Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
Let’s talk about celebrities for a moment.
Why do people like celebrities?
There’s a lot of reasons.
They’re good looking, they’re talented.
But most importantly, it’s because they’re popular.
A lot of other people like them.
Imagine you were to see a celebrity on the street that you weren’t even a fan of but
you know they’re a celebrity because you’ve seen them in things before.
You’d still be like whoa look who it is, it’s that person.
Even if you weren’t a fan.
Why, because they have social proof.
That means that simply you like them because other people like them.
Let’s move this to the dating world for a second.
This exists in the dating world when it comes to women being attracted to you.
When they know that people like you, they become more attracted to you.
And even more specifically, when they know that women like you, in their mind it says
whoa.
There’s something about him that’s special, that’s interesting and they become pre-attracted
to you.
It’s crazy, it’s amazing.
But this is science and this works.
You ever walk into a club and you see a guy who’s surrounded by a bunch of girls and
he’s at a table and all the girls are beautiful and he’s looking all cool.
You’re always like who is that guy?
Who is that guy?
You automatically assume that this guy must be cool, amazing, popular.
There must be something about him because he’s surrounded by so many people.
Women are looking at this and thinking the same thing.
So how do we hack into that?
How do you become that person?
With a little bit of work and a little bit of strategy you can use this celebrity psychology,
the social proof to your benefit to attracting more women into your life.
Like I said, it’s a little bit of work, takes a little bit of time but it’s doable
and it’s incredible.
This is something I’ve been working on with my coaching clients.
When we’re talking, when we’re doing coaching what I’m having them do is creating a social
circle to start creating social proof.
How do you do that?
Here’s a great way to do it.
What I want you to do is find some sort of activity that goes on during the week.
Here’s a good idea.
Like a trivia night.
Every major city has some bar that’s doing a trivia night on a week day.
Find out what that day is and I want you to start inviting people to it.
In fact I want you to go every single week.
Let’s pretend it’s on a Wednesday.
I want you to go there every single Wednesday.
Even if no one shows up, you go.
Start getting in the habit of going.
And then what you do is when you start going out to bars, and hopefully you’re doing
this, you’re going out meeting people, approaching, getting numbers, semi-friend zone them and
just get their numbers and invite them out to this trivia night.
I want you to be the center.
The epicenter of this ever expanding social circle that’s only going to exist because
you are creating it.
Simple enough right?
All you do is get numbers, you go out, you approach people, talk to girls, invite them
to this thing and then boom, you’re the epicenter.
Here’s the thing, it’s a little bit of a numbers game.
Not every girl is going to want to come out.
Not every girl is going to make it.
Even some of your friends, guy friends might not make it.
Here’s the thing, this is why you’re doing it every single Wednesday.
Because some people will be able to make it sometimes and other people other times.
When they show up, you’re the person who connected it all.
So you’re gonna be the guy who’s this celebrity in this social circle.
Everyone’s gonna be talking about you.
Like why are you here?
Everyone’s gonna be talking to each other saying who you know, what’s going on?
And everyone’s gonna always bring it back to you.
They’re gonna think who is this guy?
And women are gonna be like who is this guy?
Why does everyone like him, what’s so special about him?
You’re gonna get that social proof and pre-attraction.
If you do this for 3 months straight, I guarantee by that 3 month mark, you are going to have
a lot of people showing up to this thing because it’s gonna be an event that people are gonna
want to come to because they know they’re going to socialize and meet cool people.
So when you’re doing this, send out a group text.
Send it to everyone letting them know again Wednesday we’re doing trivia night, this
place, this time.
Let them know the details, let them show up and encourage them to bring their friends.
Don’t just invite the people you meet.
Tell them to bring their friends so it can be expansive.
And then when you’re there and having a good time, if anyone’s not being cool or
being a douchebag, just kick them off the list and don’t invite them anymore.
So you’re gonna have this nice filtered social circle with only cool people and you’re
gonna be the one there introducing everyone, talking to everyone and boom, you’re gonna
be this celebrity and people are gonna want to know you.
They’re gonna want to talk to you.
Not only if this good for meeting girls, this is good for networking.
This is good for you just being connected to a lot of people for something you might
need in the future.
Who knows.
Reciprocity is huge here.
You do things for other people like introduce people, they’re gonna want to do things
for you and the world goes round and round.
You might be thinking, well Tripp I don’t know how to go out and get numbers initially
and do that whole process to create this social circle.
That’s fine.
I want you to check out my program called Hooked.
I’m gonna put a link down in the description it is www.getherhooked.com.
Go to that site.
Get her hooked.com where you’ll learn all about this program that teaches you steps
A-Z on how to meet and attract women in your town so you know how to continue conversation,
get them attracted to you, get their numbers and get them wanting you so you can get them
to come out and meet everyone on this potential trivia night or whatever you decide to do
in your town.
Go get hooked at www.getherhooked.com and I’ll see you on the next video.