Signs you really need some guidance in life. Stick around as I'll reveal some important signs you
really need some guidance and advice in your life right now. Welcome to The SCG Show! This video is
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Let me tell you a true story about a man called Lewis. He needed guidance badly, he
was unsure where to go, what to do, what to be, he would temporarily get himself over excited about
a new project, job, person, friendship or girl to date... then he'd get bored, self-sabotage or act
even more confused by insisting he made the wrong choice to pursue it in the first place.
He grew up with a very distant father who was cold, lacked emotional intelligence, and had no time for
his son's struggles. His mother was soft, weak and often had no idea what to say or do either.
He would tell his son to "man up or figure it out for himself!" His father
then one day his dad tragically died, leaving Lewis devastated. As time went on and the grief subsided
Lewis started evaluating his life and all the mistakes he made, realizing that he never did have
the answers... he needed to ignore the ego inside him and recognize he was desperate for guidance
and mentorship. He started networking and long story short after speaking to the right people
over the course of several years. Lewis is now in a healthy relationship, has a great job and
a road map for his life. He said "all it took was guidance, somebody who wasn't going to judge me,
but guide me, unlike my late dad and it's changed my life around completely." Many young men and women
reach out to me saying how they're desperate for advice and guidance. I am no expert or martyr but
I say it as it is and in not to dissimilar a fashion, I too was like Lewis, desperate for
guidance in my younger years. Let go of your ego and open yourself up to mentorship, to a
helping hand, to a counselor or therapist. Here are signs you really need some guidance in your life
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A sense of feeling lost does not discriminate age-wise, AKA you can feel lost as a teenager,
and all the way up into your 90s. I sincerely hope you're not an older person feeling lost,
because if you are, you've certainly had plenty of time to rectify the situation.
What does it mean to feel lost? It's when we feel confused, lack confidence, we don't know
where we are, why we do what we do, it's a total breakdown and collapse of purpose and drive.
I've been there, in fact I've been rock bottom many times as well, and it's not a great place to be.
If you're new to my content you may be unaware that I suffered a gambling addiction for years...
thankfully I've been sober and clean for four years though. When I was gambling, I was lost
it had consumed me, I had no idea why I gambled, what I was thinking or feeling, and I was hurting.
The little monster took control of me and I was hooked, and every
time I'd leave a casino broken miserable, I'd be even more lost.
"What on Earth am I doing?" is what I'd say to myself, I'd convince myself "gambling was fun"
but I was so wrong. Miraculously and completely on my own, and by my own doing I read a book that
changed my life and made me clean and sober with no desire to gamble again. If I had a chance to
go back in time, I would have sought help quicker, would have reached out to loved ones and told them
what's going on and been honest with the fact that I was feeling lost. So please don't make my mistake.
You can feel lost in certain areas too like your career, business, friendship circles, passions and
relationship, but get some help please to find your path again.... the right good healthier path!
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Life can be scary sometimes, because in many ways, circumstances and through situations, we
can lose our identity and I'm not talking about identity theft... we can forget who we
are! There are many reasons for this, but let me give you a very personal example of this from me =
I got myself in the past into a toxic relationship with a narcissist for a few years
Looking back it was a hellish experience. I've grown up and matured immensely since walking
away and moving on, which is a massive plus, but the interesting thing was what happened to my
personality. Away from this channel I'm actually a very nerdy, funny, chilled out guy... I'm artistic,
I'm into sports, passionate as well about those things, I love gaming, comic books... those who know
me personally like friends and family, my partner are aware of what makes me the person I am on
the inside... what makes me unique as a character but when I was in that relationship which was
difficult and toxic, I was a shadow of the man I used to be. I changed, I became more on edge,
negative, aggressive, someone completely different... they were not bringing out the best of me...
instead my buttons were pushed, my patience tested and so on. I needed guidance. I didn't have a clue
back then on the real serious ramifications and damage a toxic relationship can have on mental
health and lifestyle. Had I known well I wouldn't have had a second date would I? Look for guidance
even if you forget who you are in a friendship, especially in your career or a business. Who you
are is what makes you YOU! You unique, you special... Share and embrace that with the world no matter what!
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persuasive modern time, thanks to social media influencers and even YouTube we suffer from shiny
object syndrome so badly, that some people will dump their partners for someone else overnight or
throw them under the bus or scam or lie to get their way, and deep down at its core, under the
surface most people don't really know what they want. In Summer 2021 me and a previous girlfriend
split after a brief relationship with one another, a year earlier of course was the beginning of the
pandemic where I isolated for a long time. In the same year my Dad died tragically with illness. Just
a year before that in 2019 I walked away from a toxic relationship, the one I already mentioned...
It's been a rough few years for me personally and my family... well that's an understatement
After Summer 2021, deep down I wanted something meaningful... I wanted love and a real connection...
but on the surface and superficially I had no idea what I wanted. I would say to myself "how can I get
married or settle down without my dad? I've had it rough maybe I should be selfish in what I want?
Maybe I should just be a bachelor for the rest of my life, or maybe I should just have casual
fun like they say to do so on TikTok etc?" As of present day and almost a year after the other
breakup, I met the most wonderful woman and I'm in the best and healthiest relationship I've ever had.
I woke up. I grew up. I realized I wanted deep down a good loving woman in my life who I'd
adore and grow with spiritually and emotionally. Most people till they're dying day have no idea
what they want in life... some even just get married and still don't know what they want...
Seek guidance to awaken your inner desires of what you truly want, not what you think or what
others insist that you want as well... especially your parents! A person without purpose wanders
aimlessly around in life, withering away, wasting away, bringing everyone else down with them in
the process. You've got to have a purpose, it could be even the most basic thing, but it means
everything deep down, and if you lack that well guess what? You really need guidance in your life!
Martin had no purpose, he worked a dead-end job for his uncle as a barber, never saved money,
never bothered with a relationship, and never had a plan. "All I want to do is get up, go to work, go
eat, go to bed - simple!" he'd say. Whenever people ask "but what's your purpose?" he'd say "I have no idea...."
Martin is single, in his 40s, broke, miserable and going nowhere in life, and when people give him
guidance and try to help him he's not interested... because he doesn't wish to face the truth... he'd
rather be in denial. On the contrast I'll have many purposes that I'll share with you right now =
To grow this channel... to be the best boyfriend for my girlfriend... to leave a legacy behind... to
enjoy what I do... try and inspire and help people... be happy and to live and have fun. You can even
have the purpose to be the best at your job, the best parent, the best gardener, whatever! Find and
seek guidance to help you have a purpose in life. If you're struggling and trying to realize what
that might be, seek that help to push you in the right direction for a better life overall!