hey there it's clay with modern love dot life and in this video I want to share
with you a no-contact success story that I've had the fortune of knowing over the
years and that is I mean obviously I shared with you my personal story but I
want to share with you a story from somebody that I've worked with and his
name was Evan we worked with him one-on-one a while back
and his situation was actually kind of strange because he was I mean it's kind
of surprisingly dating a supermodel which is awesome but she actually left
him for another guy another guy that he didn't really think was kind of like at
his level but kind of like below his level they had that connection with each
other because that other guy that was actually able to form an emotional
connection with his supermodel girlfriend and so they got together much
to Evans disappointment and heaven what he did next was a sort of form of active
no contact which is again like I mentioned before there's no one single
no contact rule but he did the act of no contact that we suggest and he actually
started this on his own without us really needing to prod him too much he
started in a sort of sense in a way by going on a vapo sauna meditation retreat
which is kind of crazy when you think about it ten days of complete silence
I've gone on and done something like that myself too and that's a real test
of will right there if you ever get the chance to do that I would strongly
recommend that you give it a shot but anyway after he got out of that the
Posten retreat we continued to work on him through active no contact through
being able to develop his ability to interact with and relate to other people
and develop his advanced relational skills which is kind of the the core
underpinning of what we teach in our courses and what we teach to help people
get back together with somebody that they love and so he was going through
active no contact he went through all the stuff that we recommended and then
when he actually did start to get back in touch with his ex and restore that
contact she was able to see a very dramatic change in his way of being and
his ability to connect with it took a little bit of while for her to
actually trust that this was the real him because again you know anybody can
say things like oh I've changed right but but nobody's gonna buy it unless you
actually follow through with consistency and they can just learn to trust that
wow this is like the new you this is the new game in town right yeah the old you
that I broke up with that's a long gone and this is just the new you and once
you finally got that that's when she really started to feel frustrated with
this other guy because she was able to get everything that she liked about Evan
plus the emotional connection and this other guy just wasn't really as
appealing anymore so she really broke up with him and decided to try to get back
together with Evan now at this point Evan was not really certain if he wanted
to get back together with her but he had that option okay he had the option to
choose whether he wanted her back in his life or whether he wanted to you know
find somebody else to date and so that's that's a true no contact a success story
that's one that I've had the pleasure of knowing over the years and I hope that
this has helped give you some sort of guidance or meaningful takeaway from
this whole experience anyway if you'd like to learn more about
the no contact rule more about how to get back together with your ex just go
ahead and click down below if you're watching this video on YouTube you can
go ahead and click the link in the description box and that'll take you to
our website relationship inner game.com where you can just fill out a quick
little thing about kind of you know how long has it been since your breakup are
you talking to your ex you're not talking your exes your ex and your
ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend your ex-wife your ex-husband all that stuff
and we'll go ahead and start sending you some customized advice and strategies
based off of your responses okay and again that's over at relationship
inner game.com if you are watching this on our website modern love dot life you
can go ahead and click the link below this video and that will take you over
to a page where we're going to tell you more about some of the more advanced
strategies and tactics that we use to help people get back together with their
ex and again that is just down below so anyway if you could go ahead and leave a
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been relationship in her game and I'll talk to you in the next video
take care