
So knowing that you can't define yourself based on what other people think about you,
you see then that the only thing that will change as you change in the way you define
yourself and understanding that sometimes the most vulnerable parts of you are the greatest
gifts you have.
I believe the reason a lot of people resonate with my message and one thing that makes people
feel a lot more connected to me is my past.
And some people will say, Aaron, why do you keep bringing up your past?
Like does it mean you're not over it?
I bring it up because I think it is relatable and I want people to know that if I've done
it, so can other people, so I bring it up.
But also I know that it resonates with people.
There are people that have been through similar things and we know someone has been through
similar things that have been through pain.
Growing up makes it more relatable.
It makes it more, I can do it too type attitude because the truth is that I can do it.
You can do it too.
So that's why I share it because our vulnerability is our power.
It's what makes us human.
We don't need to be identified with it forever, but the moment that you start to embrace your
vulnerability is the moment you start to turn it from something that's holding you back
into something that's propelling you forward.
I'm reading a book or was listening to an audio book today while I was running called
the power of vulnerability by Bernay Brown and in it she talks about the one main difference,
and this is the key to this video as well.
The one main difference between somebody that feels 100% worthy, whole and complete, and
somebody that doesn't is the people that feel 100% worthy, wholly complete belief that they
can feel 100% where the whole complete.
It's a belief that all the difference.
So let me ask you a question.
What do you believe about your sense of worthiness?
Do you deserve love?
Do you deserve abundance?
Do you deserve to be yourself?
Because if you don't believe you do, then the key is getting to the root of that belief.
Why do you believe that?
And when you get to the core of that belief, you can then let it go.
That's why the power in this whole changing belief process isn't in piling on some new
ideas, I believe for like, Oh yes, I am 100% worthy.
It's about being aware of just the belief that you gained along the process that's holding
you back from feeling that love whole and completeness.
So be aware of what that could be and how do you do that?
You start to ask yourself a new question, what would I have to believe is true as to
why I'm not 100% worthy, whole and complete?
What have to believe that people, almost people must accept me?
Well, now I know that actually people will accept me more if I accept myself more.
So I start to get my own power back and have to believe that when this happened, when I
was a kid and people treating me a certain way, that that's who I am now.
Well now I understand that vulnerability is my power and I understand that that can feel
me and make me more powerful rather than tear me down.
You start to reframe your past and you can even complete your past because when you complete
your past, you don't have to repeat your past anymore, but meaning is a powerful thing in
our lives.
Meaning is what steers our life in different directions.
The meaning you give things in your life will determine which realities and which kinds
of things you are attached to.
And like Bernie Brown was saying in her book, the one main thing that was the different
factor from people that felt 100% worthy, whole and complete and felt self love was
that they believed they could and they just believe they deserve it.
And all that means you have to do is get to the core of what you believe about yourself.
How do you see yourself?
Because most likely they're beliefs that are keeping you safe.
Beliefs, there's never really, there's negative beliefs, but naked, even negative beliefs
serve a purpose.
They have a payoff.
The payoff is it keeps you staying the same.
It keeps you in survival mode.
It may not feel 100% worthy, incomplete, and you may attracted the people that don't feel
100% where the whole incomplete and because of that, it keeps you within a certain narrow
bandwidth of emotion and that's comfortable so that it's paying off because it's keeping
you in the survival mode.
It's keeping you feeling the same emotions over and over again.
Okay?
So the key is to become aware of what that is for you.
What are you identifying with?
What can you begin to let go of more?
Can you start to believe that you deserve things?
What if we change our definition about life itself?
What if your new definition was you are worthy, holding complete because you exist
because you exist and because everyone exists saying that you're not 100% worthy.
Whole and complete is saying that in a way you are different than every other person
on the planet because creation doesn't make mistakes.
And to say that we're not worthy would be saying that creation made a mistake and we're
also special because creation made this one mistake, which is me because I'm not worthy.
And everyone else is.
You see, when we look at our belief about reality, we can see that that is a nonsensical
belief that may have been on autopilot and it's selfish in a way.
It's a selfish belief because we believe that we're so unique and special that we should
not feel 100% or 100% we're the only complete because we don't deserve it, but the key is
knowing that you are special and unique in a different way, but you are also 100% worthy,
only the complete, and you can tap into that without awareness, by getting rid of that
belief and completing the past.
The key to this process is completing the past.
Until I completed the past with my ex step mom between the ages of seven to 15 I kept
attracting people in my life that would reflect back that energy, that archetype in a way
that narcissism, that control, and I was just doing a podcast episode on it the other day
because I realized that there was always someone in my life that reflected that back to me
until I completed it.
The moment I completed it is the moment it all went away.
I had an ex step mom in my life between seven and 15 she left my life.
Then it was shortly after that I had my first, one of my first girlfriends was controlling
it, was with her for four years, broke up with her.
Then I got a job and I got into almost within a week of breaking up with her.
I got a promotion at the job I worked, which is Nordstrom's and women's shoes in Las Vegas,
but from the BP shoes to salon shoes.
BP shoes is like the cheaper shoes went to the more expensive shoes.
It was definitely a promotion to find out that the manager in that department was almost
the same exact person as my accent mom.
Very similar personality, very similar manipulation.
You can physically do anything but emotionally, mentally she did and everyone would try to
get her fired, but nobody could because she was protected by upper management.
Even though she would say the most bizarre things to people, she would talk down to people.
She should have been fired forever ago, but she wasn't because she was protected.
I go through my spiritual awakening 2012 I complete the past of my pattern, the patterns
of the past with my next step.
Mom realized that it happened and led me to a spiritual awakening within two weeks of
learning meditation, learning how to complete my past, that manager got fired like that
for something really dumb should have happened forever ago.
But guess what?
Energetically I was holding that pattern in my life because I didn't complete the past
yet, and if I didn't actually completely deal with it yet, she would have left and someone
else would have came in.
So you see this is about completing the past to not repeat the past.
So below me, what you'll see right now is a meditation that is on feeling 100% worthy,
whole and complete and completing the patterns of the past that you can live in this new
way.
It is literally the most powerful meditation I've ever made.
Has hundreds of thousands of us read the comments to see what is possible.
It'll allow you to complete the pass so you don't have to repeat it.
And at the end of that meditation, there's a visualization where it floods you with unconditional
love and light.
So you'll experience that as well.
So listen to that for 21 days.
I really think that if you do that, it'll transform your life.
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