so you know how everybody has like this thing well I think I figured out my new
thing and my new thing is going to be talking about the entitlement of
youtubers what is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we
talk about the problem but focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel
typically what I like to do is take different topics from the YouTube
community that are in the public spotlight remember that and try to see
what lessons we can learn from them so if you're into that stuff make sure you
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you just for you alright so anyways before I get started before I jump into
this topic I just want to say thank you so much to all of you loyal ride-or-die
rewired soldiers out there I cannot thank you enough and the reason being I
uploaded a video this morning called unsubscribe from the rewired soul and I
was nervous I was afraid to put that out there but I just got to a point I'm like
you know what I need to put this out because yeah obviously I've been going
through it the last couple months and I feel better than I've ever like nothing
I've ever felt but I feel better than I've felt in months and it was finally
because I'm just like you know what like I'm kind of tired of this stuff and if
you like it cool if you don't that's cool too and yeah like all of your
guys's love and support and like you're down with what I do here on my channel
like I love it you know like me and you we're gonna learn we're gonna grow
together sometimes we're gonna be wrong about things sometimes we're gonna be
right but at the end of the day we're gonna learn from our mistakes right and
we're gonna learn from the mistakes that other people are making in the public
spotlight so again thank you so much to all of you beautiful rewired soldiers
out there alright so anyways I'm about to jump in this topic but I want to make
it very clear this video is not specifically about Trisha Paytas yes
Trisha Paytas was in the title yes Trisha Paytas was in the thumbnail but
I'm gonna be talking about the YouTube community as a whole this is not all
youtubers but you're gonna know exactly what I'm talking
as we dive into this topic alright so to set this scene up for you guys a little
bit I just want you guys to remember this clip I don't know I don't know if
that's related I'm just gonna talk about Brianna asked about just well let's talk
about this right so I'll just get it out because in my video it's on my vlog
Channel you know I was I attacked I went for like low blows as people call it but
it's like excellent so I'm picking up I'm just Clara look here like it's like
when someone like is attacking you over and over and over and your relationship
and saying that you guys should have be together and you need separate therapy
and it was just like constantly like hurrying you about what you need and how
to fix you and like how to fix your relationship and why there should be
together it's like so annoying it's so annoying like it's not annoying I don't
even have the word for it so those of you who do not know where that came from
was a live stream the Trisha Paytas did okay a while back and those when I was
making videos about her relationship with Jason Nash and I was basically
saying you guys see this relationship don't do that being the opposite of that
this is not a good relationship alright and she was upset and she didn't want me
to make videos about her anymore well well for the umpteenth time like
this is not the first time I've made some videos on it in the past try to see
what we can learn from it Trisha Paytas and jason nash have been
broken up for a while and she keeps talking about him on youtube on
instagram on twitter and everything like that
alright so most recently she was on twitter saying all of these things okay
i have a few tweets up on the screen right now alright Trisha Paytas just
talking all this trash about Jason Nash so again like I said I want you to
remember that clip okay now I want you to think just sit back and ask yourself
because here we worried so we're trying to talk about empathy and empathy is
basically just trying to put yourself in the other person's shoes now how you
would respond to that situation might be different to how they responded but we
at least try to put ourselves in their shoes
so for just a second just one second put yourself in Jason Nash's shoes or
even david dobrik shoes and ask yourself do you think they want Trisha Paytas
talking about them publicly over and over do you think Jason Nash wants
Trisha Paytas calling him evil calling him a liar calling him a cheater do you
think he wants any of that stuff out there and by the way just to kind of
beyond like you know just a little icing on top of the cake like do you think all
this information was actually released publicly or she's saying some private
information as well things that we didn't know about all right
so think about that for a second so basically we're gonna be talking about
entitlement we're gonna be talking about privacy and some other things in this
video now before I go further into this topic I want to make something very
clear okay because I'm gonna be talking about things that are public and things
that are private like one thing that is not cool in any way shape or form is
like showing up at youtubers houses like that is not cool that's not okay like
people have the right to that privacy all right like they can keep their life
that way if you see a youtuber in public or something and you run up to him say
hi you know like that's part of the gig that's part of what we signed up for
right but like finding out where they live and showing up at their house is a
big big big no-no like that that's just not okay alright but what I want to talk
about is this is like an ongoing theme I've experienced this I've seen other
people experience this right where we have we have an entire commentary
community you have drama channels you have the news channels and everything
like that and something that keeps coming up more and more is don't make
videos about me and that to me seems like the most ridiculous request I have
ever heard in my life and here's why here's why like I I really try to
respect the audience okay I try to respect the fact that some of you
watching this some of you watching YouTube like you are using this as an
escape from your day to day life like I used to work the nine-to-five
I've worked jobs that I've hated and everything like that I'm assuming some
of you watching this video are the same way so to help get some perspective on
what I mean like just imagine the audacity of youtubers to say do not talk
about the information that I make public okay like ask yourself this why do
people could become youtubers why do you think all right and you know since we're
talking about such a famous what do things which have paid us became a
youtuber right why do you think Tana mojo became a youtuber why do you think
James Charles became a youtuber why do you think Emma Chamberlain became a
youtuber what do you think Shane Dawson became a youtuber like just any youtuber
out there doesn't matter what genre they're in why do you think they became
a youtuber okay now some of us who want to get a message
out there I want to talk you know there's a bunch of different reasons but
there's some things that we know we knew when we signed up for this when we
signed up for this we knew we were putting ourselves out
there in the public spotlight and maybe some of us wanted to do it for attention
right some people like purely want the
popularity they want to be loved and admired by everybody some of them look
at people ballin like Jake Paul right they're like you know what I want to be
a youtuber and I want to be a baller like that and a lot of people become
youtubers because they want to be their own boss they want to do the thing that
they love right and make a living off of that meanwhile you the viewers are
sitting here watching this and you don't have that same luxury okay and maybe you
you know will become a youtuber but think about that like the problem that I
have with youtubers is the entitlement like why do youtubers think that they
can get all of the good and none of the bad like think about that for a second
like that's just the way it works that's the trade-off you know and this is why
this is like my new thing this is my new thing I just cannot imagine I can not
imagine having this sheer audacity to ask anybody not to talk about something
that I made the choice to put public okay and sorry like Trisha Paytas is
Keith in my head even though I said this about
all youtubers but Trisha Paytas made her relationship with Jason Nash extremely
public months after they've broken up she's made it extremely public all right
so to think to think in any way shape or form then it's okay to say don't talk
about this it is absolutely ridiculous like we have the right to privacy all
right anything that I don't want you guys to know about I do not share
publicly but anything that I do share publicly you all are allowed to have
your opinions on okay any of the things that I say on my channel anything that I
tweet out anything that I put on Instagram
anything that I ride in a blog post anything I say on my podcast anything
that I put in my book sway like my books like could you imagine if I said hey I
know I released this book publicly and it helps support me financially but do
me a favor and don't say anything negative about that like could you like
am I crazy here like if you've made it this far in the video and I'm crazy let
me know down in the comments below because here's the thing like there's
certain things about me that you can have absolutely no opinion on unless you
just you know just wanted to make something up like I don't know you don't
know my night routine I've never made a video about my nightly routine so you
can't have an opinion on it but everything else that I put out there
publicly you're allowed to have an opinion on okay like anybody out there
is allowed to have an opinion on it and make it public it's just like this
goes back to parasocial relationships which are really interesting like myself
and psych IRL made a video together awhile back on that like sometimes you
as the audience feel this like personal connection with youtubers and I think
it's because we're just people like filming in our rooms or whatever it is
and like you feel it's just you one-on-one and you're like hey don't
talk about their private life you guys this is all public and I just want you
to expand this into other places like in the world and other like careers in the
world could you imagine could you imagine if just like celebrities are
like don't talk about my life like I want to
be a rich and famous celebrity I want to be in movies I want to be on TV I want
to be a singer I want to be whatever it is but please don't talk about me if it
might be anything that might upset me you know what I mean like we make that
decision we make that decision and that is one of the reasons why I preach that
is so important to work on your mental health especially especially if you're
going to be a youtuber alright you're going to have people talking about you
you're going to have people have their opinions about you you might not like it
but we do not have any right to ask to even request that people do not talk
about us now don't get me wrong if there's anything that's slanderous yeah
that could be against the law then you handle that legally you know what I mean
but when you are putting information out there in the public people are allowed
to talk about it so if for for any reason for any reason any other
youtubers are watching this here's a rule of thumb if there are things in
your life that you do not want people to have an opinion on do not make it public
not everything you do is going to be loved by everybody people are allowed to
be critical and just because your feelings get hurt
does not mean people are not allowed to discuss it at a certain point all of us
me you youtubers everybody we need to take root personal responsibility for
the choices we make all right like I have done some really dumb stuff
for all of you guys to see and I have to accept that like I can't run around just
asking you guys not to talk about it like this is so much different I promise
you I'm gonna wrap this up in a second like one of the issues that's come up
lately you know Bella Thorne recently had this happen someone hacked into her
phone and took her private pictures and made those public that is not okay right
but if she released those pictures publicly and then told nobody to share
them that would be different and I hope that you guys are making the connection
here so I want you guys to look at your own lives alright look at your own lives
and ask where your entitlement is coming from where's your audacity coming from
where you think that you can have all the good over here and none of the bad
because I hate to break it to you I absolutely hate to break it to you that
is not how life works all right and we all need to acknowledge when we go to
certain career paths or life choices there are certain things that come along
with it all right if for any reason I don't want anybody talking about me ever
again this YouTube channel is going bye-bye but until that point happens all
of you all of you viewers any other youtubers who do commentary or drama or
whatever it is or news you are allowed to talk about me it is your god-given
right okay anyways that's my new thing and I will bring it up if I ever see
youtubers do this because youtubers need to be held accountable for the
ridiculous requests that they're making please don't talk about me like nobody's
breaking into your house or stealing your medical records calm down a little
bit and again before I leave like a big huge huge thank you I feel I feel more
myself than I have in months I spent months just second-guessing literally
everything I was doing and I feel I feel me again all right and I hope you guys
you know you're ready to continue this journey with me and see what we can
learn from these youtubers that are making their lives public and try to
improve our own lives from it you and me together all right hey Liz
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