so harry and megan have retreated back into their multi-million pounds celebrity lifestyle
and since their interview they have made no further comment
they waded in with allegations causing what may or may not be irreparable damage but the
unanswered question is still why would harry set out to knowingly damage his very own family
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harry and megan don't appear to be looking for any resolution
they both threw grenades into harry's life and then turned their backs and walked away
to the outside world i think it looks as though they both wanted to instill maximum
damage and then disappear without any backlash or repercussions on themselves in snooker they
call it a shot to nothing which is an expression that means that whatever you do you cannot lose so
if the interview went well they would both gain worldwide support but on the other hand
if the interview went bad they would both gain worldwide attention but what is really interesting
is that harry and megan went into this interview with very different levels of risk megan was at
zero risk because she was in a position where she simply just couldn't lose because
no matter what is taken away from megan she will always be in a better position than she ever was
before they got married and of course with archie and one on the way her future is well
and truly secured but harry on the other hand well he went into the interview and he had everything
to lose he may not be bothered about his titles but surely he must care about what they represent
and this now leads me to question why on earth harry agreed to throw grenades at not only his
own family but at the public perception of him and his relationship this formative life
well maybe megan is already planning her political future because she seems to have
already mastered the tactic of to divide and conquer the expression means to break up large
concentrations of power into individual pieces that on their own have less power than yourself
and from looking from the outside looking in how he certainly seems to have lost
all of his power without his family beside him and getting him away from william and kate is
almost like taking somebody's sword and shield away from them when they're going into battle
so whatever press they both received and whatever action the royal family are going to take
harry is the only one that can lose but is it a coincidence that the more he loses the
more he needs megan and the less able he is to return to his former life the royal family may
be an institution based upon some outdated and old traditions but isn't that why millions of people
flood to the uk every year to see the pomp and ceremony that make the british monarchy so unique
from change in the guard to a royal wedding or a state funeral the british do it better than
anybody else but the future of the monarchy will slowly adapt as william will one day become king
and with that he's bound to make his very own changes but this also reminds me of a
line in a film spider-man i love those films when peter parker's uncle says with power comes great
responsibility and when william has the crown he will have both but it's almost as if megan
believed that marrying harry would give her the crown and she left the party when she realized
that it wasn't a game of past the parcel and she actually would never get an opportunity to wear it
harry either did not see or he ignored the potential long-term damage that was being caused
so instead of reacting to everything that megan wanted but also didn't get he should
have listened and questioned whether there was any value from what he was hearing on both sides
in the end he fought against everything and everybody that he knew and from day one william
advised harry to take his time and from that very day harry took megan's side refusing to
believe that she also needed you know to make an effort to adapt and make it work so instead of
negotiating they walked out of every conflict slamming each door firmly shut behind them
and from last year's commonwealth service there was virtually no effort made to hide the conflict
and damage between the once hailed fab four william and kate were obviously hurt by what i
suspect was both personal and professional reasons because going live to millions to say that your
father has basically turned his back on you is not the advice anybody who really genuinely cared
about harry would ever give both harry and megan did speak very highly about the queen but saying
that they had a good relationship with the queen in the same conversation as making the allegation
that she's head of a racist household most of the book is stopping all bets on whether resolution
will ever be found conflict is usually caused through inaccurate or unchecked facts information
with either or both sides intentionally or unintentionally misrepresenting information
or events every day people misunderstand what somebody else has said or done
and as we look at the world from our own point of view it's really easy to jump to conclusions based
upon our very own perceptions so if i face you now and i ask you to point to the wall on the right
we will all disagree because the reason being that we are both right we are just looking at
things from a very different perspective so in other words it's only when i try to see things
from your point of view let me turn around here so if i turn around and see it from your point
of view and i point to the wall on my right that we will ever be able to resolve our disagreement
and here we have a known situation because the biggest and most damaging allegations of mental
health and racism can't ever be challenged without the risk of further damage to the royal family
so without a name on the specifics of exactly what was said and more importantly the motive behind
the comment there is a no win outcome because the damage is already done as the two sides are
pushing and pulling in opposite directions the royal family are at this moment in time doing
their very best to stay calm and work through the barrage of abuse that's been thrown at them
but on the other hand harry and megan do appear to have gone into battle with an ever
diminishing army harry is losing or has lost his long-term true ally friends and isn't it telling
how megan's friends are always the ones to share stories of what's been said behind closed doors
but yet to this day how his friends seem to have kept their silence harry's losing his brother
and his sister-in-law and the two people who beyond doubt were the ones that he could share
his innermost thoughts fears and feelings with in total confidence they were family but i also think
they were best friends and they made a great team he's also losing his nephews and his niece and the
best playmates and friends that his own children could ever have so i wonder how many long-term
friends aren't she and his little sister will have as his mum and dad turn their backs on anybody who
dares to challenge or ceases to fit in but what i think is really sad is that harry has lost the
british public he's losing the support and love from the very people who watched him grow from the
day his mum stood on the steps of the portland hospital gosh that's so long ago now no matter
what controversial situations he's got himself into well let's face it he has made some serious
errors of judgment to the british public he could do no wrong and if he could send love through the
television set it would have engulfed and carried him as he walked behind his mother's coffin
we all prayed for safety when joining the military and we rejoiced when seeing him with
his girlfriends living in hope that he'd finally found true love but at this moment in time there
is no turning back the clock because he can't ever and say what has been said so only time will tell
whether any remaining opportunity for resolution has been destroyed in just 90 minutes of prime tv
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