Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence.
Today, we’re showing you 11 things guys do when flirting, that girls creep girls out.
AND because we want to be EXTRA sure that you don’t wrongfully come off as a creep,
We’re also letting you know 1 powerfully simple way to always come across as the normal,
confident guy you really are
So.... here are 11 flirting mistakes that
creep girls out + the 1 thing you need to know to avoid flirting creepiness altogether.
11.Too Much Prolonged Eye Contact
As William Shakespeare once put: “the eyes
are the window to your soul.”
And while this might sound romantic, A girl you’re flirting with does not usually
want to feel like you’re gazing into her soul.
So unless you want her to feel immediately uncomfortable,
Avoid the overly intense eye contact.
10. Seeming Rehearsed
While being generally prepared is unquestionably
good advice, Seeming too rehearsed or too polished can
actually make some girls nervous.
Because you know what they see?
A guy who is pretending to be someone else… and, to everyone, that’s kind of creepy.
So if you want flirting to be spontaneous and fun, instead of creepy and awkward,
The best thing you can prepare for is being ready to improvise a little bit.
9. Learning Too Much About Her On Social Media
So you met her and decided to looked her up
on social media, ...everybody does that, right?
Sure...maybe.
But that doesn’t mean a girl wants you to look at every single picture she has
Because while following some of your natural curiosity about a girl you like is normal,
too much can definitely be concerning to a girl you’re getting to know.
8. Too Much Touching, in the Wrong Places
When done right, touching a girl respectfully
conveys a supreme level of confidence But when a guy is overly touchy and disregards
personal boundaries, there’s probably no faster way to freak
a woman out.
So if you’re going to touch her, here’s 2 quick pieces of advice:
1. Wait for her to touch you first and only after she does
2.Keep it brief, light, and near the arms or shoulders.
7. Making Overly Dirty Jokes or Comments
It may surprise you to find out that, for
the most part, most girls actually have as dirty of a sense
of humor as guys do.
But if you’re just getting to know a girl, It’s probably best to keep the jokes PG,
just in case she’s not quite on the same page yet.
Because if you don’t, you might say something she thinks is creepy...
...and that could immediately kill any attraction she had for you.
6. Paying Too Much Attention to Just Her Body
Not sure what you could be doing that’s
creeping her out?
It might be the way you look at her body.
Now, if a girl catches you overly checking her out,
She might give you a pass the first time.
But if you keep getting caught?
She may quickly start thinking you’re just like the other creepy guys she tries to avoid.
5. You Want to Hang Out Too Much, Too Soon
So you really like a girl and that means you
probably want to hang out with her all the time.
Unfortunately, that’s something that may seem harmless...
...but could backfire and turn into her thinking you’re a creep if you’re not careful.
Because not only can it suggest you don’t have enough going on in your own life,
but if you’re always asking to hang out, it could also make you seem overly obsessive.
Just be sure to take things slowly, and play a little hard to get.
4. Being Inconsistent… or Just Flat-Out Lying
Another thing that can easily happen when you’re nervously trying to impress a girl,
is getting caught saying something that could be perceived as a lie.
Maybe you wanted to make a story better, or maybe you want to seem cooler...
… but if you end up having to backtrack or clarify something you said,
There may be no better way to make her wonder if you’re just another dishonest creep.
3. Giving Her Too Many Fake, Superficial Compliments
One compliment is good, so even more of them
must be better, right?
Wrong.
Not only is showering her with quick, shallow compliments a losing strategy,
But (even if you do mean them) too many can make you seem insincere and desperate...
...both of which are key ingredients to coming across as creepy.
2.Giving Her Heavy Compliments Too Soon
One good intention, that can easily land a
guy in the creep zone, is to come off the wrong way when giving her
a truly heartfelt compliment.
And that’s because there are 3 critical things that, if poorly executed,
can turn a heavy compliment from amazingly kind to downright creepy:
Timing, context and delivery.
So, if you want to give her a big compliment, make sure timing, conversation, and tone
are right.
1. Making Her Think You’re a Pick-Up Artist
You might not be one, you might not even know
what a Pick-Up Artist (PUA) is, but if a girl senses you might only think
of getting with her as a game, You can pretty much guarantee she’ll think
you’re a creep.
Because there’s one thing all creeps have in common, and that a lot of PUAs do:
And that’s making a girl feel like nothing more than an object, and not another person.
If you’re just a normal guy who may tend to come across as a little awkward sometimes,
It’s probably because you’re forgetting to do this one incredibly simple thing:
And that’s to just be yourself.
We know, you’ve heard it before, but because it’s SO important, it bears repeating.
Because you might be strange, you might be unusual, but if you just be yourself
...you’ll never creep out another girl just because you were a little awkward.
Those are the 11 creepiest things guys do when flirting and the 1 thing that could keep
it from happening to you forever.
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