Tripp Kramer here from TrippAdvice.com. I bet if you're doing a lot of dating, and you're
meeting a lot of women, you want to make sure that the woman that you're with is sincere,
honest, trustworthy, and genuine. I know that women are looking for the same thing in you.
I bet that you probably want a woman like that. You don't want someone who's a liar,
a cheater, and someone who you're not sure if they're telling the truth.
On today's video, I'm going over a couple of common sense type of questions, maybe stuff
you haven't thought about that you can ask yourself in terms of this girl that you're
with, whether it is that you're dating, or you're in a relationship with or even been
on a few dates with. These are some questions that are going to help you find out and test
if this girl is someone who is sincere. If she is, great and if she's not, then you are
going to have some trouble ahead.
Hopefully you can find out the answers to these questions much sooner than later, and
you'll know if you're going to be developing a strong relationship with an amazing woman.
Let's get into these, and let's go over them one by one.
The first question to ask yourself is when your girl or the girl says that something
is going to happen, does it actually happen? Does she promise things? Does she keep them?
Does she say she's going to be somewhere, and does she show up? Does she show up on
time to the things that she said she's going to show up? All these different things about
the idea of her words and do her actions align? Is she congruent with that?
When she said something is going down? Does it actually go down? Or does it not? If you
find over and over again, that she's not able to keep her promises, that her words and actions
don't align, this is going to be trouble for you down the road in this relationship.You’re
going to find out if this is someone who's sincere, cares about you, about the relationship
or really likes you, then you're going to find that more times that her words and actions
are not aligned.
You don't have to back 100% on some of the things that I'll be going over today. People
make mistakes, we can be forgiving, but just think about more than not, do these things
happen? Do her words and actions align? Think about that one.
Let's go to the next question. Have you ever witnessed her lying to someone? Of course,
you might know what's going on, maybe there's a situation where you're with her and her
friend, and you know for sure that the girl that you're with is lying. Maybe she even
assumes that you're going to keep up with this lie with her.
There's a billion examples here, but whatever that lie may be or fit may be. This happens
from time to time, it's probably not the biggest deal in the world. But if you see this over
and over again, you see your girl in lies, you know that it's a lie, she's telling someone
something that's untrue. I have to say that might mean that she might be telling something
to you that's untrue.
There's a famous saying how you do anything, is how you do everything. If you see someone
doing something over and over again, you can almost assume that they're doing it over and
over again. In this situation, she could be lying to you. I mean, not for sure, but there's
a good chance if you see this happening a lot.
The next one is, have you ever seen her withhold information in order to avoid conflict, or
for things to go smoother? This is a form of lying. If you don't say something that
might be true, it could be a lie. We're talking about situations where she doesn't want to
say the whole truth because if she does, then it might cause a fight.
You know what I'm talking about, those situations where it seems like she's holding back some
details. She's not giving you the story, something seems a little shady or off. Then finally
maybe a couple hours, days, or weeks down the road, you find out that there was more
to the story. If this ever happens, this could be a definite sign that this woman is not
sincere. At the end of the day, what you really want is someone to be honest with you and
communicate as honestly as possible.
Let's be honest, in order for you to have a successful relationship with a girl, in
order for you to have a successful dating relationship with a girl, whatever it may
be, you want to make sure that you guys are communicating properly and completely honest.
The lies, deceit, and shading is only going to cause future problems down the road. If
you find that this is happening, more times than not, this is a big red flag.
Have you ever witnessed her lie or cheat or do something unkind and then condemn someone
else for doing the exact same thing? I guess at this point, we're talking about hypocrisy.
Something that she thinks is wrong, but then does herself. If you've ever witnessed this,
we've ever seen this happen with this girl, this is another red flag.
Obviously, this is something that's untrustworthy if she's doing something unkind or lying or
cheating or something like that. It goes a step further, when they start condemning other
people for it, when they start putting other people down for it. They know themselves that
that is wrong, but they're doing it anyways. It's one thing if one person is doing something
wrong, and they're not even really aware of it, that's a whole other conversation, that's
screwed up.
Either way, if they're condemning other people or putting other people down, they're calling
out other people, and saying to you like, x y z did something bad or said something
terrible, then she's doing it, hypocrisy is a big problem. You don't want to be with someone
who's doing malicious, bad or untrustworthy things, when them themselves know that it
is wrong.
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