- Remember to not pursue the guy.
Let him lead instead, and during the meantime,
create a life for yourself that you love living.
You will see that it will naturally attract the guy you like
or an even better guy.
Never put a guy on a pedestal,
because that way,
you are putting your happiness in his hands.
Hi ladies, my name is Ieva
and I am one of Greta's High Value Women coaches.
And in this video, I'm gonna share three ways
on how to get a guide to like you.
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The number one way to get a guy to like you
is to not compare yourself to other women
and do not look at them as competition.
Men notice when a woman gets jealous
or sees other women as competition.
This is actually a really big giveaway
that you like the guy.
If you like a high value man,
and you see that a woman or multiple women
are constantly pursuing him by chatting him up,
flirting with him, texting him and calling him,
then you literally have nothing to worry about.
And this is even the case
if there are a number of women who do this to the guy.
The reason being is that these women are pursuing him.
They are acting low value.
High value men are not interested in low value women,
especially when it comes down to looking
for a long-term girlfriend or a wife.
If you are acting high value
and you do not initiate or pursue,
but the other girl is doing so,
then you can basically relax more or less.
The reality is that the guy will simply get bored,
because there is no chase.
And there is no mystery,
because he sees that the low value woman is really into him.
And it will literally bore him,
because that's not the type of life partner
or the type of girl that he's looking for.
A high value man will always want to be
with a high value woman long-term.
This is another reason why a lot of quality men
are actually single or they're older and not married,
because it might be difficult to find a life partner
because there are so many women
that are pursuing and chasing him.
So whatever you do,
do not compare yourself to these types of women.
And just because they do it,
it doesn't mean that you have to do it.
No, no, no.
And don't worry about it,
because now you know the actual truth behind it.
The second thing is to be yourself.
Being your true self is what's going to make you happy.
Being high value has nothing to do with playing a game
or being someone else.
Being high value means being the best version of yourself
when it comes down to, for example, relationships.
If a woman tries to act a certain way
it will come off as fake or unauthentic.
So remember, don't put a show on for anyone.
Instead, laugh at jokes that you find funny,
wear the clothes that you really like,
and don't be afraid to be you.
Don't ever try to impress a guy,
because trying to impress a guy is pursuing a guy.
So don't ever try to impress a guy
by wearing a sexy dress or doing something similar.
Dress how you want to dress
and what you feel is appropriate.
You should not be chasing the man by trying to get him,
or by trying to get his attention
because you look sexy or something like that.
For example, if he likes blondes,
you don't go and dye your hair
just because he said he likes blondes.
That's definitely not something that you should do.
Instead, be yourself, be a good person and love who you are.
This shows a lot of confidence, right?
And a lot of strength.
And it shows that you have a backbone.
Men notice this very quickly,
and the right men come along and start pursuing you.
And these men that come along are then high value men.
Remember, that long-term love is not about the looks,
because looks fade after time.
It's about the whole package.
It's about the character and the personality,
the values and the morals of the man and the woman.
So be yourself, don't put on a show,
and make yourself happy.
You will then attract the right type of man.
You will either attract your crush or a better type of man.
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The third way is to live your best life and be nice to him.
If you like a guy and he reaches out to you,
then you shouldn't ignore him.
Simply be nice and reply.
Be happy and kind and let him initiate the questions
and take the lead in the conversation.
Concentrate on your own life and see what he has to offer
and what he does to get your attention.
Remember, that just because you fancy or you like a guy,
it doesn't mean that he's actually Prince Charming
or that he's perfect in every way.
If he is good enough, this will show through his actions
and the action he takes towards you and how he treats you.
So don't let your emotions get out of hand
because you like someone.
And don't forget everything you learn
from Greta and her teachings
just because you start fancy or liking someone.
Focus on your life and making yourself happy.
When you are naturally happy,
it will rub off onto everyone around you.
Everyone around you will want to spend more time with you
because you're a happy and fun person.
This includes the guy.
A guy will notice extremely quickly if a girl is fake,
or if she's actually happy and content in her life.
And a content and happy girl is very beautiful,
because he sees that she is happy without him in her life.
And she can fulfill her own happiness
and can fill up her own cup.
And that is what really attracts a high value man,
a woman who does not need him but chooses to be with him.
if he is good to her.
When you're a happy and positive
and just a fun person to be around and content in your life,
it will be attractive,
and he will want to spend more time with you
because you are a fun person and a cool person to be around.
Always fundamentally remember,
no matter what relationship you are in,
remember not to pursue the guy and to let him lead instead.
And in the meantime,
create a life for yourself that you love living.
You will see that this will have a positive effect
on your relationships, on your career,
on your friendships and family.
Never put a guy on a pedestal,
because if you do this,
you are handing him way too much power.
You are giving him so much power
over your feelings and over your emotions.
If you put a guy somewhere up here
and really rely on him making you happy,
you're putting your happiness in his hands, right?
And that's not a situation you want to get yourself into,
because it leads to a broken heart.
When you put your happiness in your own hands
and take on the responsibility of making yourself happy,
you are acting very high value.
And this is a rare diamond,
because a lot of women look for happiness outside of them.
And not even women, people in general.
When your crush or the guy that you like
does then reach out to you
and wants to take you on a date or contacts you,
then continue using and learn learning from Greta's advice
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Thank you so much for watching, ladies.
I really enjoyed making this video for you.
I hope you enjoyed watching
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Till then, have a beautiful week.