what do you want this is a question that I ask myself repeatedly when I begin
working with a new client I always start with this question because what you want
determines what you do with your life. Do you fulfill your potential? Do you not?
Where do you go? Where do you end up? Who do you marry? What success do you achieve?
it all starts with a want it all starts with a desire. If you don't want
anything not a whole lot that you're going to do so
wanting is where it all starts some people are taught that they shouldn't
want they shouldn't desire or they shouldn't
want much but that's impossible because if you decide not to want
that's just another want so it's important to tap into your desires tap
into what you value what you value is a more refined way of understanding what
it is that you want every decision you make is based on a value that you're
looking to fulfill and that starts with a want and if we're not very clear about
this it may seem like a trivial want it may not seem like it's that important
but the more we refine it the more we explore it and not just in our minds we
explore what we want with actions and with behavior and the more we do that
the more we get clear about what we want and what we value and that never ends
that's a lifelong journey it just builds and builds and gets stronger and
stronger and you become more and more who you are by following your purpose
which is based on your desire when you're following your values that
is what your meaning in purpose is in life so how are you going to do this
what does it take what do we do in order to discover what we want most and how to
follow our desires fulfill our values the thing that I see a lot of people
making a mistake with is they think that this is an intellectual process only
they think they can go to one seminar or one workshop or one training and that's
all it takes and then there they've got it and they never need to do anything
else well that's like saying that I'm going to go to the gym one time or I'm
going to go jogging one time or I'm going to go to a workout boot camp for one
week and I'm going to be healthy just from that for the rest of my life and I never
have to do anything else well that's crazy your
mind is no different your psychology is no different than your body you've got
to work it out you've got to exercise it personal development is a practice it's
a regimen it's something you do daily to strengthen yourself and that's why I
call what I do the NLP Gym because in order to learn NLP which NLP is the most
effective model and method that I've ever practiced not the best for everyone
necessarily but it has worked the best for me and it has worked the best for
the clients that I who I coach developing yourself not just your mind
not just your body but yourself as a whole takes working out your mind takes
working out your psychology it's just like exercising your body is just like
strengthening your muscles you have to do it on a regular basis and you have to
do it with an overall goal in mind a strategy and effective strategy and you
have to nourish your mind and your body together
now some people say oh I've heard of that NLP stuff isn't that what people
use to manipulate people or isn't that a pseudoscience and I hear a lot of people
say these things about NLP until I start talking to them about NLP and start
opening their mind to what it really is and what NLP really is it's a method
it's a technology just like a martial art and just like a martial art it can
be used for bad things it can be used to manipulate people to persuade people to
do things they don't want to do sure it can do those things
anything that is powerful and effective is going to also have the ability to
harm people if it's not used properly if it's used incorrectly
but is that a good reason not to teach it? it's the same thing with martial arts
a person can learn a martial art and go out there and hurt innocent people that
is uncommon but it happens most people who learn martial arts learn it to
protect themselves learn it because they want to express their bodies they learn
it because they want to be healthier and those are great reasons to learn a
martial art should we then not teach martial arts because some people are
going to misuse it some people are going to abuse it some people are going to go
out there and hurt people who are innocent should we stop teaching martial
arts because of that I don't think so and this is also why I think we should
be teaching NLP because NLP can take your life to the next level if you
practice it if you use it if you work it out like you do exercise and lifting
weights and developing your body you can develop your mind and your psychology to
a level that you could not even imagine and you can use NLP to achieve your
highest potential what you will learn in my videos is how to use NLP to transform
yourself into the person you want to be not into the person Society or other
people want you to be who you want to be to reach your potential to live your
purpose your meaning and to live what makes you happy that's what I'm about
that's what my videos are about and that's what I use NLP to do check out my
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