When you go for the kiss and get rejected, it flat out sucks.
because...
It feels like you've done all this work to get her to like you, and get her attracted
to you, and then...
If you go for it when she's not ready, it can turn things really, really awkward and
make things very uncomfortable.
So, in this video, I'm going to show you exactly what to say to test to see if she's ready
to be kissed or not.
And you can also use this to get her to start thinking about kissing you so that you can
almost guarantee that your attempt will land successfully.
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So, all you need to do to see if she's ready to be kissed or not is to test by either asking
a question or making a statement that talks about kissing.
Even if it doesn't work, even if she doesn't respond positively, at least now you've implanted
the idea of kissing into her mind, and she'll most likely want to kiss you later.
So, one thing you can do is just talk about kissing.
What I Iike to do is talk about the moment that leads up to the kiss.
For example, I might say; "Do you know that moment, like, right before you're about to
kiss somebody?
Where there's like all this tension, and all this anticipation, and it feels really good."
And then just kiss her.
Now, one of two things are going to happen when you do something like that.
Either she's going to react or respond like that, where she's just, you know, making really
good eye contact with me, and also, I was looking down at her lips when I was saying
this.
Because that actually gets her thinking about kissing even more...
unconsciously.
She was just-- she was just in the moment with me.
Now, if she broke that, if she looked away, or started pulling back, or changed the subject
by saying something like;
I don't know, like; "Oh yeah, one time this guy kissed me and it was so crazy- blah blah
blah"
Just went into some random story, and changed the subject.
Then I know she's not ready yet.
Okay, she's just not there yet.
Maybe she just needs a little bit more time getting to know each other, and then I'll
try again later.
But the key is to make sure this is in context.
If you just say this out of nowhere, like she's talking about her family or something
like that, and then I just start talking about the moment before you kiss somebody, that's
just weird.
It's out of context.
So a great way to make it in context is by using the question game.
Now if you don't know what that is, make sure to check out language of attraction, because
it talks about and explains the question game in there, and this is one of the best techniques
or games for getting to know each other, creating a connection, and escalating really, really
quickly.
If you're using the question game, one thing you can ask is; "Are you a good kisser"?
-- I guess so.
And she might say that.
I guess so.
And I'd say, really...
well, let's find out.
And just go for the kiss.
Or, she might say; "I don't know" and I'd say well, let's find out.
And go for the kiss.
Or she might say no.
Now if she says no, depending on her reaction, if she's looking at me like this, with really
good eye contact, And she's just like, says; "mmmm, no...
I don't know", then I might say; Well you need some practice then.
And still go for it.
But if it's like; "Uh, no.
I don't think so.
" And she kind of pulls away like that or breaks eye contact, then again, she might
not be ready for it, right?
It's just a way to test, and to lead into it.
A test to see if she's ready, and of course, if she is, go for it.
Now, another thing I might say within the question game is;
"Would you like to kiss me right now?"
And she might say yes, If she says yes, then you just go for the kiss.
If she says no, then all you have to do is say "well, I didn't say you COULD, it just
seemed like you had something on your mind".
So that's really cool, because... you're kind of one-upping her in a way.
You're telling her that it seemed like she wants to kiss you.
Or she might say something like
-- I don't know.
Yeah, she might say I don't know, and then you could say "Well, let's find out" and then
go for the kiss.
Or she might say say "Not here", or "Not now."
Maybe her friends are around, or maybe she's just not comfortable making out in public.
If that's the case, just say; "I understand."
Change the subject, keep going on in the question game if you're using the question game, and
then just go for the kiss later.
So try that out, man, because saying the right words and asking the right questions can seriously
speed up the entire dating process, and get you and her kissing and doing a whole lot
more very, very quickly.
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