(audience applauding)
- This is wonderful, and you're going to get one very soon.
President McCartney, Provost O'Rourke,
honored faculty and alumni, parents, friends,
and foremost you, the graduating class
of 2018, congratulations to all.
You made it.
(audience applauding)
Yes.
What is the mystery of life?
Perhaps it is simply that we don't know?
Perhaps the secret of happiness is
that we recognize our ultimate ignorance and embrace it,
that we cherish the journey life has to offer us
and try to keep that journey moving forward,
but here I am already beginning to do what I intended
to avoid, to pontificate with self-evident certitude,
to pitch my voice to be heard in a crowd
where those big and beautiful words,
the ones that we always think of as capitalized
in our minds, words like truth, honor, happiness, success,
and biggest of all, that grand triumvirate
of love, life, death.
Well, such words might come off okay
when thundered through a microphone,
but they sound rather pompous when spoken face to face
like from parents to their offspring.
In fact, if I had spoken these words in conversation
to my daughter when she was your age, dear graduates,
she might have scoffed outright or at least tuned me out,
and she would have been right to do so.
She would have said, "Can the sentiment, mom,"
because that's what those words are,
sentimental abstractions, larger than life,
teetering on the horizon like the wind-beaten letters
of the Hollywood sign, because life ...
No, let me change that.
Living is specific,
and those words encapsulate generalizations.
Living is mired in details, the stain
on your interview blouse, a missed phone call
that might have made a difference in your career,
and the Jeep running the red light that's clearly
in the wrong, but you slam on the brakes anyway,
the typo on the order form that ties up shipment,
too much sugar in the peach cobbler.
There can never be too much sugar in the peach cobbler.
(audience laughing)
What good are those bombastic words?
You would be justified in asking in a world
where you can't even stop inhaling once
every six or seven seconds, so I won't use them now,
at least not just yet.
I will simply start by telling you how I felt
as a parent watching her own daughter
triumphantly tossing that mortarboard high into the air.
I felt inadequate.
Yes, inadequate in my efforts as a mother
to prepare my child for what might be waiting
for her beyond graduation, this more or less formal divide
between youth and adulthood, but then again,
how could any parent have ever prepared you?
They don't really know what's waiting for you.
No one knows that, and especially now,
in these precarious times
where truth has become a rather insecure commodity,
and since none of us can truly and conclusively predict
where exactly we are headed, we must make the most
of the journey itself.
We must remind ourselves and each other that it matters
how we conduct ourselves along the way,
that we look at the landscape instead of barreling on by,
that we have some laughs together rather than complain
that our feet hurt, all the while acknowledging
that there are no prepackaged, Twitter-sized answers
to the big questions about the future.
The best two bits of advice I ever received were
actually one and the same.
As a teenager, I spent weekends with my grandmother,
who was slowing going blind, and her favorite words
of wisdom were, "As long as you've done your best
"from the inside out, you'll be all right."
In other words, if you've done your homework,
not just to get over but really done the best
you know you're capable of,
if you've attended to your inner health
as well as your exterior requirements, you'll be all right.
My parents put it in a similar but different way.
They also encouraged me and my siblings
to always do the very best we knew we could do,
not just what was expected of us.
They would frown on us scraping by on assignments
and merely fulfilling the minimum requirements.
Their argument sharpened my grandmother's advice
and put it into a social, or shall we say societal, context,
meaning that as African-Americans, we would have
to be twice as good as the next candidate
for any job, so we might as well get into gear
and condition ourselves accordingly.
No matter what grades we brought home,
their first question was, "Did you do your very best?"
Now, when you leave this institution,
the first things you may remember
about your college days here at Smith are the friends
and the parties, the all-nighters made bearable
with takeout food and strong coffee.
Maybe you'll remember the cell biology professor
who gave a midterm exam
where all the abstract formulas had been converted
to real things such as your spaceship won't take off
from Pluto because it's encrusted with barnacles,
so how do you go about determining
what protein makes the glue
that the barnacles are using so that you can remove them.
(audience laughing)
And you thought, "How dare she confuse
"your carefully crammed head
"with annoying real-life scenarios."
(audience laughing)
Later, you'll convince yourself that you remember next
to nothing from the classes you took during your freshman
and sophomore years, or you'll condemn the three rewrites
of your senior project
as an unnecessarily sadistic exercise.
Those, at least, were some of the memories I harbored
when I graduated from college so long ago
that I could be your grandmother,
but I also remember contentious debates
about glaring racial inequalities and sex discrimination,
triumphant elation over Roe v. Wade,
which the Supreme Court decided that very year
when I received my bachelor's degree.
I remember going to out into the streets
to demonstrate against the Vietnam War madness,
and I remember better than I'd like to the corruption
and inhumanity of an administration whose viciousness
and duplicity found a partial comeuppance in Watergate,
though the disillusion it engendered
in us permeated our bright dreams of democracy.
Sound familiar?
Each generation has its own demons and battles to fight.
You will look back on Friday teas and dorm room all-nighters
and remember the spontaneous debates
over climate change, marriage equality,
our nation's entrenched gun culture,
over trigger-happy cops, over children deported
by authorities for whom compassion is an alien concept,
over an election gone terribly wrong,
over mass opioid addiction and a despairing populace,
over the pervasive macho menace bright
to life by MeToo.
And yet life waltzes or stumbles on,
and soon you'll begin to miss those days
when you could ask your professors for the answers
to whatever intrigues you.
How do you hold on to your dreams with dignity?
How do you know when you should listen to others
and when to follow your own hunches?
How can you remain connected
to that innermost spiritual hunger
while negotiating the necessary commerce of living?
Quite a while ago,
when I was Poet Laureate of the United States,
I received a letter from a young mother who pleaded,
and I quote, that, "Poetry needs to be taught
"to very young children before they get the idea
"that they can't write it, don't want to write it,
"or don't understand it."
And she concluded, "In a sense,
"poetry is making the language your own."
I love that statement.
It pertains to all of us after all,
because the mind is informed by the spirit of play,
and every discipline is peppered with vivid terminology.
Fractal geometry has dragon curves
and packed Swiss cheese cosmologies.
There are lady slippers
in botany and onomatopoeic bushwackers.
Football has wingbacks, button hooks, and coffin corners.
There are dog legs on golf courses
and butterfly valves in automobiles,
and when there are no words for what we need,
we make up new ones: drama queen,
soul patch, bucket list, Google.
Remember the children's rhyme that began
if all the world were paper and all the sea was ink,
if all the trees were bread and cheese,
what should we have to drink?
Well, that is the danger in the freedom you're
just graduating to, because if you allow your picture
of the world to shrink to the parameters of your job
or your field of study, if overwhelmed by the sheer weight
of information available and overcome by the onslaught
of falsehoods that masquerade as truths,
you begin to sort and file rather than access and ponder.
You just might end up experiencing the world
as ink and paper riddled with faulty equations
and find that your spirit is dying of thirst.
In ancient Rome, every citizen owned a genius.
The genius was one's personal spirit which came
to each and every one at birth.
It represented the fullness of one's potential powers.
This genius then was considered a birthright,
but it needed to be nourished in order to survive.
Today, in our age of the narcissist,
the birthday child expects gifts to shower down upon her,
but the ancient Roman was expected
to make a sacrifice to his or her genius,
and if one served one's genius well during one's lifetime,
the genius became a household god called a Lares
after one's death.
If, however, one neglected one's potential,
the genius became a spook, a troublesome spirit
who plagued the living.
Here at Smith College,
you have received a top-notch liberal education.
That is, you have not only been well trained
in your individual fields but also been exposed
to a range of other disciplines,
encouraged to explore new ideas based
on a solid core of knowledge geared
to help you cope with the boundless changes
that you will need to confront
in our rapidly vacillating civilization.
I wish I could say accelerating civilization,
but I'm no longer sure that forward is the direction
in which our society is going at the moment.
But whether you end up as a politician or a painter,
a novelist or a neurologist, this you all have in common.
You have learned how to pursue thoughts and ideas,
and hopefully you have grown to love that pursuit.
Another of my favorite Mother Goose rhymes goes like this.
This is the key to the kingdom.
In that kingdom is a city.
In that city is a town.
In that town, there is a street.
In that street, there winds a lane.
In that lane, there is a house.
In that house, there waits a room.
In that room, there is a bed.
On that bed, there is a basket, a basket of flowers.
Flowers in the basket, basket on the bed,
bed in the chamber, chamber in the house,
house in the weedy yard, yard in the winding lane,
lane in the broad street, street in the high town,
town in the city, city in the kingdom.
This is the key to the kingdom.
I love that verse because it reminds me
that all ideas large and grand have sprung their roots
from the very smallest of seeds.
In a way, it is a description of the path to wisdom.
Start with the things you know, and then as you venture
into the world, taking the road of education
into ever broader avenues of possibility,
apply what you've learned along the way,
never forgetting that the key to the kingdom
of knowledge is linked to curiosity and appreciation.
With these commencement exercises,
you're making your departure a public act.
You have been in incubation, but now you breathe
on your own, no rarefied ether but the thick air of life.
You must generate your own heat.
The mission is a mystery.
The door leads out and away.
As the word commencement implies, it is a door
into a new beginning, and as weird as it may sound,
one of the things you might most likely miss is
that there are no more class assignments to fulfill.
Oh, yes, because an assignment can force you to go
where you have been too lazy
or apprehensive to venture before,
and even rote exercises follow this mantra.
Athletes know that if they don't keep training,
muscles will stiffen and eventually atrophy.
Singers speak of supporting the voice,
which they do through frequent and sustained practice,
strengthening the muscles of the diaphragm
so that that clear
and beautiful sound you're hearing is being uplifted
by years of exercise.
So I have one last assignment for you,
a bit of homework, the bonus question
on the exam you've already passed with flying colors.
I challenge you to tweet your very own graduation poem,
your feelings, your fears and hopes and, well,
whatever details you intend to carry with you
on the way into the future.
Tweet your poem using #gradpoem.
In return, I'll leave you with one
of my own poems called Dawn Revisited.
Dawn revisited.
Imagine you wake up with a second chance.
The blue jay hawks his pretty wares,
and the oak still stands, spreading glorious shade.
If you don't look back, the future never happens.
How good to rise in sunlight,
in the prodigal smell of biscuits,
eggs and sausage on the grill.
The whole sky is yours to write on,
blown open to a blank page.
Come on, shake a leg.
You'll never know who's down there frying those eggs
if you don't get up and see.
So don't forget.
Tweet your poem using #gradpoem,
and after you pick up this little degree,
go on out and celebrate.
Congratulations, class of 2018.
Thank you.
(audience applauding and cheering)
Thank you.
(audience applauding and cheering)