>> She stops when she passes
and sees my car.
So she don't think
she has to call.
But just because you see my car
there, you just pull up
and walk in, that's not okay.
>> Judge Judy: Have you told her
it's not okay?
>> Yes, ma'am, several times.
>> Judge Judy: Okay.
How long have you
and this young lady been dating?
>> Almost a year now.
>> Judge Judy: When was the last
time you told --
Put your hand down.
When was the last time you told
Miss Carter, "It's not okay just
to drive by and come in"?
>> I'd say...July.
>> Judge Judy: Have you told her
that once or more than once?
>> More than once.
>> Judge Judy: Did you tell
her why?
>> Because you never know
what's going on.
They might have somebody there.
You never know what's going on
to just pull up
at someone else's house.
This is not my house.
>> Judge Judy: Whose house
is it?
>> It's my mother's and
step-father's.
>> Judge Judy: You don't live
there?
>> No, ma'am.
>> Judge Judy: Where do
you live?
>> It's not too far, like
15 minutes away from there.
>> Judge Judy: But she passes
your mother's house.
>> Because she stays --
Her house is past --
She has to pass my mother's
house to get to her house.
>> Judge Judy: She has to
pass -- Ah, I got it.
So she passes your mom's house
in order to get to her house.
>> Yes, ma'am.
>> Judge Judy: How far is your
work in minutes from his
mother's house?
>> Probably 10 minutes.
>> Judge Judy: And how far is
your work from,
let's say, the Walmart
parking lot?
>> About 5 minutes.
>> Judge Judy: So it's easier
to meet in the Walmart
parking lot?
>> Yes, ma'am.
>> Judge Judy: So let's go back.
September 16th, 3:00.
You're finished with work.
You go to the babysitter.
You pick up the children.
And then where do you go?
>> Well, they actually go
to daycare during the week,
and they don't get out
until 6:00.
Both of them go to
two different schools.
>> Judge Judy: Well, what did
you do from 3:00 to 6:00?
>> From 3:00 to 6:00 I went
grocery shopping.
I took groceries home.
We had a seafood boil
at my friends house.
>> Judge Judy: Just a second.
You're talking very fast.
I asked you what did you do
from 3:00 to 6:00?
>> I went to Walmart
and went grocery shopping.
>> Judge Judy: So that would
have been easy for you to meet
him at Walmart?
>> I do believe I called his
phone and he did not answer.
>> Judge Judy: No.
That's a fibber.
So, you went grocery shopping
from 3:00 to 6:00.
Is that what you're telling me?
>> Not all the way until 6:00.
It was about 3:00 until about
5:00.
>> Judge Judy: Okay, and then
where did you go at 5:00?
>> I went to Indian Creek
to pick up my older son,
and I went to La Petite
to pick up my baby boy.
>> Judge Judy: Then where did
you go?
>> To my friend's house
for a seafood boil.
>> Judge Judy: So you went for
dinner someplace.
>> Mm-hmm.
>> Judge Judy: With your
children.
>> Mm-hmm.
>> Judge Judy: And then what did
you do?
>> I called him,
and I don't think he answered,
so I just pulled up
at his mother's house.
>> Judge Judy: Just a second.
So, you called,
and you didn't get an answer.
>> Which is typical for him.
It happens all the time.
>> Judge Judy: Evidently it
didn't happen on the 4th of
September.
You managed to hook up then,
right?
>> Yes, ma'am.
>> Judge Judy: Okay.
Now you're going to tell me
the story
that you want to tell me.
You pull into the house.
You saw his car.
It's 8:00 at night.
Your two children
are in the back of the car.
You get out of the car.
You leave the two children
in the back of the car?
>> Yes, ma'am.
>> Judge Judy: You go to the
front door.
>> Yes, ma'am.
>> Judge Judy: And then what?
>> I go in the house.
>> Judge Judy: Just a second.
Well, when one is an uninvited
guest, you knock at the door.
You ring the doorbell.
You wait for somebody to come to
the door.
>> I knocked on the door,
and they knew that I was
in the house.
>> Judge Judy: Don't tell me
what they knew.
You walked into the house...
>> Mm-hmm.
>> Judge Judy: ...without asking
permission.
>> Yes, ma'am.
>> Judge Judy: And then pick it
up from there.
You see, I've been
doing this business a long time.
>> I go into the man cave.
>> Judge Judy: What's the
"man cave?"
>> It's on the other side
of the house,
where they take part
in adult activities.
>> Judge Judy: Okay, and...?
>> We were talking, like,
"Are you going to give me
the money?"
"Oh, I spent the money on
X, Y, Z."
>> Judge Judy: Hold on a second.
Now, what's the first thing
he said to you when he saw you?
>> "What are you doing?"
I was like, "I came to
get the money."
>> Judge Judy: What money?
>> The money to get the diapers
and wipes.
>> Judge Judy: How much money?
>> I think he said he was gonna
give me $50.
>> Judge Judy: Now, he had just
given you money on
September 4th.
How much did he give you on
September 4th?
>> Probably $50.
>> Judge Judy: Not probably.
How much?
>> $50.
>> Judge Judy: Okay.
And he said?
>> "I don't have the money."
>> Judge Judy: Is that
what you said?
>> I was like,
"What you doing here? Why..."
because as soon as I walk in,
Destiny sits down.
I ain't even had a chance to say
hey to no one else by the time
I feel someone behind me.
When I turn around, it's her.
I said, "What are you doing?
What's going on?"
"I came to get the money."
"Okay. Why did you just pull up?
You could have called me
or anything."
I give her money.
I don't know if it was $40
to $50.
And then I gave it to
her, I was like, "Okay.
Now, that's it. You can leave."
"No. Why? She here.
Why I can't be here, too?"
She sit down at the --
>> Judge Judy: Put your hand
down!