- I'm a late person.
I've been late to school, work,
and even my own college graduation.
And the problem is, is this summer I'm getting married
and my fiance is always on time, if not early.
And I'm really worried
that I'm going to be late to my own wedding
and upset my soon-to-be husband and in-laws.
But the problem is I don't want to get rushed getting ready
because I want to look stunning on my wedding day.
Steve, is it okay if you're fashionably late
on your wedding day?
- So you're just prepared to be late all the time.
So you're asking me, months in advance,
is it okay to be late at your wedding?
- Yeah. - Hell no.
(audience clapping)
But baby, hasn't being late
bitten you in your life before?
- No.
- What do you do for a living?
- I work in insurance.
- So you the reason.
(audience clapping)
You the reason.
We file a claim,
our ass can't get nobody on the phone
'cause your little cute ass ain't at work.
(audience clapping)
- It takes a while to get ready.
- So let me say this.
It's a lot of attractive,
well put together women in this audience.
Look at them. They look nice.
They sharp.
I don't wanna throw you into nothing
but just 'cause have you ever thought,
this just me now, this may sound stupid,
have you ever thought about starting earlier?
(audience laughing)
Like, let me example, what time is your wedding?
- It's at 1:00. - [Steve] At 1:00?
- [Woman] Yes. - What time do you
normally start getting dressed to be somewhere at 1:00?
- Probably 10:00.
- To be there at 1:00?
- Yeah.
I gotta change my outfit, do my makeup, do my hair.
- Alexa, what do you think of her taking so long?
(audience laughing) (Alexa laughing)
(audience cheering)
Hey, who wanna win some money?
(audience cheering)
Let's play "Harvey's Hundreds".
(funky music)
I'm looking for Marcus Simpson.
(audience cheering)
All right, Big Marcus. Yeah.
- My man, Steve.
- My man. What's up, Marcus?
Marcus, where you from?
- From Washington DC, Steve.
- Yeah.
(audience cheering)
You just as crazy as you wanna be.
Ain't nobody never slid down that banister before.
- Well, I wanted to be the first one, Steve.
And I'm here with my distant lover
from North Carolina.
Listen, you are my competition. I want you to know you.
- I'm your competition? - You're my competition.
'Cause 3:00 Eastern Time. Eastern Time.
When your show comes on,
no attention, I gets none.
- [Steve] Yeah. - It's all about you.
So I surprised her.
Went all the way out here to Cali-
- Yeah. - to see you.
- My man. That's good work, man.
- So now she get the best of worlds.
- [Steve] Yeah, that's, see, that's right.
- 'Cause I just want everybody to know,
all the proceeds is gonna go
to getting that young lady a ring.
(audience cheering)
- Woo! This boy right here.
Now, man, let's go on and win this money.
- All right.
- All right, here we go.
All right, Marcus, I'm gonna put
20 pictures up on this board.
I'm gonna show you these pictures.
I want you to look at all of them.
I want you to memorize them.
Every time you match up these pictures, a pair of them,
I'm gonna give you, brother, $100.
- Okay. - I got 60 seconds
on the clock.
If you match up all 10 of these pictures in 60 seconds,
you gonna walk out of here with $1,000.
- All right. - All right, you got that?
- [Marcus] Right.
- All right, now let's try to win this money for this ring.
Memorize pictures, flip them over.
All right, scramble them up.
All right, you got it? - I got it.
I got the audience's support too, right?
- Yeah, yeah, yeah. (audience cheering)
All right.
All right, let's try to win this money. Let's go.
- 1 and 7.
- 1, 7. (buzzer buzzes)
- 3 and 7.
- 3, 7. (buzzer buzzes)
- 4, 5. (buzzer buzzes)
6, 7. (buzzer buzzes)
8, 9. (buzzer buzzes)
6, 4. 6, 4. 6, 4. (buzzer buzzes)
7, 8. 7, 8. (audience cheering)
11, 12. (buzzer buzzes)
13, 14. (buzzer buzzes)
15, 16. (buzzer buzzes)
17, 18. (buzzer buzzes)
5 and 4. 5 and 17. (buzzer buzzes)
18, 5. (buzzer buzzes)
18, 5.
- 5, 14.
- 5, 14. - Come on.
- 18, 19. (buzzer buzzes)
17, 18. - 18, 15.
- 18, 15.
- 18, 15. - 18, 15.
- 19.
- 19. 19, 9. (buzzer buzzes)
- 11. - 11 and 6.
- 9, 19.
- 11 and 9. - 19.
- 19. (buzzer buzzes)
9 and 19.
- Boy, there you go.
Come on. - 1 and 2.
- 1 and 2. (buzzer buzzes)
- 1 and 13.
(buzzer buzzes)
1 and 12. (buzzer buzzes)
It was all over the place.
- They were so mad at you.
I ain't never seen an audience more mad at nobody.
4 and 5!
Damn, dawg.
- I was hearing everybody's voice.
- I know. I couldn't hear no distinct voices either.
But that was a lot of anger.
Okay. All right, hold on.
Oh, I'm gonna give you one free one.
One free.
- [Marcus] 17 and 4? - That little girl.
No, no, you go with this little girl right here.
6 and 3.
- 6 and 3. (audience cheering)
- All right. Hey, man.
You got five matches.
One, two, three, four, five.
- Thanks. - Come on, man. Let's go.
Thanks for playing, Marcus.
We got a good one for you today.
Our "Straight Talk" panel is back.
It's time for "Straight Talk".
(audience cheering) (light music)
So let's meet today's panelists, everybody.
She's a host and an actress.
Please welcome Julissa Bermudez.
(audience cheering) - Hey. Hi, guys.
- [Steve] And she's from "Access" and "Access Live",
my old friend, please welcome Kit Hoover.
(audience cheering)
And finally, my buddy, she's an author, love expert,
the host of "To Rome For Love" on Bravo.
Say hello to Diann Valentine.
(audience cheering) - Hi.
- All right, now before we get into the topics,
let me remind everybody at home.
If you got kids in the room,
it would be a good time to send them into their playrooms
because things could heat up and they could hear some things
that would require therapy down the line.
(women laughing)
First topic, "US Weekly" reported that Brad Pitt
wrote love notes to his ex-wife,
Jennifer Aniston, when they were married.
She held onto those notes.
And now Justin Theroux allegedly found them.
Now, if someone holds onto something from an ex,
is it healthy for their current relationship?
- Love notes are really personal.
So to me, I think it would just make me question
as to why the need to hang onto them,
especially in their case.
I wanna say they were engaged or married.
You know, things might get a little weird
and that conversation may not go as smoothly.
- No, you hold onto everything.
This is like a journal.
If you're not confident in your next relationship,
it shouldn't matter what you're holding onto, right?
You gotta go back and read that on a slow day at home.
Like somebody loved me way back when.
Like I love all that stuff.
(audience clapping) You gotta keep it.
- It is absolutely dangerous to hold on to love notes
and here is why. (audience cheering)
Thank you.
- [Kit] Comparison? - Here is why.
It's like, as women,
when we break up with somebody,
we tend to only remember the good things.
- [Kit] Oh yeah. - We only remember
the love notes
and the great photos from the great vacations.
But if you gotta remember that relationship in its totality
and if you can't celebrate every part of it, get rid of it.
And Steve, I done told you, when I break up with a man,
I break up with him, his mama, his cousins, his sister,
and I throw everything away.
- I think the notes are dangerous.
Holding onto them is good for the journal.
Holding onto them is good for memories.
It's so wrong when they get found.
- I agree, but I do think going into your next relationship
you have to be so confident
that no old letter is gonna make a difference.
Now, I've been married for 22 years.
I'm holding on tight. It is a rollercoaster.
But I think what matters,
like an old love note means nothing to my husband.
- Well, let me ask you a question though.
If you had an old love note from
- I have them.
- And your husband found it?
- Prior to your 22 years?
- Yeah. - Yeah.
And your husband found them?
- Yes. I think he would laugh. - He would ask you.
- He would laugh?
- I think he would just be like,
"Well, that was before I met you."
Right? "That was pre me".
- No, no. No, I'm gonna tell you right now
he ain't gonna laugh. - I wish my husband would
have some love notes stashed away in our bedroom.
If my husband had the nerve
to have a love note in my bedroom. Oh, hell.
- Steve, I had my husband's,
I had my husband's ex-girlfriend in my wedding.
- [Diann] What? - Yes, she is so lovely.
I fell in love with this girl.
She was one of my bridesmaids.
- You are the coolest, Kit.
- I think you got, I love her.
That was in high school, Steve.
- No, ma'am. No, ma'am.
- Is no one with me? Am I solo on this?
- Well, that's different. I mean, that's a long time ago.
- What? What? What?
- Not to age you, but I'm just saying.
In high school, that seems like a while ago.
- [Kit] Or college. - You're Latina.
- Yes. - From what country?
- Dominican. - Dominican.
- I'm a black girl. - Black girl.
(women laughing)
This that you just did is very white.
(women laughing) (audience clapping)
- It's so true.
- Very. - No one's with me.
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