hi there and welcome to the 3x confidence and authenticity masterclass
program I'd like to start by congratulating you for taking some steps
to rebuild your confidence and to become more authentic it takes humility
and courage to do this I know because I've been there my name is Dan Munro
I'm a confidence coach based out of New Zealand and I run the men's group the
BROJO as well and I'm here because I wanted to get the information I've
learned over the last five years out into the world there is so much out
there on how to build confidence and what authenticity is which is unhelpful
stuff I want to undo that damage I want to show you what actually works I come
from a background of not being confident as I grew up I developed what I call a
people-pleasing persona I became obsessed with seeking approval from
other people with being validated by other people I needed people to like me
to approve of what I'm doing to pat me on the back and tell me that I'm a good
boy in order to enjoy life and even when it happened it still wasn't good enough
for me there was this underlying anxiety all the time worrying about what people
think of me what results I might get and so on I realized as i hit my mid-20s
that something was wrong that I wasn't enjoying life the way it was going that
despite achievements despite trying all these different things I still wasn't
sure of myself I still waited for other people to give me the approval I sought I
started to ask is there another way another way to live after a background
in psychology working with rehabilitating criminal offenders and
managing staff in that area I started to realize that you're not what you're born
you can be something new you can change the way things are for you you can
change your behavior you can change the way you think and eventually you can
even change the way you feel and what I realized over time was that I
wasn't trying to build something new I was trying to rediscover something I
once had the concept of authenticity is my belief that you can be yourself
through the actions you take every day through living by the values that mean
something to you it's one of those things that's much easier said than done
and I believe I've discovered the process by which you can do this where
you can courageously live in a way where you don't apologize for who you are and
you do the things that are meaningful and fun and enjoyable for you most of
the time creating that confidence and that sense of meaning and purpose in
your life and that's what this program is all about through a model I've
developed called the 3X model I will show you how to live in a way where you
get to be yourself and feel good about it all of the time I will show you how
to let go of all the limiting beliefs and the fears that were bred into you as
you grew up when you're too young to do anything about it how to let go of the
beliefs that don't serve you well and to change the behaviors that you are doing
right now to sabotage your enjoyment of life I come from knowing I've been
through that I suffered the pain of no confidence of uncertainty of being a
fake person and through that I learned how to get back to what we're all born
with that authentic self the person we wish we were I want to help you bridge
that gap I want you to stop being who you are and start being who you're
supposed to be now I'm going to break that down for you step by step I'll see
you there