Hi everyone Agnes here, I've got a viewer's question about a specific
person today it's from Paradojasdelavida - I hope I've pronounced that correctly.
Now you've said: 'How should I act and think towards my specific person "X" who told me
she doesn't want to be with me in a romantic relationship? I work with her every day and I
see how she acts with me as a friend. It's a bit difficult to overcome what I see and live from
the end in this case, thanks so much.' Well a very good question, we have to respect what people say
and surrender and let go because we don't want to push or impose anything on anyone.
And what we can also do in the background is continue our work on ourselves because everyone is
us pushed out - what we have on the outside is a reflection of what we focus on about ourselves and
about others. Now the first thing I would do would be to sit down with a paper and pen and write two
columns - 'Any negative thoughts feelings and beliefs I have about myself.' Second column
'Any negative thoughts feelings and beliefs I have about men / or women (if you prefer to date women)
and relationships, and that particular person.' So you're going to get a collection of what's
going on within you okay - from that you can flip them turn them into affirmations, turn them into
a script, whichever you prefer. Turn it into an imaginal scene, as in the opposite - the solution
to your problem okay. You're going to focus on the solution, you're going to activate the solution,
you're going to live in the end of the solution. Now for those of you that don't know my story,
my current specific person used to say to me 'you're not for me, you're not for me,'
and we've been together 10 years. So I had to look deeply within myself as to why was
this person saying this to me? What is it that I needed to change, dissolve, let go of
and and just improve within myself? Was it my interpretation? Was I treating him as if he didn't
love me? Was I feeling inadequate? Was I feeling dissatisfied? Was I in a state of I'm not getting
enough, I'm not getting enough, I want more, I want more? Which of these were active in me? And
pretty much all of those were active in me at that time. So sweep your side of the street - work on
yourself and be in a relaxed and playful state of being. When you feel happy, joyful, relaxed,
surrendered, where you don't need that person's love they feel that especially if you're working
together, because they can see you. So I would suggest working on those things and while you're
at work if things get difficult for you mentally and emotionally switch over to practicing the
ho'oponopono prayer or 'I cast this (whatever it is) fear upon the source within / the God
within / the infinite intelligence within and I go free.' So if you practice some of these things
you can have the possibility of changing your circumstances like I have. It's not set in stone,
we often repel people because of our energy of need or energy of dissatisfaction, of inadequacy
okay. So have a think about that let me know down below if any of those things resonate for you
and let me know those of you that are in these situations and working on this yourselves and
practice, practice, practice. All the work starts here then it goes down and changes your emotion
all right. So lovely question and lots of love everyone and I will put down below my personal
romantic relationship success stories, as in the playlist it wasn't a success story in the
beginning but as you move through the YouTubes you'll see where I ended up which is where I am
today in my relationship. And also I will put down below the self-love meditations playlist
so you can improve your vibe and I will also put down below the living in the end playlist okay.
So a few things there to help you, lots of love and I will see you in the next YouTube.