I can't do it.
This is too hard.
It's too late.
What if you took these words
and turned them the other way around?
In your journey through life, your mindset plays
a vital role in shaping your experience
and building your success.
It's like the architect of your path,
building it according to your experiences
and influencing it in ways you can't even think about.
A fixed and negative mindset can hold you back so much
and you might end up living a life you ultimately regret.
You build boundaries without realizing it.
You resist what you shouldn't
and with unbelievable force.
It's like you're captive in your own life,
stopping yourself from growing and evolving,
but having a growth oriented and positive mindset
can make you succeed in so many situations
in both your personal and professional life.
Through optimism and perseverance,
you can adopt this mindset and shift your way of thinking
so that everything goes as well as it can.
And if it doesn't go well, at first you figure out a way
to make it work.
Welcome to Alux, my friend!
The place where future billionaires
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It's so often we hear the ’’I can't do it’’ around us.
And we also say sometimes ourselves, right?
Whether it's about a task at work
or a new dish in the kitchen or a climbing workout.
People sometimes feel like it's better to just say,
’’I can't do it’’ than actually trying to do it.
And you're not entirely wrong to say that.
But ’’I can't do it’’
should be just the starting point of a process.
Let's just say you're a painter
and you have to write a code for an app.
It's true,
you, a painter, probably can't do it.
But instead of saying those four concerning words,
you could just ask yourself and others, ’’How can I do it?’’.
By saying, ’’How can I do it’’ instead of ’’I can't do it’’
you start a transformative process.
You put away the boundaries
that you built up around yourself,
and you get to explore innovative approaches
to things you once thought too hard to handle.
Basically,
this mindset shift is the change
that can make your life better.
It helps you to break free from thinking
so you can start discovering what you're capable of.
So the next time you face something
that seems difficult,
remember to ask yourself, ’’How can I do it?’’.
It might just lead you
to some great answers and a brighter future.
Many people hold themselves back
by thinking
that certain chances or dreams aren't made for them.
They believe that success is only for other people,
never themselves.
But if you change your thinking to ’’I can have this’’
It means you believe you're worthy
and you can go after what you want.
When you think ’’I can have this’’
you're actually saying:
’’I deserve it and it's possible for me’’.
It's like unlocking a door to your dreams
and you can see that you're not limited
by who you are or where you come from.
You have the right
to chase your dreams and seize opportunities.
It's all about understanding that success isn't only
for some of us.
Instead,
it's something that can be a part of your life too.
When you believe in yourself and your worth,
you can go after your goals with confidence.
You start seeing that you can have
the same chances and experiences as anyone else,
and you're just not held back by doubts about
whether you're good enough or deserving enough.
Procrastination usually happens
because you think it's
too late to begin something or to make some kind of change.
But the truth is, you can start fresh at any moment.
When you switch your thinking from ’’It's too late’’
to ’’Now is the moment’’
you give yourself the power to take action.
Time is precious and you can always
start working on your goals.
So when you say ’’It's too late’’,
it feels like you've missed your chance.
It can make you put things off and not do what
you need to do.
But when you say ’’Now is the moment’’
it's like a signal to yourself
that you're ready to get going.
Time keeps moving either way, and there's always
a chance to do something different or new.
Don't let the past hold you back.
Instead, see every moment as a chance
to take one more step toward your goal.
Whether it's morning, noon or night,
it's never too late to start working
on what matters to you.
Feeling unsure about yourself can stop you from growing.
When you keep thinking
about what you don't know or what you can't do
it can hold you back a lot.
But there is a way to change this.
Instead of focusing on what
you don't have, start thinking of
if there is a way that you can learn this.
When you switch your thinking
like this, you're actually saying,
’’I want to get better and I'm ready to find out how’’.
It's about looking for ways to get the skills and knowledge
you need.
You can do this by finding resources,
by talking to experts,
and searching for opportunities to learn more.
So instead of letting self-doubt
make you feel stuck,
you turn into someone who is eager to learn and improve
and that's really just a positive thing.
Next time you doubt yourself, try thinking
where can you learn the thing that you don't know yet?
You'll be amazed
by how it changes your attitude
and how much it helps you to grow.
It's like turning your self-doubt
into a superpower power for self-improvement.
When things don't go as planned, it's natural to think
whatever you're trying to do just won't work.
But there's a better way to look at this.
Instead of saying: ’’This doesn't work’’
try thinking that you can learn to make this work.
This change in thinking is called a growth mindset.
It means that you see
challenges as opportunities to become better.
So when something doesn't go how you wanted it,
it's not a dead end.
No, it's a path to learning and becoming better.
When you say ’’This doesn't work’’
it can make you feel stuck and want to give up.
But when you say I can learn to make it work,
well, you're becoming more flexible and stronger.
You keep trying, learning from your mistakes
and finding new ways to reach your goals.
So instead of giving up, tell yourself
I can learn to make this work.
It's like turning setbacks into a path to success.
With a growth mindset,
you become better at handling challenges
and achieving your goals.
You know, sometimes things get tough
or take a lot of time and we tend to quit.
But it's crucial
to figure out if we're quitting
because something is genuinely not important,
or if it's just because we find it hard.
To do that, change your thinking from ’’Is this not worth it?’’
to ’’Is this too hard or is it truly unimportant?’’.
This shift in mindset helps you to make better choices
about what to focus your energy on.
When you say ’’This isn't worth it’’,
it can lead to you
giving up on things
that might actually be essential or valuable.
But when you ask ’’Is it too hard or truly unimportant?’’
well, that alone is you being more thoughtful.
When you want to give up on something,
you need to take a moment to think about it.
Ask yourself
if this is really not important
or if this is
an emotional reaction because you're challenged.
It's like sorting out your priorities
and making sure you're not missing out
on something valuable just because it's difficult.
This way you can make better decisions
about where to invest your time and effort.
Feeling unsure about yourself and having low self esteem
can make it hard to move forward.
But you can change that.
Instead of saying ’’I'm not good enough’’
try saying ’’I can become better’’.
This shift in thinking
is like a key that unlocks the door to your potential.
It's about understanding
that you can keep growing and becoming better.
Personal growth is a journey that doesn't stop,
and you have the power to improve your skills
and abilities as you go along the way.
So when you say ’’I'm not good enough’’,
it can absolutely make you feel like you're stuck.
But when you say ’’I can become better’’,
it's like a green light that says, ’’Hey, go for it’’!
It encourages you to keep learning and growing.
So when you doubt yourself or feel like you're
not good enough, remember this new way of thinking.
Know that you have the capacity to become better
and better at anything with each day that passes.
It's like placing yourself
on a path of constant improvement,
and that is a powerful and positive mindset to have.
Life is full of challenges, right?
And how you look at them will change everything.
Instead of thinking of them as problems that stop you
and keep you from living a better life,
look at them as things to conquer instead.
When you change your mindset like this, you become stronger
and more ready to face difficulties.
When you think of obstacles as roadblocks,
it feels like you can't get past them.
But when you see them as challenges,
well, it's like saying: ’’I'm ready to figure this out’’.
You approach them with determination
and a problem solving attitude.
If you run into something tough,
try to change your thinking like this.
Don't see it as a roadblock.
See it as a challenge.
You are ready to take on.
This mindset shift will give you the power
to tackle difficulties head on and find solutions.
It's like turning obstacles into opportunities
and that's exactly what we like to see.
The word ’’impossible’’ can be a heavy
weight crushing motivation and stifling progress.
However, there's a way to lift that burden.
Instead of sticking to the idea of ’’This is impossible’’,
shift your perspective to
’’What if’’.
This simple change in mindset is like a key
that unlocks a treasure full of creativity and innovation.
It encourages you to explore alternative routes
and possibilities.
’’What if’’ becomes your mantra,
helping you to find solutions to various challenges.
When you label something as impossible, it can paralyze
you, making you believe that there is no way forward.
But by asking ’’What if?’’
you may have fresh ideas and innovative approaches.
It's like finding hidden doors in the walls of your mind,
leading to new and unexpected solutions.
Who knows?
Maybe the door
to the most innovative and amazing thoughts
is there right in the back of that closet.
You never know.
Aiming for perfection can be really hard, actually.
You know, it's pretty toxic.
It often leads to frustration
and even procrastination because
nothing will ever be perfect.
But you can change this for yourself.
Instead of focusing your mind on perfection,
shift your mindset and make it focus on simple achievements.
This change in thinking is like flipping a switch from
’’I must be perfect’’ to ’’I'm making progress’’.
It encourages you to concentrate
on moving forward and celebrating
your small successes along the way.
This shift in perspective
promotes a more sustainable and satisfying approach
to your goals.
When you look for perfection, it's easy to get stuck
because you're always aiming
for an ideal situation that may not even exist.
But when you focus on simple achievements, you're
more likely to take action and make progress.
Every little step forward
becomes a reason to celebrate motivating you to keep going.
If you find yourself obsessing over perfection,
remind yourself to think about the simple achievements.
It's like giving yourself permission to be human,
to make mistakes, and to grow from them.
This mindset shift will help you to stay on track
and find more joy while working to achieve your goals.
Taking responsibility for your actions
and choices is a vital part of growing as an individual.
Instead of avoiding blame with ’’It's not my fault’’,
change your mindset to ’’I admit my mistake’’.
Admitting your slip ups enables you
to gain valuable lessons and improve as a person.
when you ignore
and avoid responsibility by saying ’’It's not my fault’’,
you miss out on the chance to learn and improve.
It can also affect relationships
and personal development.
However, when you admit your errors
and prove that you're mature
and committed to self-improvement,
well that's an entirely different story.
Acknowledging your mistakes
doesn't mean you're admitting to being flawed.
It means you acknowledge your humanity
and your capacity for growth.
It's a brave act
that can lead to better decision making
and much more positive outcomes in the future.
Having a passive mindset can often leave
you feeling like
life is happening to you and you have little control
over it.
But there's a powerful shift you can make.
Move from thinking ’’Things happen to me’’
to ’’I make things happen’’.
This shift in perspective is a realization
of your control over many aspects of your life.
It empowers you to take charge and actively
shape your own destiny.
When you believe things just happen to you,
it can lead to feelings of helplessness and frustration.
It's like being tossed around by the currents of life.
However, when you adopt a mindset of
’’I make things happen’’, it's like you're grabbing
hold of the steering wheel of your life.
You become the captain, steering
toward the goals and dreams.
This change doesn't mean you can control everything now.
It just means you have the power to
influence your circumstances and your responses.
It encourages you to be proactive, make decisions
and take meaningful actions to create the life you want
Rather than feeling entitled or expecting things to be
handed to you,
consider shifting your mindset to one of gratitude.
Replace the thought of ’’This was made for me’’
with ’’I'm so grateful for this’’.
Cultivating a sense of gratitude
that only enriches your perspective on life,
but also fuels your motivation to seize the opportunities
that come your way.
When you believe that
everything should cater to you,
it can lead to a
sense of entitlement and an unappreciative attitude.
However, when you adopt a mindset of gratitude,
you start to see the value
in what you have and the efforts of others.
It's like switching on a positive lens through
which you view the rest of your life.
Gratitude is a powerful motivator too.
When you're thankful for what you have,
it inspires you to make the most of those opportunities
to work harder and to give back.
It's a mindset
that not only benefits you, but also everyone around you.
Experiencing setbacks, you know, it's an inevitable
aspect of any journey
and rather than focusing on them as failures,
consider changing your mindset
to view them as opportunities to learn more.
Every setback offers valuable lessons and insights
that can contribute to your growth and wisdom.
When you think of setbacks
as failures,
it can discourage you from going on with your journey.
However, when you embrace them as opportunities to learn
while setbacks become stepping stones for improvement,
each setback teaches you something valuable,
whether it's about yourself,
your approach, or your situation.
And these lessons can equip you
with the knowledge and resilience needed to face
future challenges with greater confidence and skill.
While interacting with others,
it's crucial to stay open to feedback
and different viewpoints.
Instead of responding defensively with
’’You don't know me’’,
try moving your mindset to one of receptivity
with ’’I consider your opinion’’.
This change in perspective can improve communication
and help for better collaboration
with those around you.
When you react defensively by saying ’’You don't know me’’,
it can create boundaries in your relationships.
Boundaries you don't need or want.
It can make others feel like
their input isn't valued or heard.
However, when you respond with ’’I consider your opinion’’,
you show that you're willing
to listen and engage in constructive dialog.
This change promotes healthy communication
and allows for the exchange of ideas and perspectives.
It encourages an environment where people feel comfortable
sharing their thoughts, leading to better
understanding and collaboration.
And that, Aluxer, just about does it for today's video.
Your mindset is an amazing force that can and does
guide you through life.
By embracing simple mindset shifts, you have the potential
to revolutionize how you face challenges,
benefit from opportunities, and work for personal growth.
Thanks for spending some time with us today, Aluxer!
We're sure you'll be able to easily
shift your mindsets
and live a better life from here on out.
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