Hey there, this is Clay with modernlove.life and this is Relationship Inner Game.
Now this is actually the fifth video in a series that we're putting together on how
to connect with your ex on a deeper level and this video is on the topic of how to make
your ex want you back.
And really when, when you think about it, the only way that your ex is going to want
to get back together with you is if the connection between the two of you feels great and feels
amazing, right?
Your Ex is only going to want to get back into a relationship with you if they know
that it's not the same relationship or the same dynamic or the same situation that caused
them to leave the relationship in the first place.
So the best way to show them that things are going to be different is of course to demonstrate
that there is an actual, real, tangible, meaningful change.
One of the best changes that you can make to show your ex that things are absolutely
going to be different and to make them want you back is to really connect with them on
a deeper emotional level because our emotional connections that we have with our partners
are really the glue that binds our relationship together.
You know it's not really any of these superficial things like text messaging or toys and gadgets
that we have or like a hot bottle, although that doesn't hurt.
But the thing that really makes a relationship work is the quality of the connection that
the two of you have.
So if you can simply just ignore all of this other stuff that is getting in the way, like,
oh, they didn't like this post on facebook, suddenly what does that mean?
Oh, they unfollowed me on this social media platform.
What does that mean?
They, you know, weren't at this party that our mutual friend was having.
What does that mean?
If you can just set all that stuff aside and just focus laser sharp on the quality of the
emotional connection that the two of you are having, then that is all you really need to
get back together with them and to make your ex want you back.
Now, in the previous four videos, we've talked about some of the different things that you
can do to lay the foundation and to start building up these layers of positive interactions
that will make your ex want to come back to you.
If you really put these together and really start practicing these and really start combining
these, then you'll absolutely be able to have a much more positive impact on your ex.
If you can continue to have that positive impact and sustainably have these great interactions
with each other, then yes, your ex will eventually start to open up to you again.
Yes, your ex will start to share what's going on emotionally with you again and yes, your
ex will eventually want to get back together with you again.
If they truly believe that the two of you are having this strong emotional connection.
If they truly believe that the two of you are better off together than you are a part,
and if they truly believe that something fundamentally is different for the better in the relationship
and in the dynamic between the two of you, that is what is going to make your ex want
you back.
So once again, I hope you found this video series helpful.
If you are watching this on Youtube, please head down below and click on the link that
will take you over to our website relationshipinnergame.com where you can sign up for a series of tips
and strategies that will help you get back together with your ex by simply
filling out a short, painless, 30-second questionnaire about what is going on in your relationship
and what the specifics are.
Okay.
If you're watching this over on our website and modernlove.life, again, you can just go
down below this video and there'll be a link there that will take you to another page where
it will show you how to put all of these different things together to really allow you to create
these amazing connections between you and your ex.
We teach these things called advanced relational skills that actually help you to have deeper,
more meaningful interactions.
Of course we've just scratched the surface with this video series, but we actually spend,
you know, actually quite a bit of time in delving into more of the nitty gritty and
specifics about what it takes to have a deep, meaningful connection with your ex.
The kind where you know, maybe the two of you get together for coffee or something.
And at the end of that coffee date, neither one of you really wants to say goodbye.
And you have one of those long drawn out moments where the two of you are just kind of lingering
and looking for some excuse to kind of keep things going.
Right?
That is absolutely not unheard of and that is absolutely something that can happen for
you, but first you need to go down below and click on that link.
Anyway, this has been clay with modernlove.life.
This has been the Relationship Inner Game experience, and if you like this video, please
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This has been Clay once again, and I'll see you next time.
Please take care.