Tripp from Tripp advice.com and there’s one huge mistake that I always see
guys making when it comes to talking to girls, getting into conversations with girls.
And it has to do with where your body is in location to hers.
What you’re about to learn is how to fix this huge mistake.
I always see it when I’m going out, when I’m coaching guys, it is horrible.
We’re going to get you to fix it right now.
Check out my friend Courtney and I demonstrating how to do this.
I’m going to show you exactly how this all works.
I have my model Courtney here.
Say hello.
Hello.
We’re going to be going over what it looks like to lock in a girl.
Like I said, this is important because if you’re not doing it correctly, you’re
not going to be able to make a connection with her.
I’ll show you an example.
Let’s do an example of me having a conversation with her and we’re not locked in.
I want you to Courtney face this way.
Perfect.
Actually I’m going to have you right here.
Imagine I come and I approach her and we’re in the middle of a conversation.
I’m like this.
By the way, a lot of guys do this.
They won’t actually get in front of the girl.
They’re going to be to the side and they’ll start talking over their shoulder.
This could happen.
You could be at the bar or somewhere crowded where you can’t get in with her right away.
There’s people here, maybe she’s with friends.
You got to make sure when you’re doing this that you’ll slowly turn towards her.
First, here’s the example of what it looks like when you’re talking to a girl and you’re
not locked in.
You’re going to be like this.
“Hey, what’s going on?”
Hello how are you?
What are you up to today?
Nothing.
In Chicago loving it.
Okay cool.
How does that feel right now?
I’m going to get her advice here.
I’m going to get her advice.
How does that feel me not being completely turned to you?
I’m twisting my body but I’m actually more focused this way.
I think you don’t have all your focus on me which is why you want to come up to me.
I feel like you’re a little zoned out.
Exactly.
What about like this?
What if I’m talking.
Again guys do this.
I see this all time.
You might think why are guys doing this?
The reason why they’re doing it is because they’re too nervous to get in front of the
girl.
They’re going to be like this.
Imagine if I’m talking to you like this.
Very uncomfortable.
I’m like pretty much facing that way and turned over my shoulder.
It’s going to be hard for me to project my voice which we’ve learned about.
At this angle, it’s going to be uncomfortable for you.
It’s going to be uncomfortable for her.
She’s going to be like why isn’t he facing me?
What’s going on?
There’s going to be uncomfortable conversation.
I want to show you how this works.
You might not be able to go right up to her.
In fact, you probably don’t want to most of the time.
Because if I came to approach a girl and I was like hi.
It’s like whoa.
We’re right in each other’s faces.
Sometimes that could be ok depending on the situation.
But if you’re beginning and this is something you’re just starting off on, it’s not
really good to go run up.
You’re probably not going to do it right.
What you can do is slowly start to lock her in.
I’ll show you how this works.
Imagine Courtney, stay right there.
Imagine I come in and coming from this way actually.
I’ll start to talk to you.
I’m talking, we’re having a conversation and I’m not fully locked in yet.
You can see she’s facing this way and I’m like 45 degrees.
What happens is I keep talking to her, we’re having a conversation.
What’s going on?
What are you doing later?
I’m going to get some sushi.
Nice what’s your favorite type of sushi.
I’m a vegetarian so probably something healthy.
So you like cucumber rolls, California rolls without the crab the imitation crab.
Yeah probably no fish.
Okay cut right there.
See what I did?
As we were talking I was just slowly moving my way over.
Now be honest when I was doing that of course you were noticing it because we’re doing
the video but did it seem very apparent that I was trying to get in front of you?
No it was very comfortable and I talked about what I like came into the conversation really
smoothly.
Right exactly.
What I’m doing is I’m talking, continuing conversation.
And you’re going to shuffle your feet and talk, keep eye contact with her the entire
time and then land right here.
I want to show you more of this space.
You can see it here.
It’s about I’d say what is this maybe like two feet, shoulder to shoulder and we
are mirroring each other.
I can’t stress this enough, you want to get to the point where you are exactly mirroring
her.
Because what happens is when you’re talking to a girl and you have this position in front
of her, you create this imaginary bubble.
Because she’s looking right here.
Everything in front of her eyes is just me.
And if we’re talking to each other then we’re looking each other in the eyes and
there’s nothing else going on.
Not literally but we’re talking and we’re creating this little connection here.
And the thing is you can actually feel it.
If I was over here for example, this is a comfortable distance we could start talking.
But doesn’t it feel a little bit weird now like it’s too far away?
Then I’m going to go your space.
If I’m like this, still a little weird but this would be comfortable space if we were
already talking for a long time and maybe about to kiss.
But this is not conversation space.
This right here about two feet right in front of her.
I’m going to show you again once more how you can slowly lock in.
Again you might walk up.
You might approach.
You give your opener.
You’re talking.
Maybe she says something.
Maybe you’re saying something.
You’re going to slowly shuffle your feet, slowly walk in front of her and here you are
now shoulder to shoulder two feet apart.
That’s how you lock in.
When you end up getting this down, it’s going to be so much easier to get her number
get her attracted to you and eventually she will end up at your place.
It’s going to be important to be able to learn how to build sexual tension when you’re
alone with her.
What I want you to do is get my Tripp’s Tension Technique.
It’s going to be here on the screen or in the link below in the description.
And in there you’re going to learn and see me demonstrate live how to build this sexual
tension.
You’re going to see the actual technique with my friend Elizabeth.
Go ahead and get that so you can learn how to do that right away.
Don’t forget to like the video and I’ll see you on the next one.