Hi everybody, its Agnes I'm a little bit sick but I really wanted to read you a success story
by Dayana. Dear Agnes, sorry for the late reply I was quite busy with work last week,
as for the step-by-step guide I think there is none really you know I figured that the
only guide is self-love and acceptance everything comes down to that. Whatever beliefs that I have
right now the basis is whether or not I love and accept myself enough. I'm not saying that I didn't
struggle with that I still do, there are times I'm being negative and I have insecurities and I
have to be honest sometimes doing self-love is not helping when I was in my negative mode. One thing
that really helped is determination and focus. I told myself whatever moods I am in I know what I
want and I'm gonna focus on that. I separated with my husband last November and these are
the lists of all the lessons learned during this manifestation: Number 1) I know what I want - in
my case was staying married to my husband so in my list I cannot have any other wishes that
conflict with this, for example wishes like 'I deserve a better husband, I want him to change,
I wish him to be different' or anything like that. Number 2) It's okay to be negative. I used to push
myself too hard when I'm not in a good mood, I was scared that if I'm being negative the universe is
going to turn its back on me but it's not like that. I learned that as long as I know that me
being negative is all about me lacking self-love and taking my own time until I can get back to
the self-love meditation again then everything is alright. I accept my negativity is something that
is normal it just means it I'm tired and I need rest before starting again. Number 3) (coughs -
excuse me) I don't change my focus even when I'm in a negative mode, I keep that in my mind all
the time. I want to be a loving wife no matter how shitty I feel at this moment. I accept that
I need a rest but staying focused on what I want and to be honest sometimes conflicting
thoughts do come like 'he's not good enough, this marriage needs to end, I can find someone better'
and blah blah blah but knowing exactly that these thoughts are not true because ultimately I want to
stay married and be a loving wife to my husband. Number 4) I don't push myself on doing the work,
knowing that LOA is always working and Neville's method is the best but I no longer push myself to
do it, especially when I feel like I desperately have to do it. In my case during the last three
months I did revise one time to reverse the last fight that we had. Congratulatory event, my best
friend congratulated me for getting back together with my husband and the whispering technique,
sending love to my husband. I did it once and I let go I did not repeat the session over and over
and I did not - and I did it not because I want him back but I did it because I want to be his
loving wife. The outcome of the sessions has to do with our intentions that we set before we go into
the sessions. Number 5) I learned that self love is work and that it's okay if I want to take some
time off from this work as long as I know that the basis of all the negative thoughts that I have
even now is because of me lacking some self-love. I know it's my responsibility but I don't push
myself anymore and that's all the lessons. After three months my husband and I agreed that getting
back together is the best decision for both of us. Now that I know my goal, my ultimate goal
I can focus more and I'm planning to stick to it this time. Agnes you can share my story with
your viewers, hope it helps everyone. So that's the first bit and then there was another email..
Writing to you on the updates about my specific person which is my husband. It is a success story
with some lessons. As I wrote to you last year I successfully got my husband back after several
works on LOA using Neville Goddard's method and guided meditations by you. During that time you
have reminded me on the relationship maintenance works that I have to do after getting him back. It
turned out that after a few months I repeated the same mistakes again and we got separated
again. I became beginning to wonder why this happen again after all the work I have done
previously. Things that I have learned: Number 1) Misuse of Law of Attraction. After getting
back together I thought getting what I want is the best thing I should do. I misused LOA,
I thought it was all about getting what I want for me. I became selfish, greedy,
needy and I kept wanting more and more. I forgot the most important thing I have to do to be a
loving - to have a loving marriage is me being a loving wife first. I realized that I became needy
when I keep asking more and more from him, this is when our marriage starting having the same
problems again. Number 2) Sorting out priority. I began to understand that this law is working,
but the things that we want must not conflict with each other for example I want to stay married with
my husband but at the same time arguing that I deserve someone better than him. So after
several weeks of reflecting I sorted out all the things that I want by asking myself if I
love myself enough, do I really need this? You know like when you go shopping sometimes there
are things that we buy and end up with regret. Self-love. Number 3) I thought that I can be happy
if I can get all the things that I want but why can't I? Hell yeah this law is always working but
be careful what you wish for. Now I always ask myself what is the purpose of me wanting this?
Since I'm going to get it anyway I must be smart about it that's how I come up with the question.
(coughs - excuse me) If I love myself enough do I really need this? For me to do a checklist first,
a self checking list usually the answer is no and I know it's time to do this self-love
meditation. I always come back happier and a lot more satisfied after that and the good news is
we are now back together again and this time it's for the good reasons - no more hidden agendas, no
more confused purposes. I now know that I needed to be smart about LOA since it's always working.
Thank you Agnes for your YouTube videos, really appreciate your effort in guiding us through
this. Regards, Dayana. Lovely, lovely, lovely, hmm so I'm going to post this up for you guys
I'll put the playlist for the rest of the 'How to Get an Ex Back' or a specific ex back in the
description and I will see you in the next YouTube - hopefully not as croaky as I feel today even
though yesterday and the day before I couldn't talk at all so we're having some good progress.