- What do you men really find beautiful in a woman?
Is it the exterior, or is it really the interior?
And what are they actually attracted to?
Well, if you wanna know, then keep watching.
Hi guys.
My name is Ieva Bereisaite
I am one of Greta's high-value women coaches.
And in today's video, I'm gonna name five things
that men find beautiful in women.
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Men see with their eyes, just like everyone else.
But real beauty does not come from the exterior.
Looking at someone and finding them physically attractive
is different than to actually finding them beautiful.
I absolutely love this number one thing,
and it is being positive and being feminine.
Being positive is a very good personality trait
that not everybody has.
Of course life can get hard sometimes for sure.
And it's not always flowers and rainbow,
but it's about still being positive
and having a positive outlook on life
even when things do get hard.
Someone who is negative or complains a lot
is not a nice person to be around.
And a person who is around someone like that
might start feeling drained and negative themselves.
Being feminine co-relates to positivity very well.
And the reason being is, for example,
a masculine thing to do is to be a constant motivator,
right?
Motivating, making people take action, that is masculine.
An an example of that,
like the biggest example that I have is Tony Robbins.
He's a very masculine man.
He's a motivator, right?
It's so much more feminine to be positive instead.
The guy is so much more prone naturally
if he is high value, to be motivational, right?
He should be the motivational one in the relationship.
And what I mean by being feminine and being positive
is to have a good outlook on life.
You don't have to become Tony Robbins,
but just being positive and being feminine
is a beautiful trait to have.
And it goes hand-in-hand, right?
Like motivational, masculine, feminine, positive.
That's the way that I see it,
and that's how I differentiate the two a little bit better.
When a woman is positive, it brings comfort, right?
When a person in general is positive,
it decreases anxiety and it brings comfort.
And a man who is maybe just negative for whatever reason,
because something happened, and he's just upset,
and you're being the positive one,
it stabilizes the situation for him more.
And it's a very, very good and beautiful trait to have.
If you're able to shine a positive light
on a situation that might be difficult, it's a wow factor.
Not many people can do it.
It really is a wow factor.
And that type of vibe is very magnetic.
You want to be around a person who is positive.
They light up a room.
It's a healthy thing to do, right, to be positive.
However, it's not about faking positivity.
It's literally about growing within yourself
and becoming positive,
making it a natural characteristical trait.
And of course that takes time,
but it's very, very beneficial.
So it's never about faking being positive.
It's actually about learning to be positive
and having it as a characteristical trait,
and it is very beautiful,
and it's a wonderful trait and characteristic to have,
and it comes hand-in-hand to femininity.
The second thing that men find beautiful is to be confident
and to be yourself.
Confidence is something that needs to be learned
just like positivity is something that needs to be learned.
Confidence is very similar to that.
And it's like, confidence is like a muscle
that you have to train in order for it to grow.
Okay?
And that is what it really comes down to.
Confidence within yourself starts growing
when you become high value.
When you're learning how to become high value in your life
and in your relationship,
your confidence level also starts growing.
Just like when you grow a muscle when you go to the gym,
when you work out and lift weights, your muscles will grow.
It's the same with confidence.
Being confident has a lot to do with setting boundaries
and not letting people step all over you.
When you truly love yourself for who you are,
and you love who you are becoming,
your confidence grows.
Confidence also has a lot to do with stating your opinion,
telling a person if you like something,
or if you don't like something.
And we should all be confident within ourselves
and work on growing that part of us.
Confidence comes down to not,
again, not faking confidence,
just like not faking positivity.
It's more about growing your confidence
and knowing what you like, what you don't like,
what is okay, what is not okay,
what you accept, what you don't accept.
This shows a lot of maturity,
and it shows a lot of self awareness, okay?
And those two factors are very attractive.
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The third thing that men find beautiful
is when a woman has a good heart.
And I'll give you a couple of examples
of what I mean by that.
It's more to do with hearing people out when they speak,
right, being a good listener.
It's more about respecting people
and looking at people in the eyes when they talk to you.
It's not just about being confident, this and that.
It's literally about being a good person,
having a good heart,
caring for people who are important to you.
Doing good things and being kind is a very feminine trait.
And because of that,
it is something that men do find very attractive
and beautiful, a kind hearted woman,
a good woman who, for example, goes to church,
or has good morals, has good values,
does good things, donates money to charity,
or is just a good person
and cares in a way about others in a healthy way.
And it's generally important for yourself
to have good morals and values
because you also want to have a partner
who also obviously has a good heart and is a good person.
So of course it makes a lot of sense to start with yourself
and to become that person.
And so again, this being a very feminine, positive,
and confident trait.
And again, it's something that has to be learned.
And not only do you benefit from this,
everyone in your surrounding benefits
from you being a good person and having good morals.
And it is definitely something that is maybe quite rare,
but it's definitely something that is
genuinely very beautiful and a very feminine trait to have.
And it's something that men are really attracted to.
At the end of the day,
you do want to have a relationship with a person
who is a good person, who has good morals, has good values.
And what's the best way to start
being with that kind of person?
Well, it's to become that type of person yourself,
because then you automatically set a standard
for what you're going to accept and not accept.
The 5th thing that men find beautiful
is to not really care what other people say,
and to be more or less a free soul.
Do your thing and do what you think is right.
Be who you are.
Becoming high value has nothing to do with
changing who you are.
It has a lot more to do with amplifying yourself
and leveling up on the good qualities that you have
and adding in more good qualities
that will benefit your life and your relationship, right?
So enjoy life, learn, go for your dreams,
go for your goals.
And when you do go for your dreams and for your goals,
it's important not to care
about the criticism of other people.
And a lot of people are held back from achieving their goals
and their dreams because they care too much
of what other people think, right?
And it's very fear-based.
And so when you stop caring
and realize that you're the one who's in charge
of your own happiness and of your own life,
and you do take the steps to achieve
whatever it is that you desire,
and you set a path for yourself, that is very beautiful.
It's important to have something
that you want to genuinely succeed in.
Because again, it shows that
he's not the most important person in your life.
You have your desires, and your wishes,
and your goals that you want to succeed in.
He's not on the pedestal.
He is not anywhere near that.
He is just a part of your life,
but you have a different side to you
that is also just as important,
and it is to succeed in whatever it is that you desire.
And that is a big turn on,
and it is very beautiful
because in a way it shows perseverance,
and it shows that he's not the most important thing
that's going on in your life.
And a lot of the time,
when a woman gets in a relationship with a man,
she drops a lot of her hobbies.
She drops a lot of things that make her happy
to spend more time with him.
And then his interest will automatically fail
because you're pursuing him.
So don't be pursuing the guy.
Be pursuing whatever it is that you desire in your life.
Right?
And he will then notice that,
and he will start pursuing you.
Continue focusing on what it is that you want to achieve,
even if you don't have anyone in your life now,
you're in the beginning stages of dating,
or if you're in a relationship, or if you're in a marriage.
Whatever the case is,
have things outside of him that bring you joy
and that you want to get, and that you want to receive.
That is very beautiful.
And it just shows that you have your goal,
and you're not gonna be listening to the criticism
outside of you, especially if it's not gonna be helping.
And it shows your strength as a woman
in a very positive light.
And yeah, it shows that you are a free soul.
You chase the goals that you want to achieve.
So those were my five things
that men find beautiful in a woman.
I would absolutely love to know which one of these things
or reasons you like the most
and what you resonate with the most.
And I would love to know that.
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