[MUSIC PLAYING] - Hey, you got a second?
Let's talk real quick.
Yeah, sure.
Hey, Marsau.
Hey.
Let's talk to Big Lou for a second.
You know, I ain't going to lie.
You know, I showed up today to have
that conversation with Big Lou about what
Tiffany said to Sheree.
I'm here.
And I'm seeing, you know, Melody, she's avoiding me.
You know, I ain't got time for that.
So I want to go ahead and enjoy my cupcake, talk to Big Lou,
and yep.
So what happened yesterday, man?
What did you hear?
Well, first off, before I say what I heard,
I want to know what truly was said before I
actually react to that piece.
Well, well, I kind of want--
I don't know.
I kind of want to hear what you-- how
do you know something happened? I mean, you--
I mean, obviously, my wife came
to me feeling some type of way. - She felt some kind of way.
100%.
I mean, if two guys approach her about a situation--
No, see.
--that had to do with another woman, that's something
totally different then.
I ain't going to say that we approached her.
But, you know, we were meeting about Selma.
Since you're here, we might as well go and discuss,
you know, about my party, and the things
that she was just saying to Sheree,
and things of that nature that I felt
was very, very, very inappropriate
and very disrespectful.
Well, what did she say to Sheree?
What did she tell you she said?
I know the first question she told me was, how
does it feel to date a cheater?
Oh, it gets worse than that, though.
Oh, it gets a lot worse.
Calling me a cheater and--
and asking her, do you think he'll-- well,
making a statement, do you think your [BLEEP] good
enough to keep him, you know?
Come on, man.
To me, Sheree's a grown woman, though.
I don't think another woman would ever say--
I don't think--
I don't think there's another human
that would say those things. - Y'all are two grown men.
- Uh-huh. - Y'all went to my wife--
No, no, we didn't go up to her.
You know, we had a meet.
And we just discussed what was there.
OK.
But my thing is, you had a meeting.
You had a meeting.
But that meeting turned into what?
You know, it was an extended conversation only because of
her conversation with my guest.
- I get it. - Hold on.
Hold on. My guest at my party--
I get that. I get that.
I was going to talk to you.
But just since she was right there,
I might as well mentioned it. - OK.
But it was a lot of stuff that was
mentioned, like what the [BLEEP] were
you thinking by saying that?
- Oh. - I'm sorry.
That was a reaction.
I think it was a Karen comment.
She's acting like a Karen.
[BLEEP]
What's a Karen?
Look, she's--
What's a Karen?
This can't be the first time you heard it.
What's a Karen?
This is-- this is a--
- What's a Karen? - Oh.
Louis.
It's a biracial person, a white person?
What is it? What's a Karen?
- No, no, no, no, no. - Somebody that's naive?
Karen has nothing to do with because you're white.
- What is it? - All right.
You can be white and not Karen.
That's why I'm asking for clarification.
100%.
A person who feels entitled to share their opinion
unsolicited to others when it's inappropriate,
and disrespectful, and condescending--
And not give a [BLEEP].
--and feel like their opinions and what
they have to say is more important
than everybody else's feelings.
Did you ask her why she said it?
Well, I asked her. I said, why did you say that?
And she said that, I feel that you and Sheree
will make blended families.
Just being real, man, one thing about my wife,
bro-- and I know Tif.
I know her well.
Tif is going to vocalize what she feels.
And a lot of times, it's not about the fact
of what's happening but what is potentially going to happen.
She knows how you feel about family.
Yeah.
So my thing is, if these are barriers and hurdles
that you already got to cross over--
and Tif is-- I'm telling you right now.
It ain't no negative factors of her saying,
oh, you dating a cheater. - Stop it.
How does it feel? No, bro, no.
- Stop. - No, it ain't going to stop.
- Stop. - I'm not covering--
- Stop. - --up for her.
Stop.
I'm not trying to make up [BLEEP]..
- Stop. - You are, dawg.
- Just stop it. - Come on.
Y'all should have stopped this [BLEEP]..
That don't make no sense what you're saying.
No.
You know, I truly get the fact of Martell
feeling a certain way.
I get Tif said some things that may have came
off to Sheree the wrong way.
But at the end of the day, what does
Marsau have to do with this?
It has nothing to do with him.
It's really starting to aggravate me.
And that [BLEEP] pissing me off.
So you're justifying what you did.
You're saying that-- yes, absolutely.
You're justifying what you did.
- Well, what I'm saying is-- - So it was right.
So it what was right for you to go--
- I actually stopped myself. - --to my wife.
Next time something happen, I'm going to go to your wife.
How about that?
You're not going to go to my wife.
You know that.
So don't go to my [BLEEP] wife.
No, I didn't go to your wife.
Any [BLEEP] friend of mine that go to my wife
and talk about no [BLEEP].
Hey, listen, listen, listen, let's-- let's--
hey, tranquilo for a second, all right?
Because, what--
I hear things getting a little loud outside.
And I know that we're supposed to be celebrating.
So let me step out here and make sure that this is a celebration
and not what I think it is.
What I'm saying is this, it wasn't you.
But, Lou, you've got a different--
It's getting a little heated, so I
need to be a cooler head to make sure
that we don't have any fighting at a baby shower.
Tif is that one in the group that
vocally says what she feels.
- We call those Karens. - No.
You still can't do that, though.
- Hey, listen. - You can't do that.
I get what you're saying.
If somebody said that to you that was out in the street
and you didn't know, right?
Because she doesn't know Tiffany.
OK. But she was--
No.
She knows the person that they were associated with.
You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying.
You ain't talking just to somebody
that's walking down the curb and saying,
[BLEEP] you or this or that. - She's saying it's offensive.
- She doesn't know Sheree. - She doesn't know Sheree.
OK.
I'm not saying she knows, I just said,
she was associated with a person that was there, which is you.
- OK. - She knows you.
- How was she right anyways? - I didn't say she was right.
When did I say that? - No, that's what I'm saying.
You want me to say that [BLEEP]..
I didn't say it.
Were you right?
Were you right? - I was right.
- You had a point. - I was right.
- But were you right? - I was right.
So OK.
You had a point, but were you right?
- Of course, I was right. - To go to my wife versus me?
- No, he's said it first. - I ain't got to go to you.
[BLEEP] - OK, there.
There. No, no, because [BLEEP].
When you and Mel were married--
[SHOUTING] - Bro.
No.
Don't do that.
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