It's really frustrating when you have no idea if a girl likes you or she really likes you or
she's in love with you and you just feel lost throughout the whole process when you're dating
her. There is something that you can do to find out if she likes you, but I want you to be very
careful with the way that you go about this. I'm going to give you a question that you can use,
but it's very sensitive. What I mean by that is if you do this wrong, if you don't know when to
do it, where to do it, how to do it, and you just completely fumble it, it's going to work
against you. But if you do it right then you will absolutely know if the girl is interested and stay
tuned to the end of the video where you're going to learn a question to never ask a girl that will
absolutely kill attraction immediately. Now here's the question and remember, don't just leave the
video, stick around so you know how to use this. You can't just say the words that I'm telling you
right now. The question is "I'm curious, what drew you to me when we first met?" So of course you
know you're not going to be able to say this when you first meet her. This is something that you're
going to be saying maybe after a couple of dates. Now you can do it on the first date if you want
because it can be referencing the online dating photos or your online dating profile or maybe even
when you went up and approached her and talked to her and met her. Quick warning, this is not
for people who are in the friend zone. If you've been with a girl for a long time as a friend,
you've known her for years, this is not going to be a magical question that's going to help you
understand if she likes you or not. This is only for people who have started off the interaction
with a woman in the, let's say, romantic context. So again, the question is "I'm curious. What drew
you to me the first time we met?" And why this is so great is because this is not an arrogant
question. This is more of a curiosity question. That's why you start with I'm curious. You're
curious as to what made her feel attracted to you. Of course you're not saying attracted though, it's
what drew you towards me. And by the way she will be asking you the same question. If I were you,
a great way to answer the question when she asks you is to make a joke and tease her. If you give
her a romantic and real answer it actually might work against you because you're putting all your
cards on the table. So instead, we're going to ask her this. The actual answer what it's going
to give you is going to tell you how much she likes you and if she does like you the question
is going to make her like you more. That's how powerful this really is. If she kind of shrugs
this off and says something like oh I don't know I'm not sure, like she can't really give you an
answer. Boom there you go. You can tell right there that she's not interested. And don't worry
this question is not going to hurt attraction if you do it right. It's just going to give you plain
and simple the real answer. She can say anything - she can say I really like your photos, I like that
you were interested in this, I like that you went up to me so confident and talked to me,
I like x y x y z. And then you can utilize some of those answers if you'd like to to even build
more attraction. If she says to you I really like that you played tennis. Well now you know that
tennis is something you guys can be talking about, you can be doing together. It's going to give you
intel. That's why this question is so powerful, it gives you so much. But what's more important is
the next question that you ask her. Not literally right after this question but the one that you
ask her after the date or after the second date or third date. And that question is "When are
you free next?" Or any version of asking her out again, because when you ask her to hang out again
and ask her on another date and she says yes, then you know for 150% certainty that she likes you and
is into you. And the question that you never want to ask her ever ever in all of your relationships,
I don't care up until the point where you're married for 50 years - never ask her "Do you
like me?" That is the neediest question that you can ask. And the beautiful part about the
question that I gave you today is it's not needy. It's not needy at all to ask her what drew her to
you. Like what makes her interested in you. But if you ask her do you like me, then that is going
to be very obviously that you're trying to see if she likes you, and that's very desperate and very
weak. There's a lot of other questions that you can ask to really build attraction. I have a video
on that that you can watch called 36 questions To Ask A Girl To Make Her Fall In Love With You.
Check out that video here and then you'll be able to learn what questions you can ask during
a date or when you first meet her to build the connection between you and her. And if you need
more help on getting to the point where a woman is attracted to you and getting her more interested
in you to get the first date, you can check out my program called Get Her Hooked.com - there you can
learn through my 8 - 10 hour course how to build attraction with my signature TED method that works
when you use it. Check that out in the description below and I'll see you on the next video.