- Hey, what's up.
It's me, Jessica, Jay.
And I was just wondering if you've ever sat
and thought to yourself,
'Ugh what should I say before I
kiss a girl?'.
I'm glad you asked because I am going go over
over the four things you should absolutely be saying
to us before you lock your lips
to ours, and to make sure you never miss
out on another opportunity to make things
between you and the woman you want extra hot.
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Okay, I can't tell you how many times I've been
in a situation where a guy's about to kiss me.
And he's either just like being really awkward
about it or trying too hard to force a moment.
And it just like totally makes my lady boner go,
'rrr'
Now, the things I'm about to go over are not
things that will make her make a move on you,
that's your job.
These are just things that are going to make your kiss
that much more wanted, and
that much more explosive to get her gearing up
to go to pound town with you thereafter.
And make sure you stay till the very end
because the last tip is the absolute, most underrated
most important one you could possibly use
in that moment when you're
about to lock those luscious lips together.
(Mwah, mwah, mwah)
Okay, so the very first thing you can say
before you go in for the kiss is 'okay
I just have to..'
Okay, I just have two is really calling to attention
your desire for her in that moment.
We want guys who want us.
And when you aren't and you, aren't scared to
show just how much you need us in that moment.
And just how badly you want us
that gets us even more excited and wanting you just as bad.
I always say your energy is going to be contagious
in that moment, and we're going to feel it just as well.
So if you're sitting there and telling us
and showing us just how compelled you feel,
how incited into action you feel into kissing us
we are going to feel that much more electrified
in that kiss and wanting even more
than just a kiss there-after.
The second one is for you
guys who just aren't used to being that guy.
Who's making moves everywhere you go.
And that's, 'I really hope this goes well'.
I'm going to tell you right now,
we women, very much appreciate guys who
can voice their vulnerabilities
without sure knowing their insecurities.
I know that's a little hard to explain,
its kind of like saying,
Oh man, I was pretty nervous.
I changed my outfit like four times.
How about you
versus nobody really ever like shows up to these dates.
So I almost didn't come because you know
nobody ever wants to really go
on a date with me anyway.
Do you see the difference?
You know, saying something like,
I really hope this goes well
with confidence am still going in for the kiss shows us
that you're not afraid to be vulnerable
in this vulnerable moment because you're still gonna do it.
You're still gonna go in for the kiss.
But admitting that I don't know if I should be doing
this but fuck it I am going to do it anyway
shows the type of balls you need
to want us to have your balls in our mouths.
The third one, I just got chills reading it
but the third one is, "is this okay?"
Now the name of the video is things you say
before you go in for the kiss.
So you are abso-fuckin-lutely still gonna go in
for the kiss, even though you say, is this okay?
Because we're going to be like
"is what is okay?"
then you're just going to do it.
And were gonna be like "oh my God,
what a surprise, oh my god surprise,
surprise in my mouth"
and surprise on my puss.
It is in that not asking for permission
and just doing it and asking her
for permission, so to speak,
that makes us feel like we are complicit
in our consent in the matter.
We can easily be like "no that wasn't okay"
but at least you asked.
Again, the point is to just
mother-fucking go in for it, I don't want
you to think like "ugh I gotta say these things
then wait for her to give me a green light"
No! We are already assuming that you are gonna go in
your gonna go in no matter what,
these are just things to say to get our lady juices
flowin' harder for ya, when
you get into pound town.
Because lets me honest, its always better when were flowin'.
If you know damn well, you're not very
good at saying anything else before this point,
and your not even sure if you should go in for the kiss
because ya haven't really gotten any signals
up until this point.
Don't forget to check out my Speak to Spark Arousal program,
where I go over step by step how to insight arousal
in a women, in a conversation by engaging,
and turning up those emotions within us
in order to get us super excited for you
to go in for that kiss no matter what you say.
Again, that is at Speaktosparkarousal.com
and the very last one, I mentioned
which I feel is extremely underrated
and a lot of guys will refuse to fucking do this
because it feels so awkward which is saying nothing.
This is a very unfortunate part of the
seduction process, a lot of men
will confuse sexual tension with awkward silence.
But let me tell you what you need us to feel
that sexual tension In order to want to
break that tension with some sexy time.
So I was just watching this new show on Netflix,
before I started filming, and this guy and this girl
met randomly at a bar and they are about to part ways
and they are both just starring at each other
and as they are starring at each other I'm like
'ahhh, kiss, kiss, kiss!!!'
And they are just not saying anything and I just
felt the desperation in myself
for him to kiss her and that is exactly
what anyone women watching that and the women
in that moment would be feeling
in that silence, it is that need and desperation
to break that necessary sexual tension.
So, those were the four things you can say to
us ladies in order to get us even more excited
and geared up to go down to pound town with ya.
And if you know your flubbin' up
your steps from here to pound town a little bit
you could use some work, don't forget to check out
my Speak Spark Arousal system at
Speaktosparkarousal.com
Thanks for watching guys and
I'll see you next time.