- [Peniel] Have you guys ever been bullied?
- [Jamie] Yeah.
- [Ashley] Yeah. - [BM] Yeah yeah.
- [Jamie] What was the reason?
- [BM] Well one was…
I think for the most part because I used to be really like heavyweight.
I used to be a little bit obese.
So like guys would come up to me and like titty scoop me a lot.
And that kind of like is just like…
You know friends do that with each other
but there would be times I remember where I would get titty scooped
but I wouldn't like it.
But I wouldn't want to fight them because I feel like they could beat my ***.
So I'd be like, “Hahaha…”
- [Jamie] It seems like you like it.
- [BM] No no no no.
Oh is that what it seemed like?
- [Jamie] You’re like, “Can you do it more?
- [BM] This is my uncomfortable like you know…
Maybe that's why they kept doing it to me.
“Oh he likes the titty scoop. Hey scoop him again.”
- [Jamie] Scoop. Scoop.
Yeah uh…
No one likes a titty scoop.
Just putting that out there for you mother*******.
Who keep titty scooping the people.
You know what I mean?
Don't titty scoop us.
- [Peniel] I might’ve been guilty.
- [BM] I don't know… I just don't like it.
- [Ashley] At least you had some titty to scoop.
- [BM] Damn… You bullying yourself?
- [Peniel] Alright that is the end of this episode guys.
Thank you for listening.
- [Ashley] I'm proud okay.
- [Jamie] They'll be taking the time and be like, “Can't relate.”
- [BM] Aye there used to be a dude back in my junior high that used to stick lead in my back.
Like because he sat behind me.
- [Jamie] What? - [Ashley] No way.
- [BM] Yeah he used to like just like stick lead in my back.
Like you know how we had led pencils.
He'd be like…
Stick it in my back…
Stop…
Did that look like I liked it too?
- [Jamie] He's like…
“I'm doing something nice.”
Yeah so like I was so…
I was so mad that like one day I was just gonna be like…
He was big. He was big big.
So I was like, “Oh man.”
I got so tired of it I was like,
“Damn do I need to get down with him?
Do I need to fight him right?”
And then a couple days…
Like I kept thinking about it and I was like, “Okay I'm gonna do it.
Today's the day and then…
I don't know if it was that that day or that week or I don't know the time frame too specifically.
But he got expelled for hitting a guy in the face so hard that his tooth came out of his skin.
I was like I was so happy I didn't start my fight with him bro.
That could have been me.
Let's put it out there one time that violence is not the answer guys.
Yes yes yes.
- [BM] Not the answer.
- [Peniel] It is not.
- [Peniel] Okay anyways yes.
- [Jamie] So have you ever been bullied?
- [Ashley] Yeah when I first moved to the states…
Because since my parents were working really late I had to go to after school.
like hagwon after school.
And there were unnies.
There were like two unnies who were like four years older than me.
And I was very introverted and very shy.
And I wouldn't talk a lot.
And especially because I couldn't speak English.
But I understood a lot of it at that point but I just didn't speak.
And I would be there and they would talk crap about me right in front of my face.
But smile to me and be like,
“Oh she has no idea what we're talking about.
She's so stupid like she thinks she's so smart.”
And then they would like steal my pencil case.
And like you know…
Like pinch me. Give me Indian burn.
But like laugh the whole time it's like, “Hahaha.”
But I would be in pain but I wouldn't be able to be like, “Stop.”
I'd just laugh.
I’d do what BM did.
- [BM] That's what usually the victim of bullying does.
- [Ashley] Yeah.
- [BM] You don't have the courage to be like, “Stop.”
You know what I mean?
- [Peniel] Stop. - [Jamie] It’s the one person...
That is actually doing it.
But if that person is not there…
- [BM] They don’t do it? - [Jamie] They don't do it.
- [Ashley] There's always that one person who initiates it.
I would just cry on the way home every day.
- [Jamie] The teacher does nothing.
That’s the problem.
- [Ashley] Because on the way home the teacher dropped me off and he knows i'm crying…
But he'd be like, “Oh it's because you're too nice just understand.”
- [Peniel] Wait what?
That like contradicts itself.
- [Ashley] Just be understanding.
- [Peniel] That’s ‘cause you're too nice…
So just understand.